Ok...well im catching up with this guy that i used to see (we live 1&1/2 hrs drive away from each other so we have never 'fully been together'...but were seeing each other for awhile after we met)
Anyway, I havent seen him for a year...(he's contacted me a few times durning the year though and has started emailing me lately.) I got an email from him last week saying he will be in my town for xmas and asked me to go out to lunch or something to catch up. So of course i said yes...(i still really like the guy & wish we could be together, i just dont know if he feels the same way tho so im just playing it casual atm) We arranged for him to call me when he gets here next week & arrange lunch then. (so i havent spoken to him since)
Should i just leave it now and wait for him to call me when he gets here like we arranged?? OR should i contact him beforehand just to chat b4 he gets here (i just dont want to make things awkward and mess things up but i also dont want him to forget...
2006-12-12 15:50:27 · 6 answers · asked by hello hello! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should wait until he calls you cause then, the thinks he has you were he wants you and then he thinks that he can just have you do anything.
2006-12-12 15:52:53 · answer #1 · answered by cutiepie102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to make the next move. He will call when he wants to hear from you. Guys aren't chatty.
2006-12-12 23:54:15 · answer #2 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait and let him contact you. Don't look to excited because if he ends up not being all that you want you will be disappointed. Expect nothing and there for you will not be disappointed.
2006-12-12 23:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by girlio33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree completely with PIE1. Dont' call him, if he forgets he wasn't worth chasing. It is unlikely he will. Be patient. Be assertive.
2006-12-12 23:54:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u already worked out that he would call u when he gets here... if u want to talk to him e mail him since that's what u normally do
2006-12-12 23:55:00 · answer #5 · answered by ypsilady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't want to seem to needy. But, maybe you could call him just to ask if things were still on.
2006-12-12 23:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by pilljills 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋