we were together 2 years. now shes with another guy. i still feel the same as i always have about her, obviously she doesnt feel the same about me anymore. i guess i have to accept that its really over. will i ever get over her? what helps?
2006-12-12 15:09:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the best thing for u to do is go on with your life. Go to school or work or whaever it is you do. Hang out with your friends, meet new people. She's going on with her life and so should you. Over time you'll find that u think about her less and you'll be better off for it. You may always love her but you can't just sit around and waste your time hoping for her to come back cuz it may never happen. If she loves you in time she'll come back to you.
2006-12-12 15:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by AngelU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i just want to tell you that there are alot of fish in the ocean and i bet that you will find one thats even better than her and that will love you back.. It will take sometime to get over her but don't be afarid to move on and start new. Keep your eyes open and i have a feeling that you will find the right girl for you. Good luck and don't give up.
2006-12-12 23:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by gayle d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that you hold on to your feelings for your first love. Since it is your first love, there are many first you both shared. A first date, a first kiss, first time sex, etc. It is normal to want to remember your first, but it should be the experience you cherish not the person. If you hang on to your feelings for that first person for too long, there will never be a place in your heart for anyone else.
2006-12-12 23:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by David C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Trust me. You will definitely get over her. Give yourself time. Stay busy doing what you enjoy. Finding someone else, even if your not into a relationship right now, would help. Someone you feel comfortable with and can be yourself with.
Good luck.
2006-12-12 23:21:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, you will get over her but it might take time. you need to accept the fact that the relationship is already over and you have to move on with your life. Try dating other women but don't commit until you're really certain that you're over her or you might just end up hurting someone else.
2006-12-12 23:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by Confused Loner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really if it was true love. Be happy it happened and that you had two years with her. Not much will help but time and even that wont help much.
2006-12-12 23:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by girl of lamancha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be happy right now in the present, rather than thinking about what happiness was like when you were with her. give yourself a chance to move on and who knows who may enter into your life.
2006-12-12 23:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by dijfojri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my case same with yours. my first love end two months ago. i'm still loving him. its really hard to forget him because he's my classmate and neighbour, we see everyday, its suffer.
but, i still have to move on with my life, studying, doing assignment, sitting for exam..... idon't wanna let my family and my friends worry about me.... i don't want to trouble them. because when i'm upset, they really worry me and accompanied me, they worry that i'll go for suicide.
than, another friend told me, time can cure.......
i don't know how many time i'll take, 2 months? half year, two years...ya...i really believe that time can cure
what we can do now is move on with our life and not to make other people worry,sad... go out for activities, be busy and you may able to forget her.
best wishes to you.
2006-12-12 23:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by vandoren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋