I love my husband very much. All other aspects of our life together are great. I just don't want to have sex. I can't get into it. We don't have any children. I am fine not having sex, but he gets hurt by this. I try to tell him it isn't anything he has done or hasn't done. I try to enjoy it, but he can sense that I am not into it and then he's not into it anymore. Please help me. I feel awful.
2006-12-11 07:32:10 · 9 answers · asked by Wildflower 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
See a doctor now about your nonexistent libido. Sex is important in a relationship, and this is unfair to your husband who married you thinking you and he would have a normal sexual relationship in your marriage. Do it now before it becomes a problem in your marriage.
2006-12-11 07:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You better do something to spice things up! Your going to make him cheat, sex is not what it's all about but its some of what its about.Find what it is and save your marriage.It might not mean nothing to you but I'm a married man and got to have some of my wife two to three times a day and the only reason I don't cheat is she gives me everything I need at home.
2006-12-11 07:46:39 · answer #2 · answered by Lionel S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should see your doctor first of all and make sure everything is ok. Another thing you can do it play with yourself. When he's not around, or when you're in the shower, play with yourself, touch yourself, masturbate, find out what feels good to you then you can guide him so that you can both enjoy it.
2006-12-11 07:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by MariChelita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be a clinical reason for this ,,,,, Make an appointment with your physician and see what he can come up with ,,,, This could be a fore runner to something more serious ,,,,, It wouldn't hurt to at least check this out ,,,,,
2006-12-11 07:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to see a sex therapist immediately and learn how to spice up your sex life.
2006-12-11 07:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just masterbate him and tell him to go to sleep afterwards.
well you need to find out why you dont like it or enjoy it, or maybe you just dont have the sex drive, maybe you should see a doctor, there is a female drug out there which increases sex drive, i think its experimental though.
2006-12-11 07:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by yesssssssss 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try it with another person with a bigger d@#k
2006-12-11 08:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
bring other girls and guys into your sexual relationship.. spice it up a little!
2006-12-11 08:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by aaron 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
you need to get help or maybe you are a lesbian?
2006-12-11 07:37:07 · answer #9 · answered by wrfab 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋