when im with my best friend
like when we walk somewhere
he holds me from my wrist
but he squeezes it like alot and it hurts me
and i tell him not to do that
but he keeps doing it
and i feel that he thinks im like hes property
why doe he do this??
2006-12-12 19:17:09 · 7 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah hes a guy
2006-12-12 19:21:21 · update #1
Because you have not shown him you are serious about him not doing it and it is a control thing, if he can get away with one he WILL pick another, and another, and another.
Put your foot down, when he does this, step away and say IN A VERY STERN VOICE, "DO NOT DO THAT!! If you cannot respect me or my body then I do not need to be around you." Then walk away. If he calls and apologizes and says he will not do it again, then one more chance is ok, if he does, leave him alone FOR GOOD, trust me it will be better that way.
2006-12-12 19:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by lisads1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull back exaggerated and say oww. Treat it as a joke and laugh about it. Maybe even play hit him. This will lessen the blow and hopefully make him get the point that you don't want him to do it anymore.
2006-12-13 03:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by Klayonic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he doesn't have alot of respect towards you. Usually when a guy continues to hurt you (like squeezing your wrist) after you've told them to stop, is a sign he is abusive...BE CAREFUL!!
2006-12-13 03:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by Lynn (AzCrazyGirl) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is violating you & your personal space. Not a good guy to hang around with since he continues after you tell him not to. Him touching you against your will is a crime.
2006-12-13 03:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT IS EXACTLY WHY HE DOES IT, HE WANT TO PROVE TO OTHERS THAT YOUR HIS PROPERTY. HE WANT TO SHOW YOUR FRIEND THAT HES IN CHARGE, THAT HE COMES FIRST THAT THEY DO.. AND HE KEEPS DOING IT AFTER YOU TELL HIM TO STOP? WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR? DUMP HIM!
2006-12-13 03:20:57 · answer #5 · answered by zoilaciri 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is your best friend a guy? mabe he's jealous
2006-12-13 03:20:21 · answer #6 · answered by Niknok 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants to keep you close to him...
2006-12-13 03:21:16 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋