Hope I don't sound like a wuss. But there have been several times I think me and my GF should have called it quits but just seem to be too pathetic to live without each other. If you have an opinion on this feel free to way in.
2006-12-11 07:32:51 · 23 answers · asked by Myself 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know what you mean. after a while you become so comfortable with that person and it feels so good to just know you have them. knowing that the relationship should be over does put a strain on the relationship but things change and you have to come to accept that. breaking up is hard and there will always be time where you miss eachother but its for the best
2006-12-11 07:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by Beauty in the Breakdown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 21:10:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously have a comfortable relationship and relate well to each other. Inside you both like the way things are and feel you don't want the present to change. Maybe you are afraid that one or the other will never stay friends or have any more feelings for you. Fear sometimes keep people teogether and apart. Think about it.
2006-12-11 07:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did that for 4 years with a guy who wouldn't make me a top priority in his life. He swear to change then go right back to being the way he was. I think each of you should let go and find someone new. If you two can't work it out why keep delaying the inevitable.
2006-12-11 07:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you really care for that person but if that relationship aint there enymore then you need to end before ya'll two hate each other.It's going to hurt but sooner the better you will move on and so will she or maybe ya'll just need to seperate for a while to see if this is what ya'll need.After ya'll end it you never know ya'll might become really good friends. I have with some of my ex's. But good luck take this advice and really think.
2006-12-11 07:44:31 · answer #5 · answered by hclover21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like me and my hubby, you've gotten too comfortable with one another. Wer'e too comfy to leave, but wer'e miserable with one another when we stay. We just don't have the energy to leave and sart looking for another lover. We just live together and deal with each other to a minimum. I knew in the beginning that we weren't exactly right for one another, but decided to try anyway. It's hard starting over at love, all the getting to know each other. I personally think it's FEAR! The fear of being alone and failing at love.
2006-12-11 07:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by Common_Sense2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change is hard, its easier to live with something that you know and hate than change it for something that you dont. Its just human nature. You'll probably get to a point somewhere down the line where youre so sick of it that you absolutely HAVE to change. Often thats the only way we do it. Best wishes
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2006-12-11 07:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by rattyfraggs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's b/c you truly cared about this person and you don't want to be the cause of their pain. So instead of doing the right thing you do nothing at all. If you truly care for this person let them go, you would want them to be happy no matter if it's with you or someone else, right? However, you could be scare of the unknown for your future. You can't hold on to someone b/c your not sure if you will find someone else. If your going to be miserable do it alone......
2006-12-11 07:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by Izzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is because of fear of being alone. You get comfortable with someone and it just because easy to stay even when you know its not good. Also, on some level you may still care about that person and its hard to let them go
2006-12-11 07:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe all of us, even those knock dead sexy folk, are in fear of not finding someone. People don't like admitting to themselves or any one else that their insecure.
WE all do find another person. Not saying that person is right for you either.
IF you both know it's a no go, why wastre time pretending?
Get on with life! you only live once.
2006-12-11 07:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋