Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

need to speak with a muslim sister about a problem I have. I'm sure they can put my situation into prespective. I know many of us have problems and they just want to worry about their own stuff but if we can help other the best of helpers will come to our aid, God. So if anyone can help I would really appreciate it.

2006-12-12 15:17:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Girlfriend wants me drop outta the gang im into because one of my eses just got shot by somebody on a drive-by in the store I was 20 minutes earlier, im really pissed off at those stupid bitches but Im also afraid that if I do anythin somebody I care is gonna get hurt, should I just listen to her and leave?

2006-12-12 15:17:07 · 11 answers · asked by Sureno408 1 in Singles & Dating

Had drunk sex with a friend the other day after a party, and then some pretty great morning sex. I've had a thing for this guy for a while and it was complelty unlike me to sleep with him. I'm usually such a typical good girl. i've been very busy since that night/morning working on ym thesis and unable to talk to him. so i wanted to send him an email maybe, also because i'm not good at talking about this kinda stuff. i'd like to see him again, what should i write. i need help, everything i write comes out cheesey.

2006-12-12 15:16:30 · 11 answers · asked by coldsownfall 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 15:16:22 · 7 answers · asked by rasckal 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend gave me an engagement ring tonight. I am 19, and moving home for the wenter holiday from college. When my mom saw it I told her it was a promise ring. We aren't planning on getting married any time soon, but it hurts my fieance that I won't tell my parents, and it hurts me that I know my parents won't approve. What should I do?

2006-12-12 15:16:15 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

its a guy at my school that whenever im by myself he has a blank stare no smile, just nonchalant stare. i dont like it. he does when he's around females and when he's by himself. he never says anything, but in publich he speaks to me that makes me confused.

2006-12-12 15:15:33 · 6 answers · asked by youngj042004 5 in Singles & Dating

a little bit of help

2006-12-12 15:14:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so yea, any ideas on how to get over or at least forget what i've done, cuz the feeling eats away at you..and makes it harder to concentrate on new missions at hand......i've even have had to point my weapon at kids no older than 13, i hate it...and find my self closing my eyes now, b4 i begin to fire the weapon at someone, how can i stop the guilt? because i know dat im doin my job....but is there somethin i can do to make it easier on me?

2006-12-12 15:14:53 · 16 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so my girlfriend left to colorado to see her dying grandma and she doesn't know when she is coming back. should i stay with her or break up with her. i still love her and all but she doesn't know when she is comeing back and i dont like long distance relationships. and i cant just go and see here because we live far from colorado and we r still in school.

2006-12-12 15:14:41 · 2 answers · asked by D33_JIzZL3 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 15:13:34 · 13 answers · asked by davey 1 in Singles & Dating

How can I get my boyfriend's breath better without him knowing my trick? Not that he has bad breath all the time....but sometimes, after you eat, even gum can't hide that. Help!

2006-12-12 15:13:27 · 10 answers · asked by x BlueMorning 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 15:13:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl has a boyfriend and I told her that I had a crush on her. She said Thats so sweet and gave me a hug. Next day she starts to flirt with me. The next day I saw her crying I gave her friendly card to make her feel better. She said thanks. Her friend came up to me and ask me if I like her and I said why? And she said cause she wants to know. She said you were flirting with her and she was annoyed by it. So I was kinda mad what she said about me so I told her friend to tell her I don't like her, but only has a friend. So this past saturday I waive to her and she smile at me. Then a few minutes later she starts to flirt with me again. I didn't flirt back I played it cool. Cause she probably will tell her friends that I was annoying her again. That evening she saw me talking to these girls and I guess she got a lilttle jealous because she said to her friends I'm gonna have to start being mean to him since he still likes me. What do you guys think about this? She's 17 and I'm 18.

2006-12-12 15:13:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This won't be the first time. I'm Asian, and I had this done to me beore many times by my dad. I've been beaten up not too long ago too - on Friday because I woke up late for school, and I had this huge blackish red bruise on my leg and one on my hand. I've been depressed about it since and my grades have been slipping in the last couple of months (a 80% student to a 50% in last 2 months!! I have never gotten this kind of mark before.) I've told him over and over again to stop beating me up. Now my dad found out at work today that I was doing really bad in Physics (My mom called him, she got a call from my teacher). He called me on phone, disapointed and hung up without a word. I'm afraid that when he comes home tonight, he'll beat me up again. What should I do?
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2006-12-12 15:12:10 · 12 answers · asked by gogogo 3 in Family

Would you like this as a christmas present?
I bought my boyfriend and I tickets to the January 2nd Detroit Red Wings/ Anaheim Ducks game. This is the game with the retirement ceremony for Steve Yzerman's Jersey...Would YOU be happy if you received this as a christmas gift? (He's a huge hockey/ red wings/ yzerman fan!...its a surprise!)

2006-12-12 15:11:21 · 3 answers · asked by hailey random 1 in Singles & Dating

nothing sexual just friends!

2006-12-12 15:10:51 · 4 answers · asked by Mike 2 in Singles & Dating

Their is this guy I get together with for casual sex sometimes. So I send him txt msg sometimes to see if he wants to meet and he told me to be careful with the msgs i send him cuz his mom reads his txt msgs sometimes cuz he gets some from his dad in Ny. The guy is 26 do you believe that? Also any ideas how could send msgs without really revealing what I want if its true with his whole mom thing

2006-12-12 15:10:26 · 16 answers · asked by Aby 1 in Singles & Dating

Why or why not and what would be some concerns, fears, etc of yours?

2006-12-12 15:09:51 · 11 answers · asked by fslcaptain737 4 in Singles & Dating

we were together 2 years. now shes with another guy. i still feel the same as i always have about her, obviously she doesnt feel the same about me anymore. i guess i have to accept that its really over. will i ever get over her? what helps?

2006-12-12 15:09:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My little sister who is 6 and my little brother who is 4 have no manners They never say sorry or please.

My sister asks me to do stuff for her and ill i tell her is to say please.. and she says no and starts crying for 1 hour straight trying to get what she wants.

I mean all she has to do is just say please but she rather cry for 1 hour straight.

same with my little brother. What is wrong with them. Is this normal??

2006-12-12 15:09:32 · 3 answers · asked by simdawgydawg 2 in Family

it's going to take a while ineed someone i can talk to on a messenger so send me and emial or something if you're willing to help i jsut need advice good advice on certain topics

2006-12-12 15:07:57 · 5 answers · asked by slasherdasher 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend that i have a deeper feelings and i really want to ask him out to do something just us together but he is always sounds like he is hanging with the guys. I'm afraid to ask him because he is always doing stuff.He seems to have friends over at his house a lot. i don't know his friends that well only in class and passing.

what should i do so i can hang out with him? do i just need to take a leap and ask him out?

2006-12-12 15:07:56 · 10 answers · asked by Angel 3 in Singles & Dating

We have been together three years. The sex has been down hill.
He told me sex doesn't feel good and it is too much work to give foreplay. I always have to initiate and when I do, I get turned down nine times out of ten or told I am making a lame attempt to seduce him and if we actually do I don't get anything out of it because he just expects me to hop on top. For the past year he has been spending almost every day with his friend Tim - working on remodeling the kitchen. For four months straight every waking minute he wasn't working he was at Tim's working on the kitchen - for FREE. One day, I missed him and found him just hanging out with the guys and that hurt. I looked at his cell phone and noticed he calls Tim more than me and only text messaged me twice since July but Tim 12 x. Anyhow, he seems to jump hoops to help his friends and I feel invisible - like I am just there. I've told him how I feel, no change-says he wants kitchen done. He's been irritable around me too. Gay? Me?

2006-12-12 15:07:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am begging so that I will be safe from all future negative judgements.

2006-12-12 15:07:51 · 7 answers · asked by Danik G 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok there is this guy that i like. Recently i found out by his friend that he just wants to be friends cuz his friend asked him if he liked me.

Well anyways im fine with that. Well i asked him if he wants to hangout sometime and he said yea just give me a call whenever and i said ok. Well he starting asking me what i would want to do and i said it doesnt matter to me and he said yea it does matter and i said no it doesnt to me and he said ok. Then he got quiet for a moment then he says im thinking about going to a resturant and i said ok then he said a really nice resturant and i said ok then he starting telling me about this resturant and from what he told me and from what i see on the webpage its really really nice and fancy. Here's the site if you want to see what it is:

www.shakespearesrestaurant.com

Anyways my question is if he just wants to be friends then why would he want to take me to such a nice place. I asked my mom and she thinks that he likes me but i dont know. The whole thing with him just wanting to be friends makes me wonder becuz im starting to think friends dont take friends out to nice resturants.

I dont know what do you guys think?

2006-12-12 15:07:44 · 13 answers · asked by preppy_gurl101010 1 in Singles & Dating

to fight in relationships???

2006-12-12 15:07:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 15:07:05 · 7 answers · asked by davey 1 in Singles & Dating

he's 16 from dodge city ks

2006-12-12 15:07:03 · 2 answers · asked by averagekscutie 1 in Friends

2006-12-12 15:06:48 · 24 answers · asked by treejamin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

knowing that i dis approve of it when he cheated on me

2006-12-12 15:06:18 · 12 answers · asked by Crystal D 1 in Marriage & Divorce