Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

okay guys and girls i totally have a crush on this guy but i think he knows he is very quite and shy i'm not really shy but with him i get the little butterflies my friends tell me that he just keeps on staring at me when i pass right through him in the hall

2006-12-11 07:38:38 · 16 answers · asked by ana c 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't know what to get my girlfriend for christmas.

she said not to spend too much money on her, but i know she wants something. ;)

i have about $100 to spend, but i don't really want to spend it all. i just want it to be romantic and cute. any ideas?

2006-12-11 07:38:38 · 19 answers · asked by toxygen 1 in Singles & Dating

was fun but not an all the time deal how do I get them to understand I do like to do it but not everytime ??????

2006-12-11 07:38:27 · 13 answers · asked by Robert C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The question is about your personal opinion, not mine.

http://www.livescience.com/humanbiology/050318_virginity_pledge.html

2006-12-11 07:37:24 · 8 answers · asked by D 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 07:36:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Don't answer if it doesn't apply. The last thing I need right now is someone judging me who hasn't gone through a situation like this. I have a spouse (18 yrs.) I have fallen in love with our friend, and I just want to know if you have ever been in a simular situation. Did you tell your friend that you're in love with them? What happened? What was the ending result? I just want to know about your experience. So, if you haven't ever had an affair with a good friend that you fell in love with--then please don't respond.

2006-12-11 07:36:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Guys - If you had a one-night stand with a co-worker and you later somehow found out that she was pregnant even though she said that she was on the pill - would you be think that she used you?

If she told you that she did not expect you to be involved would that be okay? Would you continue with your plans to travel and work abroad?

Also interested to hear from any guys who may have gone through this and who were told that they were not needed to be involved in the child's life to see if it all turned out all right.

2006-12-11 07:35:22 · 25 answers · asked by Gillian 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl has a boyfriend and I told her that I had a crush on her. She said Thats so sweet and gave me a hug. Next day she starts to flirt with me. The next day I saw her crying I gave her friendly card to make her feel better. She said thanks. Her friend came up to me and ask me if I like her and I said why? And she said cause she wants to know. She said you were flirting with her and she was annoyed by it. So I was kinda mad what she said about me so I told her friend to tell her I don't like her, but only has a friend. So this past saturday I waive to her and she smile at me. Then a few minutes later she starts to flirt with me again. I didn't flirt back I played it cool. Cause she probably will tell her friends that I was annoying her again. That evening she saw me talking to these girls and I guess she got a lilttle jealous because she said to her friends I'm gonna have to start being mean to him since he still likes me. What do you guys think about this? She's 17 and I'm 18.

2006-12-11 07:35:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My BF's daughter started calling me Mom this weekend, I am not sure why. I love her so much and I am used to her being clingy and things like that, but I was at work and my bf wrote me a text saying that she was calling me mom, then when I got home she was calling me that the whole time. Not sure if it bothers me or not. She has a Mom, that she lives with and this is just out of the blue. We get her every other weekend and then all of a sudden out of no where. What do you guys think the reason for this is. Is it normal.....how would you feel about it?

2006-12-11 07:34:54 · 4 answers · asked by TNL 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 07:34:14 · 17 answers · asked by XoXo.ShyEyez.XoXo 2 in Friends

We have been together for 4 years. It turns out he has cheated on me with eight different several times each. He says that will change. Can I trust that he will? I love him so much, and I want it to work, but I don't know if he is telling the truth that he will change. He sounds sincere.. I am just confused.

2006-12-11 07:34:10 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

REALLY need people to help me. we've been together for about 2 years. we're going out anyway.. so not an active thing.. a shirt- jumper etc etc. he's 16 years old. (i know- we're young) but it is a serious thing, promise. (he's not at emo or chav or anything) he's boarding preppy. please send links of nice ideas, or just help with ideas. this is my last chance for ideas. xx

2006-12-11 07:33:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

underwear for a friend? what was the occassion? or is it just too personal....did she appreciate it?

2006-12-11 07:33:02 · 17 answers · asked by sd_andrea86 2 in Friends

Hope I don't sound like a wuss. But there have been several times I think me and my GF should have called it quits but just seem to be too pathetic to live without each other. If you have an opinion on this feel free to way in.

2006-12-11 07:32:51 · 23 answers · asked by Myself 4 in Singles & Dating

I love my husband very much. All other aspects of our life together are great. I just don't want to have sex. I can't get into it. We don't have any children. I am fine not having sex, but he gets hurt by this. I try to tell him it isn't anything he has done or hasn't done. I try to enjoy it, but he can sense that I am not into it and then he's not into it anymore. Please help me. I feel awful.

2006-12-11 07:32:10 · 9 answers · asked by Wildflower 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-11 07:31:54 · 19 answers · asked by Monique D 1 in Family

I've met a girl in high school and I really liked her. After that, I start chatting with her at the time between the classes and we were going well, them (unforttunately) I discovered she had a boyfriend. Normally I woud give up but there is some chemical around us and I decide to keep it going. As I discovered later, her boyfriend is living in another town, so I have a little advantage in here, but I don't know what to do now, I've dated her some times but I'm affraid falling in her "friendship zone". I need some clues about what I can do to enhance my chances with this girl, really don't know what to do... (sorry about my poor english, i'm brazillian, btw)

2006-12-11 07:31:37 · 8 answers · asked by Johnny W 2 in Singles & Dating

Question Details: My friend really enjoys smoking and I thought I would gift wrap a couple of cartons for her and a nice lighter. As a smoker would you appreciate this gift? Should I add a Cigarette case? another carton? What you would prefer?

2006-12-11 07:31:21 · 10 answers · asked by marlboro_100s_man 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been heart broken ( we have broken up) by a jerk whose currently flirting around yet is still around to tell me that he still cares and he loves me. He behaves like we are still a couple when we are alone but when we are not, it's otherwise. I need to get over with this fast.

2006-12-11 07:31:06 · 6 answers · asked by PassionFruit 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been engaged for over a year now. My fiance has gained a lot of weight over this past year. So much so, that I am really concerned about his weight for health reasons. To make matters worse, I am not sexually attracted to him. He is always laying around the house, never contributing to the household chores, and leaves everything for me to do when I get off work. He does work too, but it seems all the responsibility for the house is on me. Do you have any advice on how I can either see him sexually again or at least look at him in a different light other than a fat lazy person?

2006-12-11 07:30:59 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he lived 30 mins away from me but i still never get 2 c him and im always sooo sad about that and i dont know wat 2 do abut that what should i do

2006-12-11 07:30:46 · 15 answers · asked by cat 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in the process of leaving my husband, (I know, bad timing) but what should I do with the items I don't want to take with me? I mean things like old clothes, nicknacks, my wedding dress, my wedding shoes. How much is okay to leave behind?

My friends say I should clean the house before I leave-What do you think? Is this necessary?

2006-12-11 07:29:40 · 27 answers · asked by The Unknown 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, this is an odd question. My boyfriend scrapes his fork along his teeth when he eats and clinks the spoon on his teeth also.

Is is like fingernails on a chalkboard and I was raised that it is horribly rude. I have mentioned it a couple times, and he's reacted by saying, "Oh, now you're going to nitpick all the little things?", and "What, are you going to leave me because of this?". He also thinks I'm nuts and says he's sure everyone in his family does it, too (they don't, I've noticed).

Sounds petty, but it makes mealtimes the most grating thing ever. I find myself "accidentally" leaving the TV on to cover the noise.

Am I crazy? Can anyone site something that says what poor manners this is? How can I get across how grating this is without insulting him?

2006-12-11 07:29:21 · 13 answers · asked by eli_star 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 07:29:16 · 8 answers · asked by Marie A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to know what i can work on so answer the question to help a girl out!

2006-12-11 07:28:42 · 11 answers · asked by Urban Traveler 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is very sick. A couple of months ago, a doctor told her she had an irregular heartbeat, which would eventually lead to heart problems later if she didn't quit smoking. She hasn't yet. Last Saturday, she had to go to the hospital again because she found out that she now has a respiratory disease. She is like a sister to me and has always been there for me. She is 23 years old and I am only 18. She is my best friend. I want to cheer her up a little. She LOVES music. Are there any good songs out there that would be perfect for this type of situation?

2006-12-11 07:28:35 · 2 answers · asked by Brandon G 2 in Friends

If a guy were going to buy you something from Victorias Secret, what would you want?

2006-12-11 07:28:22 · 28 answers · asked by getrdone8080@yahoo.com 1 in Singles & Dating

can i just ask someone out only if it's just a little bit of lust, but not a lot.

2006-12-11 07:28:12 · 12 answers · asked by seattlepride 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm Japanese 27, and he's 33 English.
I don't use this word as my first language, and "love" in Japanese is not a common word to say to your gf/bf, or even to your husband/wife/familly.
He invited me over to his familly's Xmas, for first time in his life to do this, and his parents are very looking forward to meet me. I feel so in love, and I felt the same with him.
I sent my bf a photo book printed with our pictures together so far for 6 months, with a card "Remember someone loved you on your special day" !
I'm now regretting a little that he might be frighten away...cuz I heard it's not good for girls to mention the L word first...?

2006-12-11 07:28:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiancé wants to take me to PV for our honeymoon. We started dating before he was divorced and I know that was the last place he took his wife before he got divorced to "try to work things out". He and I broke up, got divorced and then ended up together in the end. Now he wants to get married and stay at the same place where he took his wife for the "last time". Personally I dont want to go there, I would rather go to Cabo, La Paz or Mazatlan? Is there something wrong with me? What should I say the reason is on why I don’t want to go there?

2006-12-11 07:27:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce