I cut myself-a teacher found out and I was questioned by the counselor but I lied, what should I do?

Question

i dont want professional help or ne thing, but now my friends and teacher r really worried....wut sud i do? tell them the whole truth? or try to work it out on my own....?

i dont want pro help cuz i dont want my parenst to kno, and if i tell the schoo, counselor he WOULD tell my parents and i WONT have that

Answer 1

I do not understand the background of your situation. But if you have cut your-self, you are practically sending out a sign to let people be aware and pay more attention to you. I am sorry, but as much as you do not want attention from other people. Your friends and teachers, and if I'm allowed to mention, your family, love you. At least, talk to someone you trust. Maybe your best friend, parents, sister/brother, teacher, or even a priest. Share with them. If you feel ashamed to tell whatever is bothering you right now, you will just have to pick up the courage and tell someone. I know it is your privacy. But maybe you'd find a better solution for your problem by talking it with other people, rather than keeping it by yourselves. Don't hurt yourself, ok. Good luck.

Answer 2

Babe, you NEED to seek some counseling. This happens but it's important for you to understand and deal with why you are self-mutilating. It won't just go away and you shouldn't have to hurt yourself to feel. My preschooler has recently been diagnosed with Sensory Integration Dysfunction and it really dawned on me when they mentioned that these kids seek input and will often run into things or jump off of high places (my son does this), pain is a kind of pleasure for them and gives them a place in the world and this may be the same for you or you could have some mental numbness due to childhood trauma. Either way, you are worth more to the world than you are letting yourself be worth. You deserve to feel what you need to feel without hurting yourself to feel it. You are a person who has needs like the rest of us and if they aren't being met, they need to be met and you can't do it alone by self-mutilating. Help yourself and see your family doctor, they can't tell your parents anything if you ask them not to and are looking to actively seek help. Good luck and please take care.

Answer 3

If you're trying to deal with it all on you're own, and you're cutting yourself, you're failing. If you can't have your parents in on this something is majorly wrong there. Many many people going through bad problems and family should be one strong support for you. (And you should be old enough to 'fess up to your parents and tell them that you need some amount of emotional support from them)
Yeah that school-couselor-tattling is one big pain. Sad that they have to do that.
Tell your friends the truth - I'd forget anyone logged into the system - that way lies madness.

Good luck, and take care.

Answer 4

Well cutting is not the way to finding a solution, so if you are cutting trying to make any problems go away, you shouldn't. I know it seems hard but if there is something bothering you that is making you do that, talk to the counselors about it, after all, they are there to help you. Good luck and I hope everything gets better.

Answer 5

You need help. You need to talk it out with someone your teacher and friends are a good place to start. And I don't know why you don't want professional help. But it is nothing to be ashamed of. When you get the flu you go to the doctor. Same thing with psych help. Sometimes there are problems that we need help to cope with. Take care.

Answer 6

I know cutting probably gives you a sense of control, but you are way out of control if you're actually doing it. You need help, and your friends and teacher should be very worried about you. Tell them the truth and get help now.

Answer 7

First of all, do you know why you do this to yourself? If not, the reason why you cut yourself is to feel alive the feeling of euphoria, happiness. The adrenalin in our bodies is a harmone which is produced in response to stress, it increases the rate of blood circulation, our breathing & our metabolism and your release endorphines to counter act the pain. They are the bodies natural painkillers. Just like painkillers you can get hooked on this release of endorphines. I would see someone professional before it gets worse. You really don't want to live with these scars on your body, trust me. My boyfriend has scars on his wrist from an attempted suicide and regrets ever doing it. Life is to short and full of wonderful surprise.
Good luck

Answer 8

Well- I've never had to deal with this kind of problem before, but I think it would be hard to stop by yourself. Even though it would suck- I think professional help would be the best way to go. Keep it up and stay strong!

Answer 9

look i did a similar element as a toddler many years in the past - being like you dont slot in - no human being will pay attension to you - and alot of emotions of worthlessness and depprecion - and no human being there for you - i comprehend those emotions all too properly - i did a similar issues when I went to college - i replaced right into a consistent run away and didnt do good in college and my mom and father couldnt do not forget that with the help of each and each and every of the abuse i have been given - i had to dig in garbage cans for foodstuff on a thanks to college - were given beaten severly or maybe damaged bones - no human being to tutor to to confer with - and locked in a mud celler basement - to were i replaced into trapped days at a time - thrown in scalding warm water bathtub for a bathtub once a week - punched slapped - hit with products - threatened with knives and guns - even beat with guns - and - no human being to tutor to on properly of all this - there replaced into even worse abuse - then suggested - so at 40 six years previous - i comprehend what your dealing with and its continuously easyer suggested then performed - years at a time - yet i favor i ought to have only made freinds some time previous even as as a replace of operating away each and each and every of the time - i discovered once you've some freinds that ought to really help you and confer with - issues get alot easyer to attend to - its not one hundred p.c. - yet a good 25 -30 p.c. once you could get help from close freinds or maybe aquantances - dont go with the help of existence keeping apart your self - i made this wide mistake for years at a time - its an fairly painfull and lonely highway - so see in case you could make some freinds and counselling enables alot too - yet you want both -good luck and ideal desires -

Answer 10

You're a cutter?? You need help regardless of whether you want it. Do you have any idea why you do it? sometimes you need someone to help you get through these things.