I'm just wondering why guys need sex so badly. I've heard it often that, it is biologically wired into males that they need sex and lots of it. But why? It is cuz they have to release lots of sperm? But some girls are really horny too so why is it that guys need sex soooo badly???
I've dated guys and once they find out that I wanna save sex for marriage they end it. People tell me "Well guys have their needs and although they may like and respect you, they put sex as their #1 priority and that's why they end it & go for another girl who is willing to put out"
So other than the fact that sex is pleasurable, why do men "have to have" sex so badly???
2006-12-12 18:56:21 · 18 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We don't its just that many guys use it for an excuse. "Oh baby you don't understand I have needs." Its garbage, they have the need to hump everything with boobs and two legs because they are sluts, and need a good excuse for their trashy behavior.
-NmD!
2006-12-12 19:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Male hormones...what a dandy thing, I tell ya! Speaking as a woman, I can't very well give you the answer you might be looking for, but I can relate. I've been in a relationship for over 14 years, and my spouse is STILL acting like we're on our Honeymoon! It hasn't slowed down, and I feel like I'm getting too old to be acting like 'rabbits', at this stage in our relationship. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy sex, very much, but I don't 'need' it in the way a 'man' does, I guess.
Have you heard of the saying that a man thinks about sex 300+ times a day??? Well, that may be true, to some extent, but I think it's in their nature, because men will be men, and maybe they DO "think" between their legs!! I don't know the chemistry of a male mind, but I do know that men are more prone to having these urges to fulfill, more than women.
If a guy breaks up with a girl because she won't 'put out', then that's not a relationship. He's only in it for his own selfish reasons, and not respecting the girl, who has her beliefs set on 'waiting' (as it should be).
I'm not old fashion, as I am not married, only living in common-law, and we have two children, but, I fully support a girl waiting until the time is right and with the one man she knows she'll be with (forever, or for a long time - keeping it realistic, things can change!)...
2006-12-12 19:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by argamedius 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 12:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a pile of rubbish.
There are many women out there with higher sex drives than the majority of men, and want sex as badly as the males with high sex drives.
2006-12-12 18:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
guys are physical and visual creatures (i.e. sex and porn)
women are emotional and verbal (i.e. talking about feelings)
Men don't think of sex all the time... just on average about every 7 seconds...
I could go on about how "not all men are like this" but I'm sure you wouldn't believe me anyway. It's true to a point, but mostly men just want to find a mate that can mate.
2006-12-12 19:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by pro_steering_wheel_holder 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is a two way road hun... not all men are like that and some women are like what you've described. you've just come across the wrong men in your life i suppose. i'm a bunny as opposed to my boyfriend, but he has no problem with it. we just have different sexual drives. and you cant honestly want to dangle a sweet in fron of a baby and not expect them to go crazy and not want it.
2006-12-12 19:04:03 · answer #6 · answered by Reb Da Rebel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it a psychological ploy on the part of women. Like reverse physiology, I mean psychology. See, us guy's were just good easy going people. Women in their obsessive lust for our bodies try to make us poor helpless guys believe we need this. Women just use us for their sex toy and then throw us away for a new toy. I can see by your question you doing the very same thing. But, I am on to you wild women, so, now....................... we ready for sex? :-P
2006-12-12 19:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by Snaglefritz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps the ones that you dated were looking for a sexual partner instead of a companion whom they can emotionally grow with.
You need not change your principles; the person that you wish will respect your wishes will arrive.
2006-12-12 19:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by tranquil 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PRIMATIVE CULTURE:
1) Women were made to raise families and gather. This is why women live longer than men and why one man can father several offspring to several women and why women gather (nuts and berries)
2) Men are programmed to have intercourse. One man several years older than a female can procreate several offspring throught several women. Men are hunters (gather meat, protection and die sooner)
2006-12-12 18:58:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Saving yourself until marriage is a noble idea. Keep at it.
2006-12-12 19:00:32 · answer #10 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋