Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

i am 33yrs old a bricklayer from grimsby and would like to go on m.s.n or other free chat rooms but have no freinds

2006-12-11 01:43:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There's a girl I like, she liked me, now I made her mad, I have no clue how, but how can I make her...not mad at me?

2006-12-11 01:42:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Whenever i make love to my wife she just lays there 90% of the time. We make love 3 times a month. We are newly weds.She is turned on by muscular men , i am not.Neither am i skinny or fat.
Sex with my exes was explosive. She says sex with her exes was explosive too.I ve even stopped trying to make moves on my wife.I dont want to get hurt or dissapointed.I tell her i love throughout the day, fix n serve her meals try to cuddle in bed, kiss her, hold her etc yet she says i dont do romantic things for her enough to turn her on before sex.What im i supposed to do, buy a million flowers a week? She loves me n i love her too.But shes not turned on by me or interested in sex. She only does it for my sake.Im getting frustrated now and when we talk about it she says i should put on muscle. So does that mean when i beef up she will be turned on? She says sex with her exes was explsoive yet only one of them was muscular.Rest were skinny or average joes. What is the problem? Im about to give up..

2006-12-11 01:42:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my ex husband left me because he chose the girl to be with her.he promised to get us for petition to live in states with our kids.but i never knew that he living with the girl and i found out recently that they have kids too.but they are over now coz he found out the girl cheated on him.i didnt know about this.now another one with him,his mother told me everything.honestly,i waited him for 6yrs because he left me when we were young to migrate in states and when he came back he ask me to marry him and still i love him thats why we got married,sorry im not good in english but i hope you will understand me,i just want to get comfort for your advices.i trusted him so much and i loved him,but it so sad that after all the sacrifices i gave to him for waiting this what i got.i still feel the pain of what he done to me for cheating me ad chose the girls.he wants to comeback but i told him its over,its hard to say gudbye to the one you truly love but i have to do it coz i dont want to get hurt

2006-12-11 01:41:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 01:40:04 · 35 answers · asked by whitegurl 1 in Singles & Dating

meaning things happened when u was dating and liked eachother alot..now u both love eachother..is it easier to forget the bad things that happened over the like period over the love period?

2006-12-11 01:39:53 · 7 answers · asked by nene 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend I guess is showing signs of that, or maybe he is just a natural born womanizer and liar. He is seeing someone right now, the girl will contact me and will tell me about their so called relationship. When you ask my BF he will just tell me she means nothing and he will even plan things for our future. Then I found out that he is also doing the same exact thing to other girl. I don't think a man of 42 yrs old will still play with feeling as easily as that, not unless he is suffering a mental or personality problem, right?

2006-12-11 01:39:15 · 24 answers · asked by pretty me 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 01:38:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 01:38:53 · 19 answers · asked by Jerome 2 in Friends

well its a long story to put a long story short we have had a really bad year this year me and my husband cant aford to buy any christmas for anyone h
and dont have the money to have christmas dinner how can i tell everyone that we cant aford anything this year? can anyone give me any addvice?

2006-12-11 01:38:43 · 9 answers · asked by marieanddave2@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family

My boyfriend I guess is showing signs of that, or maybe he is just a natural born womanizer and liar. He is seeing someone right now, the girl will contact me and will tell me about their so called relationship. When you ask my BF he will just tell me she means nothing and he will even plan thins for our future. Then I found out that he is also doing the same exact thing to other girl. I don't think a man of 42 yrs old will still play with feeling as easily as that, not unless he is suffering a mental or personality problem, right?

2006-12-11 01:38:40 · 3 answers · asked by pretty me 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend asked me to go out tonight to see somebody who's an old friend. But i can't make it, plus i don't really want to go really. maybe im lazy... help!

2006-12-11 01:38:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

before I fell in love of a man younger than me of 3 years ,we texted each other and to be honest me more than him ,but i felt he loved me a lot as he said in his texts ,but at same time I was feeling it is just texts cos when we meet each other as if he does not send such love messages but I thought he was shy ,he knows me well and I know him well ,we r even relatives and I assumed he w ud not just play with me ,but finally we stopped sending each other for no reason ,but I dream of him and this make me think of him again sometimes,Iam very curious to know if he was really loving me but he could not tell me.he is still single, me not

2006-12-11 01:38:24 · 2 answers · asked by camilia and dalia 2 in Singles & Dating

because he thinks I am underweight. It is not in my genes to be large and I think it is because his family thinks I am too skinny. They think I am sick or something, most of the women in his family are "bigger" than me. Do you know the average wieght for a woman 5'9? I have actually tried eating all the food he wants me to but I will gain a couple of pounds and then lose it right away. Right now I am at 149lbs. What should I do???? I have tried telling him it's not possible and he thinks that I am not trying.

2006-12-11 01:37:31 · 17 answers · asked by Shannon B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

do you want guys to notice and comment?

2006-12-11 01:36:47 · 14 answers · asked by steemshovel 4 in Singles & Dating

If u was with your mate, and things happened and broke up..now u r back together and love eachother now.. can u forget about the past?

2006-12-11 01:36:42 · 17 answers · asked by nene 1 in Singles & Dating

We got married on August 12, 2006, and I've just started to send out my thank yous this week, is it too late?

2006-12-11 01:36:40 · 22 answers · asked by ELW 3 in Weddings

I know about physical, and sexual abuse, but what are the signs of verbal abuse. I really need to know, please give me serious answers. I think my dad is verbally/emotionally abusing me. Please i really need to know.

2006-12-11 01:34:34 · 18 answers · asked by Hannah V 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've always stood by my girlfreid when she was sad or depressed.But when i fell and was feeling sad,depressed and hurt all bcoz of her (She mistreated me and hurt my feelings) , she did nothing to heal my wound and juz left me to bleed like that.She's asking me to get back personal with her but i'm trying to tell her tht lets juz be friends for the time being bcoz i cant handle another deep relationship again.Now,on top of tht now , she's pressuring me to go on again with her like normal. How can a hurt person go on back just like tht ?? She's deciding to break up with me now ..Im soooooo confused !!
1)Is it my fault ??
2)Are girls supposed to act like that ??
3)What should i do ??

2006-12-11 01:33:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 01:33:12 · 7 answers · asked by H M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Does a woman that produces a lot of pussyjuice turn you off? Just curious.

2006-12-11 01:33:11 · 31 answers · asked by Pardonne Moi? 2 in Singles & Dating

If you thought that person was not any good in bed, have you ever been in the middle of it and wish you could just get away? (i.e. false advertisement) What did you do?

2006-12-11 01:32:54 · 9 answers · asked by K-E-G 4 in Singles & Dating

ok well im in love with my best friend for 2 years.. and he knows and i stopped tellin him my feelings after the 3rd time in 2 years.. and well a few weeks ago he kisses me unexpectedly while i was talkin bout how ugly i am.. and we make out and "stuff" and then i asked what is goin on and he says he didnt kno and we held hands and each other for few and then he kisses me again.. and we made out again and ended up on the floor, no *** happened cuz i kno he is Waitin till marriage. and well he said he couldnt date me and that he is sorry but i tried to get up and he said no and he just held me tight.. and then i sat up and he grabed me and i held him and he just wouldnt let go> i loved holdin him so much and the way we kissed was amazing.. and then the next day he says im sorry i wasnt myself it shouldnt of happened.. what is he thinking? does he like me? does he love me and doesnt want to cuz we are friends?

2006-12-11 01:32:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 01:32:16 · 29 answers · asked by Unhinged.... 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-11 01:32:13 · 10 answers · asked by Jessica S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a 16 year old African American and I often masturbate daily. I actually do it as soon as I get home from school each day when I have the house to myself. I am just wondering sometimes I feel guilty because all my sexual fantasies are usually of my female pretty classmates, the popular blondes and brunettes. I live in a white suburb and these are the prettiest girls in the school. I usually just come home each, get naked, and go to my bedroom and go to it on my bed with baby oil. I really feel weird sometimes because I usually fantasise about these girls wearing a tee shirt bending over showing me their rump. I totally feel like I am treating these girls like sex objects in my fantasies. I even masturbate to celebrities also but again, its usually a girl like Jessica Simpson bent over in a short skirt with no panties or just a t shirt.

Is there anyway not to feel guilty? Is it ok to treat women like this during fantasy? I am just curious. My friend Janie said its disrespectful

2006-12-11 01:32:01 · 13 answers · asked by donniesmello 1 in Friends

male age 36 us. military spouse jamil tetterton

2006-12-11 01:31:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok the reason why we broke up was becuz he said that he didnt want a gf at time.

Yes he did look me in th eyes when talking and he sounded really serious to about what he said. I also could tell by looking in his eyes that he meant it to.

2006-12-11 01:31:26 · 4 answers · asked by preppy_gurl101010 1 in Singles & Dating

...sleep with her new boyfriend. I haven't met him yet. My friend wants me to set up a honey trap for him so she can see if she should trust him, but she says if he accepts then I should actually do it. I don't mind, but I'm worried that she will find out that I have a third breast on my stomach, no hole in my bottom and I have a tail. All these things that I have managed to hide from her so far. I'm worried that if she finds out she will tell all my other friends but I don't know how to say no to her. What shall I do?

2006-12-11 01:31:07 · 39 answers · asked by Jo_Diva 4 in Singles & Dating

The girl says you know what, since your such a nice guy I wanna treat you to dinner! So she made plans for Wed. and Im just curious as to why insteading of asking me, she just went for it and said she is gonna do it lol.

2006-12-11 01:30:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating