Their is this guy I get together with for casual sex sometimes. So I send him txt msg sometimes to see if he wants to meet and he told me to be careful with the msgs i send him cuz his mom reads his txt msgs sometimes cuz he gets some from his dad in Ny. The guy is 26 do you believe that? Also any ideas how could send msgs without really revealing what I want if its true with his whole mom thing
2006-12-12 15:10:26 · 16 answers · asked by Aby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That sounds wierd.. why it would matter if a grown man at 26 has to worry about his mother seeing his phone? Maybe he has a girlfriend?? Or it could be he respects his mother and doesnt want her reading those kinds of things, so get a code word or something to help with that. good luck sweetie
2006-12-12 15:15:29 · answer #1 · answered by munchkin0430 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a 26 year old adult, does his mom really think that he's not having sex? Send the text msgs anyway
2006-12-12 23:15:46 · answer #2 · answered by K8Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It very well may be true or he may have started to date someone else along with you. Either way, you said it is casual sex, so why does it matter?
2006-12-12 23:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't be as specific in your text messages. Text something like 'call me' to get his attention. I really hope he's not lying to you, it sounds like his mom could actually be his girlfriend or even his wife. You don't want to get involved in that!
2006-12-12 23:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by bri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yall should probably talk and come up with some kind of code and if he's 26 his mom should realize that he's grown and he has sex so i wouldnt change anything. too grown for that
2006-12-12 23:13:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u send him a message try some code words just for u & him.
2006-12-12 23:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by t10t15t66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's just sex what else is there to say to him but "HI"? That's it. If he's seeing someone else why should you care if your just sex buddies? Hmmmmmmm? Maybe you should reavaluate this situation. Good Luck Gurl
2006-12-12 23:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by Peek@u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like someone else may be casually sexing him too. Game recognize game. Girl dont let him fool you.
2006-12-12 23:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him if he would like to hook up and meet u somewhere. if all u do is have casual sex then he should know what it is ur after anyway. no need to be specific.
2006-12-12 23:13:47 · answer #9 · answered by lilmisspriss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously he doesn't want his mom to know he is seeing a whore...(in case you didn't know it that is what casual sex is...he is using you.)
2006-12-13 00:05:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋