Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

My BF and I have been together for 4 years I am looking for ideas on how to spice up our bedroom. It's not that it is bad now, just want to make it fresh again. My BF is a little inexperienced in this area, so I want to drive him wild. Does anyone have any ideas or things that have worked for you. Anything that drives a man wild. Aside from sleeping with another woman for him and the backdoor. I am open, any suggestions?

2006-12-11 07:03:25 · 16 answers · asked by kristig79 2 in Marriage & Divorce

wives have you thought about sleeping with?

I think for me it is pretty close to 100%. Not saying I would do it but the thought has crossed my mind.

2006-12-11 07:03:14 · 6 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

How can I have sex with this girl I like that is not a virgin when I am without me being embarassed? I don't want to be embarrased or it to be awkward due to my lack of experience. Please help! And please don't remove I need to know!

2006-12-11 07:03:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I pass people walking, I do pass on right or stay on right side! How about you.

2006-12-11 07:02:48 · 5 answers · asked by Brevin 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-11 07:02:45 · 5 answers · asked by Mz.G 2 in Singles & Dating

I know my wife do everything truths nothing doing but She is period hit me, I told her what's wrong her, she don't answer talk me but she is mute like deaf. Iam hearing too. Her son's real father left when after her gave born, no for father no support child longtime never do it. I watch her alone with her son 3 month old before I should help her carried her son, I am very happy for her and son first my date her longtime 3 year started boyfriend/girlfriend try moved to Florida states from hawaii since Octomber 30 2003 arrived there in Florida, She is surprised States she never been there states longtime yet She is here now and She feed her son grown up now he is 4 year old. I was peace corp in hawaii before for 3 year ago. Late She hit me first time can't stop it. I think She is seem upset something, don't want me adopt court for her son step father our have family good life my future? Me too neither maybe. I don't know, what she is think? I will waitting for her when she tell me. Ok.

2006-12-11 07:02:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my bf is in med school and is always busy studying. he and i talk on the phone daily, but hardly get to see each other. i often express to him how it annoys me and makes me sad that we don't get to spend time with each other. he says he feels the same way, but he says he's not gonna sit there and dwell on it. sometimes i feel like it doesn't really even bother him that we barely see each other, but he always says that he wants to spend time with me, and it is because of school that he can't. but now he is planning on going to hawaii for 6 weeks for a rotation. if he really misses me, then why would he choose to go there making it even less likely for us to spend time with each other. if it bothers him that he is always to busy to spend time with me, wouldnt he have not want to go away from me for 6 weeks? should i be worried that he isn't interested in me anymore?

2006-12-11 07:02:24 · 11 answers · asked by resh12340 1 in Singles & Dating

I knew he was sick but they said he had a year to live. My sister was suposed to take me to see him but she decided to go tanning instead. All of sudden things started going down hill and he died a couple of days later. I never got to see him again or even say good bye. The last time I saw him was on Father's day and when he left he said: "I'll see you later sweetie." But I'll never see him again and it hurts so much. There was no funeral or anything so he was put to ashes and sent up to his cabin. I hate my sister for doing something useless instead of taking me. I don't want to ever forgive her but I act like nothing happened. If I confront her she will make up excuses and I wont be able to handle it. What should I do?? I also try to talk to my dad about how I feel but I get scared everytime I try also. Any advice on that too?
Please help!!

2006-12-11 07:02:21 · 13 answers · asked by roxychyk 1 in Family

he has taken my nephew, carson landry johnson, age 2, and will not let us see him, he travels for work as a welder. he is from india and has made threats of taking him to india so that we can never get him back. since this is a "civil matter" we cant get help from local law enforcement. if you have anything to offer for help, please email me asap we miss him very much. i have additional info on him if needed, let me know.

2006-12-11 07:01:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do i keep trying for him..... We used to date and he is my first love.......he has been with another girl for about 7 months but i still love him.... he has been saying that he wants to be with me again......what do i do????

2006-12-11 07:00:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i became friends with this girl online (i'm also female). we have a lot in common and got along great for the most part but i'm begining to see some shortcomings with her and it makes me not want to talk to her. mostly because it's easy to dismiss someone online because we have never met. essentially when she was mad at me she ignored my emails but i saw her prolifically online elsewhere. now she's coming back down from whatever trip she's on and has emailed me. i'm so livid with this game playing that i just want to drop the friendship. should i ? or am i just being too uptight ? or paranoid even ? i dont care for drama at all

2006-12-11 07:00:18 · 9 answers · asked by lala 1 in Friends

Disfunctional doesn't come close to describing my family. I'm getting married in a month and would like any advice on how to deal with my family's disfunctional behavior. There's no telling what kinda of drama they are going to create on that day and I'm already so stressed out about it I'm not talking to most of them. Help, I just want to have an average wedding day and avoid any embarassment from my side of the family.

2006-12-11 07:00:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

at monopoly.

Should i bring them 1 or 2 bottles of wine home???


The mother out law gets drunk on 2 glasses but the wife can
drink for England..

2006-12-11 06:59:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

They have been friends for 11 years. They've never been overly friendly to me but I've tried to get to know them. My fiance and I broke up for a little while and while we were not together he was angry at me and told them things about arguments we've had. Now they have this horrible image of me that is all wrong. They also swear I've been engaged before because a mutual friend of mine and theirs said I was. I've never been engaged before. They say I am lying. I know my fiance is hurt and I just want to find a way to fix this. He loves me dearly and I love him too. I just want him to be happy. Help!

2006-12-11 06:59:50 · 8 answers · asked by Kimberly P 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

No one knows. It's really difficult to stay away.. like a magnetic force or something. I know what's wrong and right, and I want to do the right thing.

2006-12-11 06:59:33 · 21 answers · asked by carlaerickson 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know what to do, I caught my husband using illegal drugs (shabu) That was the first time, and he promised me that he would not do it again because he don't wanna loose his family, he just tried it and he don't have plan to continue using illegal drugs. Do I have to believe him and give him a chance to prove that he mean it? please give me an advice, it will be helpful to me coz i didn't tell anyone about this.

2006-12-11 06:58:45 · 6 answers · asked by spaghettiandpancit 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 06:58:27 · 11 answers · asked by delz 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 06:58:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and i have not been able to get intimate in a week because of my cycle. Last night i told him that i was off while we were watching the saints vs cowboys game. I did not expect any action during the game,i freakin know better. Well during half time he wanted to get close and i was very suprised and excited. During the act he was going really fast and i asked him to slow down but he didn't. He was done in minutes then got dressed and headed back into the living room to watch the game. WTF!!!! He asked me to cuddle with him on the couch infront of the game but i refused and stayed in the bedroom. He came in there acting dumb like he didn't do anything wrong. I told him what a jackass he was and rolled over. He said he would make it up to me in the morning. Well, i was trying to make some noise this morning to wake him up to make it up to me. He woke up and said nothing to me. I left for work still sexually frustrated. How do i give him a clue?

2006-12-11 06:57:58 · 34 answers · asked by micah z 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 06:57:06 · 12 answers · asked by sklinckyyy 1 in Singles & Dating

I am seeing a man that his wife has been passed away for several yrs. He still wears his wedding band. I think it is a comfort thing with him.

2006-12-11 06:56:49 · 9 answers · asked by dqcurlytop 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 06:56:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You were hired for a big project. Your the only one in your department as they created this position to take care of the big project. The project is pretty much finished and your boss knows it. You really dont have much to do and are getting paid to basically come in, take care of a couple of things, and hang out on Yahoo Answers. Do you say something to your boss ? If so, what ? And if you dont say anything, why ?

2006-12-11 06:56:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been with my partner nearly 9 years and during this time my partner has been behind my back 3 times ( one nite stands ) and keeps going on porn.
He tells me he stopped the porn etc.... but been on computer today and he has hidden a folder full of it which again he's saying it isnt him but hes the only one with access to this laptop.
This has happened loads of times before with always the same answer he will stop doing it and that i need to give him more sex !!!
I am the one with the high sex drive, but when i want it and come onto him he's always to tired etc.....
I know people think im mad for staying with him but him and our 2 kids is all i got as i have no family, i love him to pieces but cannot cope with his ways help/advice ??????????

2006-12-11 06:55:54 · 7 answers · asked by chaz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

which is important for you

2006-12-11 06:54:37 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

d girl is 1yr older 2 me.... does this relation exist ude 2 age diff..n how shall i propose her if i think i wana spend rest of my life wid her

2006-12-11 06:54:17 · 5 answers · asked by friends 2 in Singles & Dating

I've liked this guy (Abby) for about a year. We're not going out or anything, but we kiss and go to dances and stuff together. We really like each other. But since saturday which was a school dance (tolo) we kind of fooled around (fully clothed). I'm 15 and he's 17. We're still virgins. After the dance I layed with him in the back seat of his car, and then he kind felt like he was in pain due to laying up against the door arm rest. So we switched. I turned and laid back where I thought he was going to lay his back on me, instead he laid his stomach on me. And from there, we were I guess...humping. Dry, S.e.x. I liked it at the time. But after that, I that he drove me home (curfew). I went in the house and cried. Went and got my mom and talked with her. Today I'm avoiding him as much as possible. I saw him, and turned around and walked a different direction. Nomally I eat lunch with him, but today I'm not.

What do I do? I'm extremly depressed. I've been depressed since last thursday

2006-12-11 06:54:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad left when i was 4 right after my mom died and i didnt hear from him for 11 yrs well just recently he has seemed to pop up and of course now hes trying to be good ole dad... well i'm not sure if its a good idea to let him cuz he shouldve stepped up a long time ago. right? should i let him since he wants to now that its convient for him???

2006-12-11 06:54:01 · 8 answers · asked by Stormy 1 in Singles & Dating

Here's my story, I have been married with my spouse for 6 yrs have 2 beautiful children. Now he cheated on me the first year of marriage now I chose to forgive him.He doesn't give me the attention I need.. I have asked for it on several occasions but he's too tired. Anyway he went through this thing that he didn't want to sleep with me because he is not in the mood for more the 2 months. Now you can wait but so long.So there was a friend of our who would see what was going on and gave me that attention I wanted. I started sleeping with him and now I don't know what to do? I love my husband

2006-12-11 06:52:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 06:51:39 · 13 answers · asked by weezie 2 in Singles & Dating