Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

i have this friend of mine...she's really dear to me but she have caused me so much heartaches..we've never talked for few months now but we're living in the same house...we're boardmates...she's the sister i never had...she wanted me not to treat her special as she doesn't want to treat anyone that way...so i did what i know would please her....i wanted to approach her now but i'm afraid of the pain...fear of getting too close and holding anyone too dear...if i'd do i know it means exposing my heart to get hurt again..and i don't want to experience such pains again....i know she cares for me...it's just that she's not expressive....does it worth the pains i might gain?

2006-12-12 20:36:28 · 2 answers · asked by krung2 2 in Friends

My boyfriend said, - i love you,? and I was so excited and so freaked out that I didn't say anything back. We met on www.blackcentury.com and we both think love is color blind. I'm

white and he is black man. He looked like he wanted to die with embarrassment, but I just couldn't say it. He's been avoiding me, now. What should I do? If you also belive 'love is color blind', this site would be fit for you:)

I'm waiting for your help. Hurry! We have a candle supper this weekend.

2006-12-12 20:36:28 · 7 answers · asked by Coco 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-12 20:36:19 · 22 answers · asked by sheesnhan 2 in Singles & Dating

I was born with an adam's apple but I'm not male, but I could have been born a different sex wouldn't I know if I was born a different sex?

2006-12-12 20:36:04 · 8 answers · asked by betsy s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

are they really interested in the person?

whats the point even???

if you really like a guy and hes playing "this game", whats the best thing to do???

2006-12-12 20:35:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 20:35:33 · 5 answers · asked by Lee Edward 1 in Singles & Dating

I observed the negligence towards me in his voice, i can say strongly one thing that if he really loves me , love is far word atleast have somefeeling for me, he would have not discuss about us infront of others , he would have kept it secret, he will discuss our matter with whole world except with me, i was happy before meeting this popular man,now he say dont laugh, is it necessary for me to spoil myself with his hangover ? i dont say the true love will disappare in a day or a month , i still love him , but it is necessary for me to control myself, as i cannot found love for me from him, as it is comparitively finding water in the desert in the mid summer.
I will laugh when i am happy i never acted for anybody , i dont know the different types of laugths also.
Its better for me if he stops giving slow poison , he knows the meaning for this, as he is a great manipulator.

2006-12-12 20:35:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 20:35:20 · 11 answers · asked by La-Soph 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am completing 32yrs on the 16th of december,and i look 24,at least thats what i get to be told.i come from a very not so poor family,raised by two not so old then people,grand"parents" which tried to do just about everything for us,meaning me,my cousin brother and cousin sister,i might sound like i have no appreciation for what they did for me,however my grand parents have the way of doing things the apparteid way,if i may say so,when my cousin sister do things they get to be worshiped coz she's depandant and educated,and when my cousin brother do things he gets to be yeald at and then it goes away,i feel like i'm being panished for my late mothers sins,that she was an alchoholic,and she left us her kids unattended,and they had to find us,raise us,and we didn't turn out to be what they wanted,hence i'm staying with a step mom,and have no idea where my two brothes are,maybe i disapointd them when i had a child,i sometimes feel lost,its like i have so many questions,without answers.

2006-12-12 20:34:40 · 1 answers · asked by Beer Lehai Roi 1 in Family

he is older than me about 7 years.

2006-12-12 20:34:35 · 6 answers · asked by yuriko 1 in Friends

2006-12-12 20:33:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 20:32:24 · 1 answers · asked by arsenalsalam 2 in Singles & Dating

i have this boyfriend that i have been seeing for 5 months and he asked me to move with him. i just got out of a 6 year relationship and i want to but then i dont want to not yet he buys me stuff and is a complete gentalman when we go out places and he even gave me one of his cars to drive until i get money together to get my own car. i have a cat and i couldnt have it where i stay at now and he was nice enough to keep here at his house for me until i get my own place. can he be true? should i move in to his house? that i might say is his he owns it.......

2006-12-12 20:32:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he has 2 other kids by his ex i dont know if hell ever settle down or keep tying to play the field with both of us shes told me he told her he loved me but she the type of person even if the sleep together she wouldnt tell as long as she has some part of him but i care what should i do

2006-12-12 20:31:56 · 10 answers · asked by pussy2damngood 2 in Family

2006-12-12 20:31:55 · 7 answers · asked by Samkool 1 in Marriage & Divorce

assume both of them dont know how to swim

2006-12-12 20:30:46 · 24 answers · asked by KO 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i lovesomebody, but he knows nothing about my feelings. we talk to ourselves mostly everyday. he sometimes asks of me to have sex with him but i cant do sth wrong like that. i made him understand that im a good girl not bad one. i wanna him to know that i love him but how. i dont want to say : hi honey, i love u !!! , i really dont want this way. And i always ask myself whether he likes me or even got feelings towards me or not? her im asking u. can u answer my questions ?!!!!.

2006-12-12 20:30:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 20:30:02 · 12 answers · asked by flavorlicious 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a girl i like is dating someone. i have been planning on asking her out up until i got a new peice of information, her boyfriend is a "blood". I have no problem asking her out but i don't wanna get my *** blown off in the process. what should i do?

2006-12-12 20:29:49 · 1 answers · asked by KNiGhTMARE 1 in Friends

My mother-in-law hated me from the day she met me. Our first meeting ended with her pulling my then girlfriend aside and asking her 'what is that?'. She spent the entire day looking at me as if I were something unpleasant that she'd stepped in which was noticed by everyone which continued everytime we saw her. I have never been anything but polite and friendly to her despite her obvious dislike for me and she has frequently called me names and made spiteful remarks to my now wife in my absence.
Whenever my girlfriend and I had problems, often because of her behaviour and my girlfriends reluctance to say anything to her, she ran to her mother and allowed her mother to call me everything from a 'control freak' to 'that prick'. We are now married and I told my wife that I will not deal with her after everything she has said. Am I right to refuse to deal with her and is it fair of me to tell my wife that she must defend me or I will defend myself?

2006-12-12 20:29:34 · 13 answers · asked by jaynic72 3 in Family

She apologised for the Wizards Sleeve. I was embarrassed and did not know what to say. What should i have said to have made her feel better about the Wizards Sleeve in that moment rather than having the silence.

She is a single mother who i feel sorry for and will not be seeing again due to the Wizards Sleeve.

Was silence the best Answer or could i have put her at ease through lies.

2006-12-12 20:29:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 20:29:12 · 9 answers · asked by samandjakey 1 in Weddings

2006-12-12 20:29:12 · 5 answers · asked by Angad 4 in Singles & Dating

or dump him? would you think he was gay or just wanted to be dominated

2006-12-12 20:27:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HoW Can i Be in Love ? evry one i meet him its like best frind but no lobe what can i do 2 feel in love ?

2006-12-12 20:27:00 · 6 answers · asked by FaT_GiRL 1 in Singles & Dating

He's a major asshole but was around for almost a year. What's it going to take for her to finally get over him?

2006-12-12 20:26:27 · 6 answers · asked by Ryan 1 in Singles & Dating

I hate People, does that mean there is something wrong with me? When think of going outside I have a panic attack and grab a bottle of whisky to calm myself down. I also have panic attacks when I see the fresh prince of bel-air on t.v. and go into convulsions? Any help?

2006-12-12 20:26:09 · 10 answers · asked by betsy s 1 in Family

Whenever i meet a nice guy i think hes the right one for me but i am always wrong! am i ever going to find the right guy??? why doesnt it ever work out for me!!!!! :-(

2006-12-12 20:25:56 · 8 answers · asked by Chilli W 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 20:25:12 · 5 answers · asked by slipstreamer 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I see beautiful menlyn mall, pretoria, south africa (I'm working)

2006-12-12 20:25:04 · 13 answers · asked by Cyrill sneer 2 in Singles & Dating