This girl has a boyfriend and I told her that I had a crush on her. She said Thats so sweet and gave me a hug. Next day she starts to flirt with me. The next day I saw her crying I gave her friendly card to make her feel better. She said thanks. Her friend came up to me and ask me if I like her and I said why? And she said cause she wants to know. She said you were flirting with her and she was annoyed by it. So I was kinda mad what she said about me so I told her friend to tell her I don't like her, but only has a friend. So this past saturday I waive to her and she smile at me. Then a few minutes later she starts to flirt with me again. I didn't flirt back I played it cool. Cause she probably will tell her friends that I was annoying her again. That evening she saw me talking to these girls and I guess she got a lilttle jealous because she said to her friends I'm gonna have to start being mean to him since he still likes me. What do you guys think about this? She's 17 and I'm 18.
2006-12-11 07:35:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're still young, and that means games. However, I would just be honest with the girl. If you really like her or are interested in hanging out with her more just ask her. If she thinks you're annoying, who cares, then move on. Forget the games and just be open and honest; be yourself.
2006-12-11 07:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by straightup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I think maybe her friends are lying to you for some reason. Maybe they're jealous or they are stuck up and think you're not good enough for some reason (even though you sound like a very nice person). But I'm really not sure..sounds like she might like you, and was just saying that about being mean because she was jealous, and she wanted to sound like to you that she didn't care or something, you know? I think you need to talk to her, not her friends, and find out whats going on. Until you find out one way or another, I'd play it cool still and no flirting just to keep you on their good side ;) Good luck
2006-12-11 07:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by 2D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm, i do no longer probably have plenty know-how on those issues yet i think of she's doing those issues to get your interest and motives why she advised her chum which you're stressful her is that she does'nt opt for them to comprehend... and that i think of she's have been given the hots for you... Oh and in the experience that your a severe kinda guy and you're actually falling for her attempt and aviod so which you will no longer get harm cuz' there's a super probability that she's purely enjoying...
2016-10-05 04:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is interested in you, she just likes playing games. Take notice that she had a bf and still got interested in you, you wanna be the next dumb bf?
In the other side, you can play cool, kee p the game till attraction grows bigger and you ask her phone number, go out somewhere and just have fun without any commitments at all. (yes, i mean the shimmy shimmy dance)
2006-12-11 07:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK SHE ISNT WORTH THE TIME YOU SPENT ASKING THIS QUESTION!! SHE IS TOO COMPLICATED, WEIRD, UNPREDICTABLE, PHONY & CRAZY!!!! SHE WANTS YOU TO CONTINUE WANTING HER, BUT FOR THE SAKE OF SELF RESPECT IGNORE HER & GET HER OUTTA YA' HEAD b/c she seems to be more trouble & choas than she is worth, i am sure you can do better, much better so 4get about that weird girl she doesnt even deserve the effort nor attention you have put into her...good luck & best wishes!!!
2006-12-11 07:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by kimmiegaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like good ol' high school stuff. sounds to me that she might be abit interested in you, but, afraid of what her friends will say if she had anything to do with you. that is why she keeps smiling, flirting etc. i bet soon as her friends say your cool or give her the ok to talk to you, she will be talking to you. is she in the "more popular" group than you are?
2006-12-11 07:42:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know what... those kind of girls are not worth it to talk or like or to date... They will just give u problem down the road. Just be friend with her don't go out with her if she is acting like that.
2006-12-11 07:39:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she just hasn't grown up yet. She still wants to play games and her friends opinions matter to her more than peoples feelings. I'd move on.
2006-12-11 07:38:29 · answer #8 · answered by The Steele's 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's playing games. If you like someone, things should be somewhat simple never this difficult. Just leave her alone. Or just brutally honest with her.
2006-12-11 07:40:28 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not miss all the teenage drama.She is very immature and you need to run away as fast as you can.
2006-12-11 07:40:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋