was fun but not an all the time deal how do I get them to understand I do like to do it but not everytime ??????
2006-12-11 07:38:27 · 13 answers · asked by Robert C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sorry, most comments are referring to anal. But I don't know what it is you are referring to.
2006-12-11 07:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling them that would be a good start....tell him was ok, but not something you would get into every time. That way if it is something they need a lot they can let you know. Dialogue is always good.
2006-12-11 15:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Let that person know that while it is exciting, it is like an "extra special dessert, that you'd like to save for special occasions. If they aren't for it, then you need to find someone who WILL understand.
2006-12-11 15:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by NestleGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is key to all relationships, just tell them this is not and every time activity.
2006-12-11 16:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by sharing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should discuss this with them. If they love you then they should understand. you must also be willing to understand thier side of this situation as well. you should be able to compromise with each other!!
2006-12-11 15:57:20 · answer #5 · answered by Who Dat Chic!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling them when you are not in the middle of having sex and they ask you to do whatever it is.
2006-12-11 15:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by Firienscatha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open your mouth and speak up! Don't worry about hurting the other person's feelings...it's your body.
2006-12-11 15:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him/her. If they don't want to do it, they should say so. Communication is always key in any relationship.
2006-12-11 15:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by seashell9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did anal once and the guy wanted it all the time. u have to lay down the rules.
2006-12-11 15:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by khansen1120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him is once in a while thing
2006-12-11 15:43:15 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋