and they tell you over the phome that they were going to kick you in your stomach ind kill your baby ?
2006-12-12 15:48:49 · 19 answers · asked by lilly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
People say really stupid things when they are angry, I don't think that she would really do that, but you know your sister better than any1. If you think that she is serious then I would get your parents involved. Try and stay away from her at all cost until things between you calm down. Because she's family I wouldn't advise you to go to the police-but if you feel you have to then go ahead because that un born child inside you is the family that really counts in this situation!
2006-12-12 15:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by moks 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then you need to talk to your parents and have a good talk about how you do NOT kill unborn babies when they are anticipated. What were you fighting about? See what you guys can work out. But I don't suggest meeting them directly. Like, on the phone and or during a heartfelt talk with other people in the room, ...STRONGER people in the room. Besides, a sibling should support the other sibling when the other is in need. Don't break off all connection. Things may get worse that way.
2006-12-12 15:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by Puddles 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't talk to or be around anyone that caused me stress, threats or not. Do you have a caller ID on your phone? If so when you see it's her number, don't answer. If you don't when you hear her voice hang up, don't give her time to start, or screen your calls with the answering machine. Every time your stressed your baby is even more stressed and that isn't healthy. You need to watch "IN THE WOMB" it's on the Discovery Channel every few weeks. You'll find out just how much of what you go through can harm your unborn baby.
2006-12-12 15:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by Just Me 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely avoid that sibling and try to see to it that they got help. You can't make them unless things get drastic, but you should tell other relatives and your parents so that they can confront this sibling and tell them that they need therapy and will not be permitted to see you until they get it. Also, your husband or boyfriend should be on the lookout and keep this sibling away from you. And if this person comes onto your property, call the police.
2006-12-12 15:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by kristin c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most siblings just say things to hurt the others feelings. to feel like they are in control. you should first tell them that if they do and if something should happen to the baby, that they can go to jail and you will press charges to the fullest in your state. the same thing happen to me when i was preg. and the police came and told them that if i was to have any problems with the baby that he would come personnally and arrest them..
2006-12-12 15:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by becca j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone that talks that way to you does not deserve your attention. Thats an unstable person and you want to protect yourself and your baby from that kind of thing. Family or not theres no excuse for talking that way to someone. Your child deserves to be protected from that kind of thing. Id think twice about keeping contact with them.
2006-12-12 15:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well you just need to work it out and be calm cause everytime you feel angry so does the baby and that is not good. then you tell someone and stay away from that person.
2006-12-12 15:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by cutiepie102 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she is telling you this over the phone I would lock all the doors and windows and if she showed up and would not leave call 911 do not go outside!
2006-12-12 15:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by Nani 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
id keep away from them at all costs until i had my baby then i would go and kick the shi* out of them 4 being like that.
2006-12-12 15:51:43 · answer #9 · answered by lilmisspriss 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would definetly tell someone. I would not go around this sibling alone. If more threats are made, contact the police.
2006-12-12 15:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋