I have this friend that i have a deeper feelings and i really want to ask him out to do something just us together but he is always sounds like he is hanging with the guys. I'm afraid to ask him because he is always doing stuff.He seems to have friends over at his house a lot. i don't know his friends that well only in class and passing.
what should i do so i can hang out with him? do i just need to take a leap and ask him out?
2006-12-12 15:07:56 · 10 answers · asked by Angel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't mean to sound controlling i mearly mean how can i have some alone time with him.
his great realtionship with his goofy guy friends is a part of him that i like and made me like him, but i would i also like some time.
2006-12-12 15:20:08 · update #1
Honey, just take the leap and ask him out. IF he agrees, you better set some ground rules, if you dont, he is going to walk all over you! I mean, you dont have to lay down the law, but just make your intentions clear so that way you wont have to worry about him hanging with his boys all time. HE will need to figure out how to make time for you and his boys.If he doesnt want to make that sacrifce, then he is not worth it! Trust me on this, been there, done that, got the divorce to prove it! Good Luck!!
2006-12-12 15:19:25 · answer #1 · answered by Vanes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! Your title made me nervous. You can't control what someone does or doesn't do. If he's close with his friends, then I wouldn't come in between that. You're definitely not going to attract him by being controlling & demanding.
When you do get some alone time with him, tell him that you like him. Step away for a day or two to give him time to think about things since he may or may not feel the same way.
2006-12-12 23:14:23 · answer #2 · answered by LuvsMochaCoffee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES.. you sound like a brave person. I think you should do it. Besides.. most guys only hang out with the guys because they don't have a girl to hang out with. DO IT. You have one life to live... be daring!!
Good luck and let us know how it turned out.
2006-12-12 23:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes girl ask him out! Do not be shy and if you do not want to ask him in front of his friends just say that you would like a private word with him...then ask him...do not let his friends intimadate you...go for it girl!
2006-12-12 23:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess if you are brave enough, taking that leap would be the best possible thing.
2006-12-12 23:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to kno the at least 1 of the guys...have him ask this guy about u n c what happens from there
2006-12-12 23:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by RJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him to hang out with you. who knows what it may lead to. he may feel the same about you but maybe shy to express it.
2006-12-12 23:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by dijfojri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wants you, he'll go out with you and put his friends aside...he can see his fiends anytime, but only has so many chances with you, non?
2006-12-12 23:11:21 · answer #8 · answered by Seby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, he's not a mind reader
2006-12-12 23:09:59 · answer #9 · answered by bridgette c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah... go for it...
2006-12-12 23:12:39 · answer #10 · answered by ryanisalifestyle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋