Men who don't verbalize emotions!?

Question

I have a male friend who I am very attracted to; however we are both in other relationships. He has been coming over my house every weekend for about a year; however we are rarely alone because my mate is also here. I have all of the feelings for him, and he doesn't verablize how he feels. We have never kissed or anything. He will talk to me on the phone 1-2 times during the week, and our conversations have gotten longer (40 min.). He hates talking on the phone. He said yesterday that someone could tell him how they feel about him, but he would not tell them. Men, what are some signs I can look for to tell if he feels the same about me. He is always acting like he's going to hit me, always joking around. He always joking and laughing--we have fun together, but both in commitments---I just want to know what to look for----I don't want to make a fool of myself---I'm also 8 yrs older than him--would you date someone 8 yrs older

Answer 1

Here's the thing...IF he doesn't like talking on the phone and he spends 40 minutes with you on the phone there's something there. Maybe his girlfriend is an idiot and you aren't, who knows. It's also gonna vary from guy to guy. Some guys might go out of there way for you with like dinners and gifts or maybe by making time with you all the time that's his way of showing you that he likes you. Either way even if he wouldn't respond you might want to tell him how you feel so you won't have to string along the dude you are in a relationship with especially if in the end all you're going to do is bust him up if this other dude likes you. If you tell him, he says no or makes no response, it sounds like it's his loss. That way you can choose to either be his friend or stick to the guy that does let you know how he feels.

Answer 2

Humanity hit it's peak years ago, it's all downhill now, going toward the stone age, and we are beginning to learn how to grunt again.

Answer 3

Then walk away from these feelings & put sometime & energy into your relationship with your mate.

Answer 4

You need to both drop out of your current relationships. He digs you, but you both need to be fair to your spouses!

Answer 5

Your "mate"? If you mean husband this whole thing is completely inappropriate.