After complaining about not getting enough sex from her my wife responded with "Go get what you want, I just don't want to know about it!"
How upset should I be because that is plain nuts?
Nuts if she really is ok with that and nuts if she said it but didn't mean it!
Should I take her up on it?
2006-12-12 15:58:43 · 19 answers · asked by I'm Gumby Damnit! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
by the way...been down the counseling path...the talking path...the nurturing path...the "prince charming" path...the understanding husband path...and it's the only issue we really have...
2006-12-12 16:05:58 · update #1
thanks for the answers...resounding agreement...still doesn't solve my problem of not getting enough sex...but that's for another question...
by the way...Pirate Ninja...you are a dope!
2006-12-12 16:09:31 · update #2
Nawww she just said it out of anger...you do it and she will really be pissed_
2006-12-12 16:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not enough or none at all? If your are getting some sex from her you don't really have a problem do you? Just back off a bit and talk to her. If you keep pushing her just for a bit of sex she will leave you and then you will be out all together.
2006-12-13 01:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by golden tigress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! I wouldn't. If I where you I would pack up all my **** and leave town for about 3 months. That will get her to think! I'm not saying you should do that. But I would. She may be hoping that you will cheat on her so it would be a reason to get a divorce. Some people look for excuses. Ask her if she truly loves you. With me I have no problem leaving someone in the dust. But it may be more difficult for you.
2006-12-13 00:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO u do not want to take it up, because if u do go to somebody else, she will throw it back in your face. Take if from a female. What u need to do is find out why, she is not givin it up. Maybe something is wrong or maybe she is in pain. The only way u will knoe is if u talk. Or if all else fails u can go buy something. But i suggests u talk 2 her.
2006-12-13 00:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, your approach is all wrong. She doesn't want you to have sex with another woman, but "Hey Baby, let's get it on!" just doesn't start our engines.
Women want to feel sexy, cherished and loved. If you can acheive that, you'll have your sex and a happy wife.
Kiss her for no reason at all, on the neck.
Buy her favorite doughnut or coffee and take it to her work.
Sing to her (yep, even if you suck) while she's in the shower.
Rub her feet without expecting nothing in return.
If you have kids, bathe tham and put them to bed.
Tell her her butt looks great in those jeans.
R
2006-12-13 00:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by Ruth M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say sometimes women will say things they don't mean out of anger. It is a prov en fact that the brains of men and women are very different in how they work. That's not to say one is any better than they other but means we have to work at understanding what we are really saying to one another. I'd say don't take her up on it though I highly doubt she really means that.
2006-12-13 00:05:07 · answer #6 · answered by TSS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry have this problem. Please don't have an affair, I am sure she did not mean that. Does she have some physical problems that prevent her sex drive from revving up? I had some problems with depression and the medication ruined my sex drive. Encourage her to talk to her doctor.
You are a saint, God bless you.
2006-12-13 00:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not take her up on it. She does not mean it. Woo her. Try to figure out if there is a problem. If you know what the problem is, work on fixing it. If you are both happy in your marriage, then the sex will take care of itself.
2006-12-13 00:02:16 · answer #8 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that's not what she really wants. I'm sure it was said out of hurt or anger. Sex is sometimes a touchy subject, you need to find a way to discuss it.
2006-12-13 00:01:26 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, you shouldn't take her upon it........... you two need to have a serious chat. You need to get to the bottom of what is bothering her. She wasn't thinking when she said that she was reacting to something........In the mean time, get acquainted with Rosy Palmer and her five sisters instead of having a fling.
2006-12-13 00:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No don't take her up on it, being a woman myself I believe she would be very upset, but she is also very inconsiderate and stupid. You can tell her that if you like, when or if you ever do stray she won,t be able to figure out why!!
2006-12-13 00:02:13 · answer #11 · answered by Kathy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋