Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

My sister recently hooked up with some guy, but I don't like him for her. I want my sister to have the best and right now the guy she's dating barely makes 27K a year. That's pathetic, I need to know how to convince her that if she stays with him, they'll be living in poverty?

2006-12-11 00:57:47 · 13 answers · asked by Wendy Love Muffin 1 in Family

And what happened when you met and realized it was BS??? Funniest story gets the 10 points!

I had one that told me he had an athletic build...showed up weighing around 400 lbs, could barely get out of his car... gawd.

2006-12-11 00:57:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 00:57:06 · 4 answers · asked by andrea m 1 in Singles & Dating

hi!....yesterday, i went to church with my bestfriend ...after that, he dragged me to the shop to try a wedding ring , since his fiancee is far away so i was standing next to him tried to decide what would be the size of the ring he must buy for their upcoming wedding.....my heart sunk and so with my stomach because i really love him....but i can`t tell him that , i can`t compromise our beautiful friendship for being selfish.....

i just want to share my story.....i just want to be heard....

thank you.....

2006-12-11 00:56:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is it possible that if a man whose married says he is in love with you, that it could be real. And how can you tell? What would you say or do in this situation? Should you walk away even if you know in your heart this man might be the love of your life?

2006-12-11 00:56:16 · 34 answers · asked by Kittykat 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 00:55:32 · 8 answers · asked by john 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, here's the deal...this guy and myself have been friends online for over 2 years now. About two months ago we decided to meet IRL to see what would happen. He lives about 2 hrs away.



We've gotten together 4 weekends (fri-sun) and hung out...things progressed somewhat from hand holding and cuddling to being more frisky but no sex. After his fourth visit he told me that when we'd started getting "more physical"...like me touching his chest and thighs....etc. that he was getting anxious and didn't know why.



He said he's totally attracted to me and gets sexually aroused so he didn't know what the problem was.



When he went home he said he was going to think about things. He made lists of things important to him and "us" was #2 right after his family but he still can't pinpoint the anxiety so he doesn't want us to continue into a physical relationship like that at this point.

2006-12-11 00:55:31 · 2 answers · asked by A B 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-11 00:54:43 · 14 answers · asked by Meena s 1 in Friends

While being pregnant and afterwards now, I've noticed that my husband doesn't really like to "do it" anymore. How can I get him back into the mood?

2006-12-11 00:54:17 · 12 answers · asked by guardianangel 3 in Marriage & Divorce

if she says give her space, but at the same time tells you she loves you more than she can explain and you are all the way in iraq what do you do, even when she is saying that she wants things to work

2006-12-11 00:54:16 · 8 answers · asked by aj_frankjr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have mutually ended a 5 yr relationship 4 months ago and although I know it is the best thing that could have happened I have no confidence at the moment and always feel that Im boring and have very low self esteem. On the outside it looks fine but inside Im so unhappy. She has moved on but I seemed to still have noone on the horizon...
I think that everyone is better than me. I feel like im in a rut and want to get out of it ....any ideas?

2006-12-11 00:51:52 · 21 answers · asked by bigbrother 2 in Singles & Dating

If not, can a cycle like that be broken. I've never been single and I feel extremely challenged to leave my boyfriend although our relationship isn't working out emotionally. We don't argue...some things about our relationship just don't seem right like our connection with each other...we seem to be on two different levels about the future.

2006-12-11 00:51:12 · 11 answers · asked by Benny 3 in Singles & Dating

i was playing on my friends phone last night and i was just having a little look at her txts when i came across dirty txt that she had sent to my bf. i had a look at her recived txt and found one txt from my bf asking who it was. so i decided to call him of her number and he answerd and when i said hello he said oh its you and put the phone down. me and my friend are now not speaking and she has txt him and explained it was her but i think he thinks it was me cause he will not answer my calls. what should i do?

2006-12-11 00:49:36 · 31 answers · asked by smith15 1 in Friends

lets face it we all like shoes...but women...many of the tip toppest shoe designers are men...and a lot of what we wear men like...a lot...so who actually has better taste in shoes and why....

oh or boots even...just in case you're a boots kinda gal/guy...;0)

2006-12-11 00:49:30 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is in the military with me and before he left he got married to a woman he has known for a very long time. He asked me to look out for her and make sure nothing has happened to her is she is going through something be there for her. Well the problem is that he has been very mean to her and is stressing her out to a degree past the stress that she has already been at with him being gone away from her. She doesnt know what to do and wants my advice. Does anyone have any advice i can give her?

2006-12-11 00:49:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

is she out there somewhere?? hiding perhaps???

2006-12-11 00:49:23 · 21 answers · asked by raymond m 2 in Singles & Dating

Just wanted to know where is the best spot a girl can kiss a guy. Guys....is there a place in your body that you like to be kissed at? And how do you want to be kissed..slow, fast, etc.? What would make a kiss perfect and memorable? And where, environment wise? I've never kissed anyone and I don't know any kissing ways. By the way, I'm looking for advice about kissing overall..where, how, location, etc. since as I stated earlier I've never kissed anyone and kind of trying to at least get some information. Is there a way a guy likes to be touched while kissing? Do you like to be gently touched on your face while getting kissed?

2006-12-11 00:48:51 · 7 answers · asked by amy_s03 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it ok to go out with a guy, one to one even when you have a boyfriend? Do you do that?

2006-12-11 00:47:41 · 12 answers · asked by Joeann 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you like the guy to ask if he can kiss you? Or do you like him just to lean in and surprise you? Or do you like to kiss him first?

2006-12-11 00:47:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi:

I am preparing for a divorce with my wife. I have not informed her yet and would like to make sure my financial situation is not ruined by the divorce. We have been married for 4 years (in California) and both still reside here. We have no community property together other than the household goods. My question is, if I purchase an apartment overseas (register under my parents' names) with money from my personal account, will that be considered community property?

I know I should consult a professional lawyer at some point but just wanted to get a sense of what the likely answer is. Many thanks!

2006-12-11 00:46:36 · 9 answers · asked by Spot 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I would like to know what actions would you define as cheating on your partner?

2006-12-11 00:45:52 · 26 answers · asked by jog 2 in Marriage & Divorce

they know just what to do and when, and when we go off doing things without their councel we often make miatakes. I'm talking about mums

2006-12-11 00:44:56 · 22 answers · asked by prof 1 in Family

my best guy friend sometimes says these confusing things to me(bear in mind,he has a gf) .he keeps on telling my other friends how much of a happy person i am & he always tell me how nice my smile is.we hang out a lot since we take most subjects & classes together.& one of the main things he does is to tease me like hell(esp abt the guy i like who's one of our friends too).i asked him why he liked teasing me so much & he replied with a "i love to see the reaction on your face cos your face lights up & you have a big smile which is lovely".most of our friends bug us saying that we like each other as well.he gets so concerned when i'm feeling down.
& recently when all of us(our friends) were planning to hang out,his gf(who's a freind of mine as well)told me she's not coming & when i urged him to persuade her to come he was like "i don't even talk to her abt hang outs cos she never comes & she never listens to what i say"
is he trying to be more than a best friend?
thanks a lot guys!

2006-12-11 00:44:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am a happily married indian woman with 1 child. 6 months ago i was introduced by my husband with his collegue. he has very nice and attractive nature. after the first meeting he visits us regularly. we got friendly and come close to each other. now a days i realize that he is attracted towards me and i also feel the same towards him. in one very weak moment we involved in a physical relationship. now he wants to continue this relationship. i dont want to cheat my husband, but at the same time i can not control my emotions towards him too. i am confused what to do now. please help e.

2006-12-11 00:43:44 · 11 answers · asked by Aditi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi!
I know for a fact that this girl is torn between me and her boyfriend. They have been together for a week, maybe. I talked to her about it, and now she doesn't know what to do. I think my cards are pretty good, but how do I make sure she breaks up with her boyfriend? Any ideas?

2006-12-11 00:42:32 · 16 answers · asked by amostthere 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you do with guilt? Where do you process it? Is there a time to be done with it?

2006-12-11 00:41:43 · 8 answers · asked by sandra b 5 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you do if you break up with your boyfriend right? You and a friend are casually touching and you don't do anything but you feel guilty because you go back out with your boyfriend and you love him. Should you feel guilty, should you tell?

2006-12-11 00:41:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

could he be saying he loves me or what...

2006-12-11 00:41:04 · 10 answers · asked by nins 2 in Singles & Dating

The whole relationship is wrong for lots of reasons and the more I tell him to stop calling or visiting,the more he does.I've tried putting him off me by squeeling unneccesarily or throwing tantrims.It is working but not as fast as i would like it to.He keeps insisting that my feelings are growing stronger but the opposite is true.What can i do since talking or avoiding him doesnt seem to work?

2006-12-11 00:40:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was trying to look somewhat sexy bc i knew i would see my crush, so i wore a white t-shirt, just a normal shirt with a carebear on it. but then later, i saw that it is somewhat see thru and i was wearing a white bra under it. would this be a turn-on or would you be embarrassed for me? i am bisexual. she looked at my chest and smiled. i thought it because of the carebear. she has said that she was falling for me through my writing but i dunno if it's sexual or not.

2006-12-11 00:40:17 · 27 answers · asked by rhiannon_kc 1 in Singles & Dating