How can I have sex with this girl I like that is not a virgin when I am without me being embarassed? I don't want to be embarrased or it to be awkward due to my lack of experience. Please help! And please don't remove I need to know!
2006-12-11 07:03:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just found out that her brother, who i'm friends with, told her that i was a virgin and she said "i feel sorry for him!" is that bad?? I really like her and I dont want her to laugh at me.
2006-12-11 07:27:13 · update #1
Tell her you're a virgin. She'll get a thrill out of educating a new mind. It'll make it that much better.
2006-12-11 07:05:01 · answer #1 · answered by T 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready to have sex, you shouldn't. You didn't mention anything about love. You shouldn't just have sex to have it. Be careful, you said she wasn't a virgin, you don't know what she might have that you do not.
Make sure that is what you truly want. Do want a relationship that is meaningful? Get to know her and take things slow. If she is the one you want to be with, she will guide you. Once in a relationship, you should have complete honesty and communication and she will know you are a virgin and she will be ok with it. She will show you and you can communicate between the both of you. Please take things slowly and be careful.
2006-12-11 07:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be confident and just do your thing, even if you weren't a virgin when your having sex with someone new sometimes there has to be a lil guiding anyways cause everyone has different likes and disslikes....
2006-12-11 07:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by Shay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your a virgin and that you want her to spend a night discovering and you want her to be your teacher. Don't be nervous and just enjoy the experience.
Good Luck and Have Fun!!!
2006-12-11 07:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
howdy guy, that's a controversy that I had to handle to boot. in case you nevertheless stay insecure, the unfavourable thoughts would proceed to be, even once you have intercourse with this woman. The incredibly significant element to bear in suggestions nevertheless, is which you would be able to desire to maintain all of it in attitude. attempt to no longer think of approximately what has befell contained in the previous, and instead element approximately all the best things that are happening ideal now. i comprehend it incredibly is annoying each so often to maintain your suggestions from wandering, yet you gotta in simple terms attempt your toughest. you ought to no longer blame her for her previous in any respect. it incredibly is ok to look to the previous for warning indications, even though it incredibly is prevalent for human beings in relationships to have intercourse. guy up and do your ultimate to away with all your insecurities, lest they harm you.
2016-10-05 04:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all dont tell her your a virgin, and before u go for it try to get some experienced with someone else. or just tell her and if she really loves you she wont laugh and she will understand.
2006-12-11 07:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by so cute u cant handle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her!!!!!!! she will really appreciate not having to worry about std's with a virgin. be careful, most people end up having feelings for their first lover so make sure you really like her.
2006-12-11 07:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by prettyme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what T said. That's what I did when my number finally came up. She took control and it was faaaaaaantastic!
2006-12-11 07:06:15 · answer #8 · answered by boredperv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is a decent person she wont care if your a virgin.. just tell her
2006-12-11 07:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by bajajunglemama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to make you her sex slave ! You want to know what she likes and let her teach you !! Have fun be safe and good luck !!!!!
2006-12-11 07:07:11 · answer #10 · answered by Mz Jones 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋