Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

will some one please help me i am 18 and have not seen my dad..well he was around till i was 6 months old then i dont know what happen and i would like to get in touch with him to see why he has not tryed contacting me.. i am wondering if it is something i have done or if he just never really wanted me.. if thats the case atleast i can rest knowing why he has not wanted to be around.. his name is michael A. saunders i know he has a of his name on his arm or use to.. and that about all i know if anyone has seen him or can help me find him please e-mail me or send me something PLEASE..thanks, Heather

2006-12-11 07:26:59 · 2 answers · asked by **Wishing For A 2010 Baby** 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

HEY you!---------------------...
please help!
im not sure what else to get my friends for
CHRISTMAS! i have candles for each and im on an tight budget, so be nice. IM NOT GOING TO THE DOLLAR STORE, I JUST DONT WANT TO GO ALLLL OUT! this is for my friends not my guy friend so dont be sexy about it. alright! kthx. ♥
help me and ill tyr to help you! 10points for the besstttt answer!

2006-12-11 07:26:14 · 21 answers · asked by sweetheart--xo 2 in Friends

It's my boyfriend's birthday and his mom invited me to go out to eat with them this Wednesday.. I'm so nervous! I want his family to like me and I want to give them a good impression but I don't want to turn into Miss Polite in front of him so.. any tips or ideas.. please?..Lin♥dah♥sayy..

2006-12-11 07:26:08 · 15 answers · asked by ♥L-L-Lindsayyy...♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

I was wanting to play 'You are the love of my life" by sammy kershaw in the beginning, (by fiancee wants me to come in with the wedding march so I'll probably have to cut the first one short). And at the end when we a pronounced husband and wife I was thinking of playing 'It's your love' by tim mcgraw and faith hill. For those of you who have done the same, what songs did you use?

2006-12-11 07:25:46 · 4 answers · asked by Wendy Kim 2 in Weddings

How can I kiss to my girlfriend if she's now far. I mean out of state.....
she is now 16 and I am 18.

2006-12-11 07:24:39 · 5 answers · asked by Pushpendra C 1 in Singles & Dating

It looks like woman are liars to me. Why is it so? Well it needs a bit of explanation. Guys open your eyes. It takes some wisdom to absorb this reality. Well I am taking about both physical and mental attitude which grows out of it. Women in general are not attractive. It is our passion which makes them look attractive. If you discard that passion totally from your mind and see a woman naked it would be very clear. You wouild very soon you definitely don't want to look like that. They know that very well. But they cover it up. They don't like to reveal themselves because they know it is not good to them. They try to hide until man makes all commitments. When she is assured then she will reveal. Inspite of this movies and tv shows show woman in such a way that woman seem attractive. Men are really stupids. They fall prey to all this. And they are nowadays even accepting that woman are more good looking than men. If every man works hard he is really bull and woman a cow. Think over this.

2006-12-11 07:24:34 · 10 answers · asked by Pratap 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have read these details for another question
(my b/f has walked out on our relationship bcuz of an arguement about him going outside (freezing) straight after he came in from work to talk to his (married) female friend-for half an hour! after heated words he told me he values her over me- he's only known her just over a month. what should i do? )

Can this happened to a married woman?

2006-12-11 07:24:14 · 13 answers · asked by Ahmad 4 in Marriage & Divorce

OK this is a lil long, but I met this guy about a year ago, and we started out as friends. But now its very werid bc it feels like a relationship. He doesn't kick it with other girls, and he spends all day texting me and everynight talking with me on the phone. We spend time together whenever he's free, and he recently took me home to meet his family, and now he says his mom asks about me, and wants to know when I am going to come over again. We have planned a trip together just the 2 of us, and I am going to moving to San Diego in about a year, and we talked about both moving out there. I even promised to never walk away from him, and we have said I love you to eachother. Whats the deal? Are we just friends? I need help before I lose my mind because I don't understand this,and no one I know can figure it out.

2006-12-11 07:24:01 · 24 answers · asked by Sami 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to know what i can work on so answer the question to help a girl out!

2006-12-11 07:23:26 · 15 answers · asked by Urban Traveler 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 07:21:06 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-11 07:20:18 · 15 answers · asked by jckmhugh2000 1 in Friends

I have a male friend who I am very attracted to; however we are both in other relationships. He has been coming over my house every weekend for about a year; however we are rarely alone because my mate is also here. I have all of the feelings for him, and he doesn't verablize how he feels. We have never kissed or anything. He will talk to me on the phone 1-2 times during the week, and our conversations have gotten longer (40 min.). He hates talking on the phone. He said yesterday that someone could tell him how they feel about him, but he would not tell them. Men, what are some signs I can look for to tell if he feels the same about me. He is always acting like he's going to hit me, always joking around. He always joking and laughing--we have fun together, but both in commitments---I just want to know what to look for----I don't want to make a fool of myself---I'm also 8 yrs older than him--would you date someone 8 yrs older

2006-12-11 07:20:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my husband is in the navy and is overseas right now. Is it ok to feel that you hate the navy?

2006-12-11 07:20:07 · 18 answers · asked by Kayla P 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, after 2 days with this girl, I hit it and quit it and now it's time for better things, except she is NOT moving on. She's apparently so in love with me, as ALL girls are, but I don't love her.... She's total nastiness!! How do I tell her to move on?

2006-12-11 07:19:16 · 31 answers · asked by mister roy jones 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm thinking they probably did. In fact, I'll bet that a bir riproarious fart brought about the first laugh. What else could have been funny back then? It's not like they could talk.

2006-12-11 07:18:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for 2 years, we planned on getting married with in a few weeks, but we have had a difficult few months with problems with other things (not our relationship). We just feel that we have lost that sprak that we use to have, but we still love each other. I am unsure of getting married when that spark just isn't there - it's just other things in life caused that feeling to go away. We live together right now, we love each other and want the same things, but What should I do?

2006-12-11 07:18:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

They broke up 4 years ago and he's still wearing a neck chain from her and they are still pretty much in contact, I also found her lastest pictures on regular basis in his computer (either it was him who asked her or she was the one who sent them). The reason for the break up is she got another guy and she is a very flirtatious girl. Not only that, his mom kept calling me with his ex gf name for several times. Beforehand, he also used to mention her name in our conversation e.g if we passed thru a shop then he would said: my ex got that bag!
I'm confused and quite sad about this.

2006-12-11 07:18:14 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a singe parent I am trying to purchase a home but I am also a victim of identity fraud. Is there any programs or charties out there that can help me or donate me a home? When I apply they tell me that if I was getting child support I would be able to afford a home but I don't. Here in Louisiana they aren't very strict on dead beat dads. When I find a home for $65,000 that is nice I alway miss out because I can't get preapproval.I've tried everything from disputing items on my credt to applying for sweepstakes to win a home. I haven't loss hope. My goal was to put my kids (2&5) in there own home with the big back yard before Christmas. My 5 year old told her teacher "that we are moving out the projects once my mother finds a house we can afford". That touched me because I thought I was shielding her from our situation. I've pushed the date back again. It's the only thing on my list to Santa. If anyone out there can help me please do!

Thank You
Merry Christmas

2006-12-11 07:18:11 · 8 answers · asked by Tricee 3 in Family

do you like loud obnoxious girls or quiet laidback ones...n how do you feel comfortable around girls...like what do you like them to say to you?

2006-12-11 07:18:11 · 15 answers · asked by choco-rill33 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy and he is going to ask me out soon.and i do like him but im having trouble getting over my ex b/f!! and i dont know if i want my ex b/f back and i dont know if i want to move on with this guy thats going to ask me out.i want to say yes to this guy that is going to ask me.and i think it would help me to get over my ex that cheated on me.so do you all think i should go for it???

2006-12-11 07:18:05 · 9 answers · asked by roxygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

Thanks! :)

2006-12-11 07:18:01 · 13 answers · asked by Melanie J 1 in Weddings

My boyfriend smokes pot and I am verrry against it. I hate the thought of him getting high and acting stupid with his friends. He originally told me that if it ended up being a problem for us he would stop. Eventually, it became a big problem, i finally asked him to stop (after numerous fights about this) and he said he would. He promised to stop and yet continued to do it behind my back MANY times for over a year. We would fight, he would say it was the end of it, and he would be smoking up the next day. These are the reasons he has told me about why he wont stop: 1) HE DOESNT WANT TO BE MY ***** AND LISTEN TO EVERYTHING I SAY. 2) HE LIKES SMOKING IT and he doesn't see anything wrong with it.
He says he loves me. I totally dont understand what his problem is. Why can't he just stop? He always puts his friends and pot before me, and Im just there with him if he doesnt have other plans. Help! Keep in mind that even though he smokes alot, he does have a future and 2 jobs.

2006-12-11 07:17:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my b/f has walked out on our relationship bcuz of an arguement about him going outside (freezing) straight after he came in from work to talk to his (married) female friend-for half an hour! after heated words he told me he values her over me- he's only known her just over a month. what should i do?

2006-12-11 07:17:23 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we went to the club and my ex was there with another girl who is sapposedely his gf. he saw me and when he saw me he said oh hi.... meet my gf and i shook er hand like an adult should.i know that she is not his type? what is he doing with her?the guy that i am with now? told me that she dont care about him, and that she slept with his friend? she did give me dirty looks the whole night as well? i got mad i was being the adult and mature about it, i even smiled at her the guy that i am with now is kind of freinds with my ex and , my ex kept comming over to talk to my bf, now , and saying stuff like ohh look at that girl? i was hurt now i am thinking about him again? what should i do?IKNOW SHE IS NOT HER TYPE

2006-12-11 07:17:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

GUYS HAVE YOU EVER BEEN WITH one Girl and actually been IN LOVE witn Another????
can you explain the situation and the outcome

i need to know onre of my ex said he would love me if he was single he also said i was the most beautiful person he had ever met hes just stareted dating another girl.
He not the type to just dump someone because he is lovely what is one to do. If you dont want to answer this just answer the bit where i ask if you have been in a relationship with one woman and in love with another and give me an example what happened in the end?

2006-12-11 07:17:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you rather date a man with a lot of confidence and a "go for it" personality, but who in reality is a kind of an underacheiver? Or would you rather date a man who is somewhat unsure of himself and shy, but who really has his act together?

2006-12-11 07:16:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(PLZ NOBODY TELL ME TO GET A GIRL FRIEND CUZ I DONT WANT TO) i just want to stop masturbating cuz i had enough of it but i cant...streets are full of sexy girls and the internet is full of porn sites and im usually home alone (my parents over trust me)
WHAT CAN I DO TO FORGET GIRLS???JUST UNTIL I GROW UP ALITTLE

2006-12-11 07:15:10 · 18 answers · asked by Mr M 1 in Singles & Dating

Recently my father has brouhgt my evil ex-stepmom back into his life and has been letting her stay in his house. This among other things going back to four years ago has brough tme to feel great dissapointment and anger towards my father. So much even that I have no desire to see him, even for chirstmas, and I deffinately don't want to talk to him. I've told heim how I feel in a letter that also explaine the details, but I just really want to know what other people think about this.

2006-12-11 07:15:08 · 12 answers · asked by cr8zviolinest 1 in Family

2006-12-11 07:14:59 · 30 answers · asked by Melanie J 1 in Weddings

I am nearly 25 years old and my mother and I have been very close since I got into my 20s. We use to talk on the phone every day but now that I am engaged and busy with life in general I don't always have time to talk to her as much now. She always writes to me and asks if I am okay saying I was quite at dinner or something. How do I tell her everything is fine? And why is she thinking I am not okay when I am the best I have ever been.

2006-12-11 07:14:53 · 18 answers · asked by Colleen D 2 in Family