No one knows. It's really difficult to stay away.. like a magnetic force or something. I know what's wrong and right, and I want to do the right thing.
2006-12-11 06:59:33 · 21 answers · asked by carlaerickson 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just fyi, nothing has ever happened between us. I've never even slept with a person before, so No, I am not hooked on his pecker, thank you very much.
2006-12-11 07:05:15 · update #1
Here is the thing....you just do. You allowed yourself to get involved with someone who was NOT available. That was your mistake. It's not love. It's an infatuation. How can you love a man that has pledged his life and fidelity to someone else, and then cheated on them? What kind of person does that make him? No excuse or rationalization is good enough to justify that. He is unavailable, so get over it, and fast. You have no right to do anything otherwise.
2006-12-11 07:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 19:09:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear. I am so sorry for this. Don't let anyone beat you up about this including yourself. I understand wanting that security and also that amazing feeling you get from someone who is not your boyfriend or husband. It does sound as if you will be settling by staying with your fiancé. People do this all the time, though. Ask yourself if this is what you want. Perhaps see a counselor on your own or with your fiancé. Take some time away from both of them perhaps. Can you do this? Good luck dear. Your military man sounds like he will wait for you, for a while. Talk to him about it.
2016-05-23 06:03:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you want to do the right thing think about his wife the women who took vows with him and is waiting on him when he is out with you....
how would you feel? you need to go out an meet omeone new that will keep your mind off this man he isn't yours to have hun....
Learn some new activities do something creative... anything can keep you busy and away from this man and with alil time say a couple weels you will be over him..... It is not love to him and that should be enough for you to just let him be an find someone you do not have to snaek around with and someone you can tell others about.
2006-12-11 07:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont fall in love with a married man in the first place. He is married all the advice i can give you is put yourself in the situation. What if you were the married women and another one was falling in love with your husband how would you like that. Dont do something that you wouldnt like done to you.
2006-12-11 07:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is an addiction to a fanstasy of being loved with out any of the attachment problems. But being loved means being attached...
So try and remind yourself you are not in love with him, you are in love with the fantasy of being with him, then look for a guy who has better moral standing than to cheat on his wife-
Yet Karma might bite u in tooshy cause what goes around, comes around.
2006-12-11 07:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by allaboutme_333 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think instead of thinking about this married man, think of his poor wife who just like you fell in love with him and he put a ring on her finger and promised her a happy life. plus, no matter what he tells you he probably just is a creep who wants some different *** and then wants to go home to his trophy. YOU WILL NEVER be his trophy.
2006-12-11 07:47:00 · answer #7 · answered by adi23 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who forced you to fall in love with him? a married man almost always keeps his wife and the mistress is in the closet. just move on and forget him. there are lots of available single guys out there. find one.
2006-12-11 07:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by sinned 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you go with other friends, avoid him at all cost. Start dating others. When you see him remind your self would you want someone to go with your husband. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. The golden rule always works.
2006-12-11 07:53:03 · answer #9 · answered by springer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well do the right thing.maybe if you remember that if you interfere with another woman's relationship,the same thing will happen to you sooner or later,probably when you've fallen in love and get married.Be strong,you will be far prouder of your self if you don't give in to the temptation of adultery.
2006-12-11 07:05:24 · answer #10 · answered by punkin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋