I've always stood by my girlfreid when she was sad or depressed.But when i fell and was feeling sad,depressed and hurt all bcoz of her (She mistreated me and hurt my feelings) , she did nothing to heal my wound and juz left me to bleed like that.She's asking me to get back personal with her but i'm trying to tell her tht lets juz be friends for the time being bcoz i cant handle another deep relationship again.Now,on top of tht now , she's pressuring me to go on again with her like normal. How can a hurt person go on back just like tht ?? She's deciding to break up with me now ..Im soooooo confused !!
1)Is it my fault ??
2)Are girls supposed to act like that ??
3)What should i do ??
2006-12-11 01:33:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
**** her off! She has no respect for you or your feelings and you deserve so much better.It is not your fault, you did alot for this girl and she took advantage of it.And no... most girls dont normally act like that.Go out and have fun with your buddies and forget bout her.You'll find someone very amazing who will stick by you through thick and thin, when you are ready.Honestly I reckon you should have nothing more to do with a head case like her.She'll cause you more pain and stress. Live your life and do want you want.Overall you have to look after number 1.Good Luck and I hope my advice has helped you!
2006-12-11 01:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not your fault, she is not helping you and shes being ignorant and self-centered She just cares about her self and if things are going good for her she just wont care what happens to anybody else. Everyone can act like this it doesn't mean that males can't do what she is doing to you because they do also, so no not all girls/females act like this. Everyone is different so don't come to conlusions that every girl is the same or males even thought it may feel like its true. Lastly If you are not happy in this relationship then its time for you to get out of it you don't need to take crap from someone. Be single for a while get yourself back on your feet and move on. You will be better off.
Good Luck!
2006-12-11 09:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by Sugar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. No, it is not your fault. It's hers for being a dramatic biznitch.
2. No, not all females act like that. But I will admit that many will try to put you through guilt trips, but if that's not exactly what she's doing to you, it's not normal for females.
3. Don't go out with her again. Once someone hurts you, you needn't chase after them. If they go after you, they will only hurt you again.
(I had to use the word 'female' because the casual term is blocked on this piece o' #(@& laptop at school.)
So forget her, and move on.
2006-12-11 09:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by Kittyfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your fault! It sounds like she needs time to sort out her life and get her self help do deal with stress and other problems that's going on in her life ATM or from the past. i wish u all the best of luck and if it doesn't work out with her i hope u find someone really nice and that will make u happy
2006-12-11 09:43:42 · answer #4 · answered by perth_babe06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello. It's not your fault man. I know where you coming from. All girls do not act like this unless she like to see you hurt. Here my advice and please follow it to the letter:
Gather all your emotion and tell her in her face that being with you is not good for either one of us and just walk away.( If you guys argue, keep your cool... if you can).
Lastly, Leave her alone and move on with your life and begin to heal. I pray that you will meet a very good woman that will treat you right.
Keep your head up and enjoy life!
2006-12-11 09:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by Doc Rick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not your fault and all girls are not alike so can't say she is supposed to act like that or not what you should do is try to talk to her and let her know how you feel i have the same problem w/ my bf he hurt me so bad now he wants me to just forget and move on i told him to leave so i dont know he want go anywhere though
2006-12-11 09:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it from me!!!! in my time i would love to hurt guys feeling but that was because i didnt know how to care!! you see women look for revenge when guys hurt them but, if you give and give, and dont recieve then talk to her and tellher that you cant go on being treated worse than a doormat if youre with her for her to be one of the solutions and a person to help u with problems, not for her to be a problem!!!! dont let her treat you dirty, cuz when u leave her, shell realize what she did and wants to go back but u wont be there! TRUST ME I WAS IN THAT SITUATION! i walked in her shoes and yours! thats how i learned, the hard way!
2006-12-11 09:41:39 · answer #7 · answered by *(¯`ξŔ1₭4´¯) Ł4 (¯`₮Ř4V1ξ§4´¯)* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this isnt ur fault- she has some serious issues she needs to deal with, some girls do act like this, and walk away from her
2006-12-11 09:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your fault
The majority of girls do NOT act like that
You need to move on. Cut ties with this girl, she is bringing you down!
2006-12-11 09:36:53 · answer #9 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her you should forget about that and move on. Just talk to her and tell her how you felt about the whole situation. If your that unhappy move on.
2006-12-11 09:38:00 · answer #10 · answered by little_gizmo2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋