My Girlfriend wants me drop outta the gang im into because one of my eses just got shot by somebody on a drive-by in the store I was 20 minutes earlier, im really pissed off at those stupid bitches but Im also afraid that if I do anythin somebody I care is gonna get hurt, should I just listen to her and leave?
2006-12-12 15:17:07 · 11 answers · asked by Sureno408 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I live in San Jose California, and I already asked this question.
2006-12-12 15:17:45 · update #1
well you're lucky. she saying this because she really cares about you. you should leave the gang. what good are you doing in it? you are just going to end up getting hurt and break her heart
2006-12-12 15:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in my opinion, gangs in general are really not a good thing to be involved with. While they might give you some feeling of "belonging", you are really just wasting your life and bringing yourself down.
I feel that your girlfriend is talking sense to you, and it would be in your best interest to listen to her. While doing so my bring about some fear for you, it is the right thing for both you and her.
More and more young people are dying everyday because of just plain dumb and dangerous encounters that take place daily in gang life.
If you would just take some time to stop and really think hard about how your life is now, and what you would like to see in it, I think that you will see that it is past time to make a change for the good.
It isn't always easy. Most good things in life require effort, sometimes a lot of effort, but it is always worth the personal investment you put into it.
Just a thought from someone who came up the "hard way".
2006-12-12 23:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by kamikaze_4021 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES,SI,OUI,OPO. That is a big YES Yo Ese. It is not cute to be part of the gang no more. It is a thing of the past,we used gangs so it is easier for us to party coz of the numbers. Gangs are fun coz if your weak in school your mates will do your homework. It was fun and a little bad.
Gangs nowadays are like orgs.of Chicago. You carry guns and things to protect yourselves-FROM WHAT? You guys create the trouble and you always look behind your shoulders. Paranoia is the name of the game. Who is better black dudes or the ESES. Asians or Russians.
Text me your cellphone and I will invite you to my business every weekend. You will see how young men from 14 to 25 ended up dying because of STUPIDITY. I have the numbers, I can show it top you. Everyweek we burry black,Latino,Asian russians,coz they died of gunshot or stab wounds. I have heard all the stories, I have sympathized and agreed but war is STUPID. And you people are stupid. Imagine the grief you'll leave your families when you die,you selfish dudes.
As far as I am concerned, I like to see all of you eses dead. it is good for me-good for my business.You gansters make life hard
for so many people. You don't care who you pester for as long as you look cool.
So why do you think your mom and your girl wants you out?
Because it is STUPID and your gang is STUPID. It willbe a never ending cycle you kill-eses will be killed-blacks killed then WHEN IS YOUR TURN?
2006-12-12 23:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by wolfass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not make a list of all the good things you can think about being in a gang and all the good things you can think about being with your girlfriend. Then see which list is longer. I bet being in a meaningful, loving relationship will always prevail over one that has short-term benefits but long-term, bad consequences.
I would also talk to a neutral third party, someone you really trust that doesn't have a dog in the fight (non-gang member and not realated to your girlfriend).
IMHO, a gang can have negative consequences that will affect you the rest of your life.
2006-12-12 23:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by lakewood_lefty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you should indeed listen to her and leave. Things are only going to get worse if you stay in. You should try to move away from there... it will be the best way to get out. Take care of yourself and your girlfriend.
2006-12-12 23:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
man u know what to do its time to call it a quits i was part of the blood and when u quit it is very difficult but u must never look back because as soon as u go back to ur old hood mother ****** act like they dont even know u to them ur basically dead u showed urseld thats what they will say never look back boy quit now
2006-12-12 23:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes get out while you can, you dont want it to be someone you love, just think if it was her that was shot how would you feel
2006-12-12 23:20:29 · answer #7 · answered by jamai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit and pray alot, I will for you too, that life will lead you to nowhere, you don't want to die, enjoy life. take advantage of what God has given you
2006-12-12 23:22:12 · answer #8 · answered by bridgette c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thought gangs had strict rules about wanting out??? wont they get mad at you?
2006-12-12 23:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by Loveme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just wants you to be safe. I think it is wise to listen to her
2006-12-12 23:20:13 · answer #10 · answered by Confused Loner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋