ADULTS! Hey men and ladies how do you spice up the bedroom ?

Question

My BF and I have been together for 4 years I am looking for ideas on how to spice up our bedroom. It's not that it is bad now, just want to make it fresh again. My BF is a little inexperienced in this area, so I want to drive him wild. Does anyone have any ideas or things that have worked for you. Anything that drives a man wild. Aside from sleeping with another woman for him and the backdoor. I am open, any suggestions?

Answer 1

My Fiance and I play a dice game. We number a piece of paper 1-12 (use 2 die) and write next to each number something that we enjoy such as 1.kiss me
2.rub my back
3.touch me...
Then when you roll the dice whatever number you land on is what your partner does to you. It's fun!

Answer 2

in general, women are more self conscientious of their own self image. Men are, but not to that degree, at least not most. There are some tho that do freak out if a hair is out of place, like the Fonze. As for me and hair, i have a buzz and it is goin away, so that doesnt bother me. I say this to those women who always ask their significant others do i look ok in this or do these look alright, You are the one wearing them. If they are comfortable to you, then go for it. People will look no matter what you have on, right? They notice if you have nasty clothes on and they notice if you are all spiffied up. I dont give a damn what other people think about what i wear. I am comfortable, and i am happy with what i have. I have shoes on my feet, shirt on my back, shorts or pants to wear, im all good then. Although my boxers get pretty fancy tho, for those "intimate moments". LOL

Answer 3

Being madly in love spices up the bedroom better than any kinky piece of plastic can...don't know if you've tried this simple suggestion yet or not, but get some kinda SUPER SEXY ensemble from Victoria's Secret. I'm talking garder (or however it's spelled) belts and all. All you have to do is wear it and that'll be enough, lol. Maybe a little teaser dance. Oh speaking of teasing, that works GREAT!!! Tell him that he's not allowed to touch you at all until you say so, maybe even pin his wrists down above his head. Tease 'em or do whatever it is you know he likes while he can't touch you, only see you and feel you. It'll drive him nuts TRUST ME!!! Have fun too ;)

Answer 4

Be open. Try everything once. Don't let your fears place walls between you and your sig other. Try Laura Corn's book "101 Nights of Great Sex". Visit adult sex stores together and explore whatever turns you on. Wear appealing lingerie.. and I mean lingerie that appeals to him... Talk about deepest desires and find out what would drive him wild. Make the fantasies that fall within your comfort zone come true.

Answer 5

Brazilian

Answer 6

Shaving each others private parts, oh that was fun! use lots of shaving cream!

Use a sharp knife (not surated) to scrape each others back gently, it brings you closer, and it opens up your pores and makes touching feel better.

Video record yourself having sex, don't have to watch it, but being taped is erotic

Have sex infront of a computer camera while online, make a new ID that no one knows about and go at it! its fun!

Answer 7

Role play, games, body paint, lingerie, read erotic stories to each other, different places other than the bedroom or the house as far as that goes. Write him a sex story, my husband loves that.

Answer 8

Paprika

Answer 9

A suggestion i made to someone else was play the other woman. Why should you let your man sleep with someone else let alone you while he is watching. Why not just pretending to be that someone else.

Answer 10

Every guy as well as girls have a little freak-aleek in them well get him a little buzz with dick-n-cider they sell them at the liquor stores maybe then he'll get naughty.Buzzness always does the trick!