are they really interested in the person?
whats the point even???
if you really like a guy and hes playing "this game", whats the best thing to do???
2006-12-12 20:35:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm not a guy, but the chase is fun. it's exciting to be sought after and romanced. if it's just a game though, and he's just a womaniser, get rid of him. playing games to manipulate someone is mean, stupid, and a waste of time.
2006-12-12 20:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by soren 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it this way, if some women didn't play "the game" too, then some men wouldn't need to chase them would they?
After all, no one wants to chase something that can't run away! The whole point is that it's a feeling of conquest........if things are handed to you on a plate then they lose a certain exclusivity, if they are elusive, then you want it all the more.
Don't forget, it takes two!
2006-12-12 20:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Coming from someone who only likes the chase I must say it is because I get a great deal of satisfaction from trying and succeeding over a certain time. Girls that give it up to easily, wheres the fun in that? Building up a friendship (even if its a flirtatious one) reaps dividends in the long run because you have more of a gauge to see if this person is someone you can tolerate.
The chase is all important.
2006-12-12 20:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by Shaun W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They do it because they have nothing better to do. It's the thrill of the 50/50 chance they are gonna get thier prize or lose it. The best thing to do is use him if you don't really like him or are unsure.
2006-12-12 20:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by nolyfeTc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start playing the game too.
2006-12-12 20:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by Puma 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
According to the crazy bint I sit next to at work, it isn't just guys that do this.
She does it all the time. She see's what she wants and doesn't stop until she has it.
2006-12-12 20:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hated chasing girls .... so i dont anymore... now im being chased...funny if only i had figured that out a bit sooner
2006-12-12 20:55:59 · answer #7 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes... the girl is so special... so heartpounding attractive in so many ways... that it might be overpowering to make the fantasy in to a reality.
2006-12-12 20:38:35 · answer #8 · answered by Narky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, I hate all this game stuff, but as soon as I have them I lose interest!
2006-12-12 20:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by voodoobluesman 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That depends on you actually... are you a game player too? If you are - play the game. If not, dump him quickly and move on....
2006-12-12 20:39:15 · answer #10 · answered by Exotic_beauty 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋