I've met a girl in high school and I really liked her. After that, I start chatting with her at the time between the classes and we were going well, them (unforttunately) I discovered she had a boyfriend. Normally I woud give up but there is some chemical around us and I decide to keep it going. As I discovered later, her boyfriend is living in another town, so I have a little advantage in here, but I don't know what to do now, I've dated her some times but I'm affraid falling in her "friendship zone". I need some clues about what I can do to enhance my chances with this girl, really don't know what to do... (sorry about my poor english, i'm brazillian, btw)
2006-12-11 07:31:37 · 8 answers · asked by Johnny W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shes taken mate! back off
2006-12-11 07:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by yuygj2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would you like some one to interfere with a relationship you were in ,,,, If she's cordial and friendly it most likely means she simply wants to be courteous and civil is all ,,,, I think you are reading something into this that isn't there ,,,, She's already spoken for so back off ,,,, It's ok to be friendly towards her and her to you ,,,, that's only being courteous ,,,, but stop letting your glands interfere ,,,, don't bring what relationship you have with her to a point that she's going to have to tell you something you don't want to here ,,,, There are plenty of other fish in the pond so go fishing ,,,,, Find someone that comes with no strings attached ,,,, they're out there all you have to do is find someone ,,,,But do this girl a favor if you like her as much as you say you do and don't put her under any stress or strain ,,,, It's not fair to her ,,,,
2006-12-11 16:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your english is much better than most of the people that have english as a first language...
i am in the same boat that you are with one of my friends. except that she isnt with someone (she was though but they broke up) how long has she ben with the other guy.
alot of time high school relation ship end eventually but a few stand strong.
just talk to her about it. tell her that you care about her.
2006-12-11 15:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by Erik N 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you have a feeling that somehow it will work out, then just wait, it will eventually work out. That's what happened to me, I liked this guy but he had a girlfriend and I just had this feeling that if I just waited a little while something would happen and it did he broke up with his girlfriend and we went out for awhile. Also another I liked this guy and I thought somehow I don't think this is going to work out and I asked him out and he said no. So I say follow your instinct.
2006-12-11 15:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by roxychyk 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well like u i myself have the same problem but your one step father than me you guys are friends and i think thats the biggest part u want to be really close friends with her like the one were she can tell u almost everything but since its almost christmas you could get her something unquie like something thats popular in brazil like a game or your could make her something like food or just something from your culture but as long as your really close friends then for now thats about all you might be able to do (thats of course without being mean) good luck!
2006-12-11 15:48:21 · answer #5 · answered by sweetchevelle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how many times have you gone out with her?
I think that you should tell her how you feel.
when you're talking to her, ease into it.
after that, if she doesn't have an "oh, well that's cool"
and doesn't talk to you as much, just stay friends.
if you get lucky though, she might break up with her
boyfriend! good luck!
2006-12-11 15:40:07 · answer #6 · answered by kizzle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that u will wait 4 her!!
2006-12-11 15:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her you are interested in dating her or you will be in the friend zone. zoom zoom zoom
2006-12-11 15:35:56 · answer #8 · answered by visitor42353 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋