Should I ask this guy at work how the xxxx in the world he didn't answer any of my calls tonight? (think 4 times plus messages)
We usually talk every night-either he calls me or I calls him. He is usually really good at returning my calls, but not tonight. Should I ask him what's up when seeing him tomorrow? or should I just ignore the whole thing?
2006-12-12 17:53:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yeah, actually you need to put down the phone and realize that people aren't meant to be burdened with technology. You realize that ten years ago, people checked their messages when they got home. You had to plan ahead and you didn't break dates or make changes at the last second because you couldn't call someone and expect them to get the message in time.
Friendship is trust and especially when in doubt, giving them the benefit of the doubt. Why should you assume malicious motives here? Have a little faith in the relationship that he isn't a dishonest, evasive person.
2006-12-12 18:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by Kshaw5 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well kind of hard to play off the multiple calls. PErsonally I think if you dont say anything he will be like "why isnt she worried about why I didnt answer?" Play it like it didnt bother you. If you make him think it did by asking you will soun needy and whiney. Make him come to you.
2006-12-13 01:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by Brutally Honest 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not dating the guy, it shouldn't be a big deal. Just let it go. But, if you are you can ask him but don't be to crazy about it. Ask him like its no big deal. "Say fool, what did you do last night?" kind of thing.
2006-12-13 02:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by m b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone for a few days. You could wait for his call in a couple of days.
2006-12-13 01:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore who miss perfect,,,you dreamed the whole story up during you coffe break dearest...he,ll call when he wants you to cook his dinner and carry his children ,,,barefoot and brainless to boot
2006-12-13 02:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by TONe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude back off.. serioisly, what would you do if he were calling you more than you wanted?
2006-12-13 01:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by s p 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe his phone was dead or something?
aproach it nicely
2006-12-13 01:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋