i was trying to look somewhat sexy bc i knew i would see my crush, so i wore a white t-shirt, just a normal shirt with a carebear on it. but then later, i saw that it is somewhat see thru and i was wearing a white bra under it. would this be a turn-on or would you be embarrassed for me? i am bisexual. she looked at my chest and smiled. i thought it because of the carebear. she has said that she was falling for me through my writing but i dunno if it's sexual or not.
2006-12-11 00:40:17 · 27 answers · asked by rhiannon_kc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wear the shirt without a bra! Enjoy!
2006-12-11 00:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely sexy. Keep in mind that most person to person interactions have a good sexual component to them where it's explicit or implicit. Girls and guys like to look at each other (same or opposite sex) and like to see a bit of outward sexual expression at times. You probably were seen as being comfortable with your body and wanted to make those around you aware of the fact, as well as creating some sexual desires in others to a degree. Don't worry about it, if she saw the Carebear then she saw your boobs, and if she smiled then she was flirting with you in response to your flirtatious shirt, you did good.
2006-12-11 00:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter? It sounds like she digs you. Move on. From a guy perspective, I would give you props on the Carebear shirt (didn't know they still made those) and you had a bra on underneath your see-thru shirt. So its sexy but you're not exposing yourself. Stop thinking and have fun with your friend.
2006-12-11 00:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by I like Chinese food 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I should assume that your crush is either bi or lesbian. If she looked at your chest and smiled then I would say that there were a couple of things going through her mind. Yes, she might have thought it was sexy ( personally, I would have been embarrassed, but, sometimes showing your vulnerability is sexy too ), she might have enjoyed seeing the CareBare ( not my sort of thing, though ) or she might have understood your predicament of the see-through shirt and the smile was one of camaraderie and understanding. Either way, no negative stuff there.
Good luck
2006-12-11 00:46:39 · answer #4 · answered by yodeladyhoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... neither.
The point of wearing bras is so that you don't reveal what's underneath. In this situation, the bra did its job. If it had been a colored bra, then I could understand some embarassment, but since it was white it's really no big deal.
And seriously, if that shirt is so see-through, you probably shouldn't wear it at all.
2006-12-11 00:45:17 · answer #5 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you got a pretty good shot there. Now try the carebear shrit with NO bra!
2006-12-11 00:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who Cares
2006-12-11 00:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds sort of sexy, but it would be sexier if you could see a bit through the bra.
2006-12-11 01:18:49 · answer #8 · answered by so 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think you should have forgotten the bra and really seen her smile get bigger, particularly if you have large nipples... And if there was a bit of a breeze, they would have gotten hard!!! :D
2006-12-11 00:43:42 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexy...A white t-shirt with a white bra...what's wrong with that? It's better then wearing no bra or a black bra, right?
2006-12-11 00:44:02 · answer #10 · answered by tdmatte 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋