Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

How can you deal w/ a man that loves his space and everything is on HIS time.

Examples of what he does:

-If I get a call on my cell, he looks through his cell so he doesn't feel stupid.

-If asks me to go out and I have other plans I can tell that he gets offended but he doesn't like to show it.

How do I deal w/ such a man????

2006-12-11 02:11:19 · 1 answers · asked by dodie j 1 in Singles & Dating

If i was your woman, what would you do to make me so bad?

2006-12-11 02:11:11 · 17 answers · asked by Pardonne Moi? 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm against living in with my boyfriend because I'm also against pre-marital sex. What should I do if my boyfriend asks me to move in with him? Isn't it immoral?

2006-12-11 02:10:53 · 13 answers · asked by phoenix 2 in Singles & Dating

saddest poem you will ever read. from a young girl to her mom. here it is:

I went to a party, Mom, I remembered what you said.
You told me not to drink, Mom, so I drank soda instead
I really felt proud inside, Mom, the way you said I would.
I didn't drink and drive, Mom, even though the others said I should.
I know I did the right thing, Mom, I know you are always right.
Now the party is finally ending
Mom, as everyone is driving out of sight.

As I got into my car, Mom, I knew I'd get home in one piece.
Because of the way you raised me, so responsible and sweet.
I started to drive away, Mom, but as I pulled out into the road,
the other car didn't see me, Mom, and hit me like a load.
As I lay there on the pavement, Mom, I hear the policeman say,
the other guy is drunk, Mom, and now I'm the one who will pay.

I'm lying here dying, Mom.. I wish you'd get here soon.
How could this happen to me, Mom? My life just burst like a balloon.
There is blood all around me, Mom, and most of it is mine.
I hear the medic say, Mom, I'll die in a short time.
I just wanted to tell you, Mom, I swear I didn't drink.
It was the others, Mom. The others didn't think.
He was probably at the same party as I.
The only difference is, he drank and I will die.

Why do people drink, Mom? It can ruin your whole life.
I'm feeling sharp pains now. Pains just like a knife.
The guy who hit me is walking, Mom, and I don't think it's fair.
I'm lying here dying and all he can do is stare.

Tell my brother not to cry, Mom. Tell Daddy to be brave.
And when I go to heaven, Mom, put "Daddy's Girl" on my grave.
Someone should have told him, Mom, not to drink and drive.
If only they had told him, Mom, I would still be alive.
My breath is getting shorter, Mom. I'm becoming very scared.
Please don't cry for me, Mom. When I needed you, you were always there.
I have one last question, Mom, before I say good bye.
I didn't drink and drive, so why am I the one to die?

2006-12-11 02:09:24 · 32 answers · asked by choosinghappiness 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have guy friend from the Phillipines who has a gf back there. They are engaged and the last time he saw her was last November(Nov. 2005). He plans on seeing her in October 2007 and he sends money to her so they can buy a condo there.

2006-12-11 02:08:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been burned to many times to know if it still exsisits out there I wonder If i should just give up and move on

2006-12-11 02:08:17 · 9 answers · asked by tyler d 2 in Singles & Dating

i got pregnant when i was 17 and we were a childhood sweetheart but he left me coz he migrate in states.i was young then and its easy for me to forget and forgive him.and he had livein partner in states and they had a baby.after 6yrs 2002 we saw each other again and he said that he left the girl.no doubt im still inluv with for da sake of my son but we got married but he went back to states to fix our petition.but i found out this MAY that after our marriage he still living with his partner in states and have another baby.and last yr he wants to divorce me bcoz da girl wants to.he choose that girl but that time i ddnt know da situation but he found out girl cheating.he came back to again and said sori i though i did sumting wrong.but few months ago he wants to break up with me again and her mom told me everthing behind i was shocked coz i trust him so much.he wants to come back to me again but i made a decision to stop between us.i admit im still inluv with him.we have two kids.HELP

2006-12-11 02:08:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ever start working on something... and no matter what, you can't get it right, can't get it to fit?

Well, I put together a nice guitar riff a couple of months ago... and I figured "Well, I should write a song to go with it." I got as far as the first line and couldn't go anywhere with it. Well, this weekend, three more lines came to me. Here's what I have so far, what do you think?

"You... are my disease.
The pain I carry owns me.
A dream... nobody sees.
My broken mannequin queen."

Yup, that's it so far. Does this have potential? Or should I just give up on this?

2006-12-11 02:07:20 · 9 answers · asked by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 in Singles & Dating

they are very stubborn, I so don't want to hurt them but I don't want them to be hurt orhurt somone else...help?

2006-12-11 02:06:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Women only reply, please.

2006-12-11 02:06:12 · 6 answers · asked by Allan J 1 in Singles & Dating

If you found out two years later that your husband had sex with a woman at his bachelor party? I want to leave him... now what would you do?... yes he took a young lady to a hotel the week before I'll wedding and had sex with her and he is just telling me because I keep asking him what happened that night when he din't come home til 4am..what would you do lady's..

2006-12-11 02:06:10 · 20 answers · asked by ladytee 4 in Marriage & Divorce

And everybody hates you?

2006-12-11 02:06:04 · 27 answers · asked by Mariah 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

please dont give me any lifew stories or BS like that thankkss

2006-12-11 02:04:54 · 27 answers · asked by kellydarcey 2 in Singles & Dating

Guys, if you know that a girl has had an abortion in the past (not yours)... would you consider having a serious relationship with her or ever consider marrying her?

2006-12-11 02:04:11 · 12 answers · asked by I scream for ICE CREAM!! 3 in Singles & Dating

My next door neighbour is 32 and I am 19,she is single attractive and intelligent . I know she is attracted to me, but I was wondering does a young man older woman relationship ever work out

2006-12-11 02:03:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You know, really make him remember this one!

2006-12-11 02:03:09 · 19 answers · asked by Kayle xxx 2 in Singles & Dating

okay he can fine some money to pay his phonen bill but cant fine any to get me to work and dont like spenin time with me and the sex part is just okitn couldn be better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-11 02:02:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i work with a white guy and when he first met me he was very stand offish once he got to know me we became very close. i'm actually very shy and was a little uncormfortable with the way he was around me.

2006-12-11 02:02:43 · 9 answers · asked by ponypuffgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you girls like long, small , thick , or thin penises? Do u think about that before you become attracted to a guy? Would it infringe if you were attracted to a guy and did not like his penis? I had to use the word penis because d!!!k is not aloud

2006-12-11 02:02:28 · 22 answers · asked by saiyanstylze 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel our daughter in law who is a controller is deliberately trying to divide our family. I think she distorts the truth and I do not know how to handle it.

2006-12-11 02:01:45 · 6 answers · asked by maddy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked my girlfriend what she wanted for Christmas. She said she wanted a 400$ bracelet she had her eye on. Uhhhh...? I have been going out with her for a little over a half year. I think this is a ridiculous amount of money to spend on her. I'm not married to her for crying out loud, and even if I were, I would spend maybe 100$ for a gift. I am not one to "buy love" for someone. She is really upset with me because I told her flat out that I do not think this is appropriate to spend this much. She thinks I don't have respect for her because I won't spend this much or something. I just feel like now I should just drop her. I don't make much, and I have 1500$ to pay off on my credit card as it is. I was planning on getting her maybe something around a hundred, but 400$? What do you all suggest? And what kind of money would you spend? In my family we have a very modest Christmas, and my father I don't think has ever spent more than 200$ on mom for x mas,that I remember.

2006-12-11 02:01:38 · 10 answers · asked by ben 3man 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 02:00:48 · 10 answers · asked by Kain 5 in Singles & Dating

i really need some good advice not some ******* asshole's whose bored this is serious

2006-12-11 02:00:25 · 22 answers · asked by sammywluva 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do spouses cheat when they are deployed?

Case 1: Husband is in the military and he cheats with someone in his unit? He brings home a STD to his pregnant wife and makes her believe it’s her. Note she was fully tested by doctor before she became pregnant and while pregnant before he came home.

Case 2: Wife is in the military becomes pregnant while deployed go home for two weeks R & R returns back to Iraq and tells her husband she is with child. The dates don’t add up with the doctor’s speculation.

Case 3: The other spouse of case 1 & case 2 hooks up for a short time but cuts one another off when spouses return. Spouses here are tested for the mysterious STD from case 1 and he/she is cleared (case 2/3) but she is not(case1) therefore it came from case 1 husband.


How can the wife tell the husband in case 1 it was him that brought it home? She have already proven her case by saying she was fully tested before she became pregnant with his baby. And yes its his baby in case 1. Case 1 still walks around like he is so innocent. Also spouse found emails to prove her point dated back while he was away. Should she leave him since he lied and she told the truth?

2006-12-11 01:59:53 · 12 answers · asked by CJ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a beatiful 1 year old daughter with a not so great ex. He and I got into a tif about 7 months ago that turned phyisical on his part and he accidentally struck our daughter. Ever since then (although it was an accident) I haven't had much to do with him. DCF is involved and he is only allowed to see our daughter 1 hour a month with supervised (by Safe Childrens Coilition) visitation. He can get more visitation, he just has to complete the tasks they have asked him to...until then if he goes near her without permission he will be put in jail. Anyways, I am getting married in two weeks to a wonderful man and father. My daughter absolutely adores him and likewise. My fiance' is really the only father she has known. Her real dad has had 7 months (with no provail) to get his act together and nothing. He pays me no child support and never buys things for her because he has no job, but he does always give me a hard time. Is there anything I can do?! has anyone been where I am?Even a lil

2006-12-11 01:59:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i want to leave my husband of 7 years i am scared. i doubt myself.i am still in school i have a learning disability and its hard. i need to pass the boards and he is the one tutoring me helping me get threw it. mean while he waits on me hand and foot and he supports me thats what makes me like him but its weird cause even though he educates me and waits on me hand and foot he is still mean as well. if some one puts me down he wont stick up for me he will like the person doing it. he as cheated on nme in the past and he even has a std. he aslo has a shitty attitude and i dont like him anymore for everything he has done. i can figure out why he waits on me and and foot pays all my bills and educates me but still cheats on me and is mean to me in the process with his shitty attitude. he doesnt give me love but out of the blue he will . what do you about this guy.i do not have an std i did wear protection

2006-12-11 01:59:30 · 17 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Any conflict by females, females are the ultimate losers. What is the solution without conflicts and confrontation. No law in the World can set right all the males. Can we say females are immature or too intelligent or trying to dominate male, impossible or possible. Law enforcing machinery has a big job on hand - male female conflicts/confrontations.

2006-12-11 01:58:12 · 9 answers · asked by Indian wizard 2 in Friends

I got into a situation that was bad and could have been avoided but it wasn't so thats why i'm writing. So I got into arguement at school and this girl had a teacher that alot of people didn't like including me. So we were talking about the teacher in a bad way like saying she was obiece and other non-sence so then the student started to talk about me so me and my mouth started to get smart with her and of course she started to cry and played a drama queen roll and got me into trouble with the teacher so i got writin up on a 190 and got removed from school so now i had a conference today and she didn't get into trouble and she didn't so do u think i was right for getting smart and do u think it was right for me to get into trouble without her getting into trouble???

2006-12-11 01:57:35 · 9 answers · asked by Mariku 1 in Friends

before 8months i have marry with my love,now my parents forced me to marry other man.they dont like my lover.parents traped me in room.what i do now?

2006-12-11 01:57:34 · 11 answers · asked by mdbr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 01:57:01 · 5 answers · asked by Captain Morgan 1 in Singles & Dating