Me and my girlfriend recently broke up and i thimk she still likes me and i still like her, but she's not the best at expressing her feelings and neither am I. What do i need to do to get this girl back because i think im falling in love with her?
2006-12-12 15:59:47 · 19 answers · asked by miamililboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be a best friend
be there for her
talk to her when she needs you and have fun together
she'll realize what she's missing and will want to be back with you
2006-12-12 16:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by Niya D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which one of you did the breaking up? If she left you, she had a reason, and if you go after her again right away she'll probably end up more upset with you. If you left her, then I think it would be okay for you to apologize and tell her you made a mistake, but don't expect her to take you back right away. She may still be really hurt.
If it ended reasonably amicably, I think you should stay friends but give each other some space for a while. If you stay friends but you both still have feelings for each other, that will come out eventually, and then you can get back together. But that way there's less pressure on either of you if she really doesn't feel the same way.
2006-12-12 16:05:01 · answer #2 · answered by cg17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think she still feels the same way the only way to get back is to talk to her about it. I no you have problems expressing yourself but just tell her you care about her and you want to give it another try. If she feels the same then you will probably get back together. Try to tell her why you like her and think about why you broke up in the first place. What was the reasoning? Unfortunatly, since you cant read her mind you wont know until you speak and it might not be what you like to hear or it will turn out awsome. If she doesnt want to get back together then move on, Im sure you will find another girl.
Good luck, I hope everything works out!
2006-12-12 16:07:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u think u love her and she feels the same way, then maybe u should give it another try.. its better to give it another try than looking back later and wishing you did..
also u broke up for a reason.. try talking to each other and resolving things.. if you are meant to be and care enough about eachother, u both will figure out a way to work through your problems..
goodluck!!
2006-12-12 16:10:51 · answer #4 · answered by Nisha H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me those feelings are normal after a break- up.
Just let time do it's magic and soon you'll find the girl that completes you.
You may be thinking "Well you're wrong I love her." But trust me, you don't.
You guys broke-up for a reason.
THERE ARE BETTER PEOPLE FOR BOTH OF YOU.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-12 16:02:21 · answer #5 · answered by Buttload 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think your falling for her then you owe it to yourself to find out. Find out if you do love her then and only then find a way to go and tell her how you feel. If you dont you will regret it for the rest of your life.
2006-12-12 23:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by infiniteson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to her and express your feelings. If you keep love bottled up it will turn into jealousy because she will probable start dating again. Then jealousy to anger. And nothing good ever comes out of anger.
2006-12-12 16:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by blakefabian2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to her and say hey lets try this again. see what she says. you wont be expressing a whole lot of feeling that way. or you could email her or write her that way you wont be face to face (save embarrassmet) trust me its so easy to poor your guts out on paper rather than straight to the other person good luck let me know how it goes
2006-12-13 01:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by chandal r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay friends but give both her and u enough time and space to figure out what u really want and how u feel.
2006-12-12 16:01:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...you may be falling for each other...but you broke up for a reason. give it some time and then try to get back together later.
why did you too break up????
2006-12-12 16:02:30 · answer #10 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋