I don't know what to do, I caught my husband using illegal drugs (shabu) That was the first time, and he promised me that he would not do it again because he don't wanna loose his family, he just tried it and he don't have plan to continue using illegal drugs. Do I have to believe him and give him a chance to prove that he mean it? please give me an advice, it will be helpful to me coz i didn't tell anyone about this.
2006-12-11 06:58:45 · 6 answers · asked by spaghettiandpancit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tell me the cops came to the house when he was away and wouldnt tell you anything but said they wanted to talk to him and they would be back at a later time that will scare him for now to stop just keep asking him why were the cops here wanting to talk to you and he will play dumb and scared it will buy you some time
2006-12-11 07:05:10 · answer #1 · answered by azflyboy6477 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love illegal stuff...what's shabu? Some new killah weed from ghana? Sounds like your hubby could be onto something here. Why dont you get me a sample & I check it out for you & let you know what to think of this Shabu thing! LOL j/k!
2006-12-11 15:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband uses drugs all of the time and we have a very distant relationship. i don't use drugs so its very difficult to get along. my husband gets violent if i say anything about it. if you want to keep the relationship with him i would suggest watching him very closely and if you catch him again give him an option of rehab or divorce. you don't want that around children.
2006-12-11 15:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by punkins_wife121705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shabu?
Isn't that a killer whale?
2006-12-11 15:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to try to get him some help but give him liberty so he doesnt feel like if your controlling him go places and have fun
2006-12-11 15:02:39 · answer #5 · answered by mousey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a counselor, they cannot tell anyone, they can give u help tho!!!
2006-12-11 15:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋