i have this friend of mine...she's really dear to me but she have caused me so much heartaches..we've never talked for few months now but we're living in the same house...we're boardmates...she's the sister i never had...she wanted me not to treat her special as she doesn't want to treat anyone that way...so i did what i know would please her....i wanted to approach her now but i'm afraid of the pain...fear of getting too close and holding anyone too dear...if i'd do i know it means exposing my heart to get hurt again..and i don't want to experience such pains again....i know she cares for me...it's just that she's not expressive....does it worth the pains i might gain?
2006-12-12 20:36:28 · 2 answers · asked by krung2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you should leave it until you feel more confident in what you will be trying to express. What's the point in sharing your heart and soul just to go through all the pain again?. I know from experience of giving somebody everything (emotionally and physically) to make them happy, only for them to leave me brokenhearted and alone. Don't try to please someone too much, it's a two way thing and sometimes you just have to think of yourself and make yourself happy first.
2006-12-12 21:57:01 · answer #1 · answered by CitrusLime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the pain depends on ur opinion and ofcourse a lot on the mentality of tht girl.................
2006-12-12 20:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by For peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋