my ex husband left me because he chose the girl to be with her.he promised to get us for petition to live in states with our kids.but i never knew that he living with the girl and i found out recently that they have kids too.but they are over now coz he found out the girl cheated on him.i didnt know about this.now another one with him,his mother told me everything.honestly,i waited him for 6yrs because he left me when we were young to migrate in states and when he came back he ask me to marry him and still i love him thats why we got married,sorry im not good in english but i hope you will understand me,i just want to get comfort for your advices.i trusted him so much and i loved him,but it so sad that after all the sacrifices i gave to him for waiting this what i got.i still feel the pain of what he done to me for cheating me ad chose the girls.he wants to comeback but i told him its over,its hard to say gudbye to the one you truly love but i have to do it coz i dont want to get hurt
2006-12-11 01:41:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
LIKE I HAVE BEEN STATING...YOU HAVE BEEN POSTING THIS MANY TIMES FOR MANY WEEKS, 16X WITH DIFFERENT HEADINGS!. I AM SO SORRY YOU ARE IN SO MUCH PAIN, BUT IT WILL DISSIPATE, YOU MUST GIVE IT TIME. IT MIGHT BE TIME TO SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP, ONE WHO SPECIALIZES IN WOMAN'S ISSUES AND FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS, AS YOU KNOW YOU AND YOU CHILDREN DO NOT DESERVE THIS AT ALL. TRY TO KEEP STRONG. TRY TO HAVE A GOOD HOLIDAY FOR YOUR CHILDREN'S SAKE. PEACE TO YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN!
2006-12-12 03:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by brxny2000 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I agree. Stay strong and stand your ground. If he's already left you and cheated before, don't expect that to change. It's already over and I think you're better off. Do not subject yourself to the hurt all over again. We all deserve someone that we can trust and depend on.
It's out there honey, Mr. Right is real he's just not into rushing into anything. The RIGHT one will find you when you least expect it and he will be faithful, honest and trustworthy.
Hold out for it. You OWE it to yourself!
2006-12-11 01:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody deserves a true love, but this man hasn't given it to you, so you must not let yourself settle. It is going to hurt... bad! LOL but you have to pick up your pieces, put them back and face another day finding a man who respects and loves you the way you respect and love him.
2006-12-11 01:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by throughthebackyards 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i empathize with you. you will cry and probably cry some more, but in time you will laugh again, if you stay away from him. however, if you go back to him you will most likely never stop crying because you'll still be with a jerk and a liar. let time heal your heart, but if you stay with him, than you have to totally forgive him or the relationship wont work.
2006-12-11 02:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. If you stay with him your probably only setting yourself up for more heartache in the future. Someone who would lie to you and do the things he did has extremely bad character.
2006-12-11 01:51:21 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing. after the way he treated you, you shouldn't be with him. you deserve a much better man. it's hard to get over someone you love, but you have to keep trying or you will get hurt again. good luck!
2006-12-11 01:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doing the right thing. Don't take this lying loser back..he will only use you and the kids again. I know it hurts but time will heal that.
2006-12-11 03:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take him back.
2006-12-11 01:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋