Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

You are a man and you're at a social event. You are in a room full of strangers. Three 40+ women arrive together. What makes you choose one over the others to talk to and get her number. What makes you think one might be more willing than the others to hook up with you?

2006-12-11 02:35:43 · 8 answers · asked by Oh Wise One 2 in Singles & Dating

i love my friend...
but we both are girls..and she is unaware of this love that imhaving towards her..
i wish to live with her..be with her ..just like a male partner..
but smasex relatiosnhip is a taboo in out society..and our country...
im a christian girl..while she is a muslim..
i doubt...she would accept me..
as she always talks about settling with a handsome man..
...
i hate myself for falling in love with her...
she is in my mind..day and night.
i cant get over my obssesion on her..
my self conflict is destroying me...
i hate it...
i have an identity conflict...too..
i always been like a man inside...though im born as a girl..i prefer being a man...
i admire sporty attire's..and man casual wears..
i have no interest in female attire's..but i have to wear them...for the sake of the society...
cant wait to end my life as a female..and hope to be born again as a handsome guy so then i can marry my dear friend...

2006-12-11 02:35:42 · 3 answers · asked by FaTaLe Attraction 1 in Singles & Dating

she went to her home on the pretext of assisting her parents fix her brother's marriage..( truly so) but after that instead of communicating clearly as to what is holding her back there..she is dilly dallying the issue & 'm not having a clue as to whay is she not coming ..from india & i'm alone in nigeria..

2006-12-11 02:34:41 · 7 answers · asked by pankaj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy I am totally in love with. He works at my college, I told him I liked him and he said he had to remain professional at all times.. before I was a student at my college he would call and ask me how I was doing and stuff. when I would come to visit the campus he was really friendly and would sit next to me all the time. I am totally in love with him and i was wondering if there is a chance he might love me too???


Also.. Guys.. if you see a girl you really like will you go up and tell the girl or just pretend you dont see her??
I need some major help from you all.. please help.

2006-12-11 02:34:27 · 8 answers · asked by Bored&Broken 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 02:34:08 · 11 answers · asked by shreya 2 in Friends

JUST curious!!..^_^

It is said that curiousity KILLS THE CAT!!

2006-12-11 02:34:07 · 14 answers · asked by Romeo (The Original) 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 02:33:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if so....why dont you put some socks on??????

2006-12-11 02:33:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we dated for a month, and then cos work got in the way, we broke up. no time. we've been friends ever since. now having settled our time issues, i was wondering if we should get back together. i still like him, and the feelings are mutual. is it sensible to give it a go?again!

2006-12-11 02:32:57 · 32 answers · asked by supergull 1 in Singles & Dating

read it and tell me what u think
and what was ur feeling when u read it


It's four in the morning,the end of decemer
I'm writing to now just to see if you're better
New York is cold, but I like where I'm living
There's music on Clinton Street all through the evening
I hear that you're building your little house deep in the desert
You're living for nothing now, I hope you're keeping some kind of record
Yes, and Jane came by with a lock of your hair
She said that you gave it to her
That night that you planned to go clear
Did you ever go clear?

Ah, the last time we saw you you looked so much older
Your famous blue raincoat was torn at the shoulder
You'd been to the station to meet every train
And you came home without Lili Marlene
And you treated my woman to a flake of your life
And when she came back she was nobody's wife

Well I see you there with the rose in your teeth
One more thin gypsy thief
Well I see Jane's awake
She sends her regards

Bm7.. ...|G.. ...|Em.. ...|F#m7.. ...|

And what can I tell you my brother, my killer
What can I possibly say?
I guess that I miss you, I guess I forgive you
I'm glad you stood in my way
If you ever come by here, for Jane or for me
Well your enemy is sleeping, and his woman is free

Yes, and thanks, for the trouble you took from her eyes
I thought it was there for good
So I never tried

And Jane came by with a lock of your hair
She said that you gave it to her
That night that you planned to go clear
Sincerely, L. Cohen

2006-12-11 02:31:59 · 4 answers · asked by N0t Known Never Ever 2 in Friends

There is this very attractive bank teller that I like. She is always there whenever I go to the bank to deposit money. Im really interested in her. How do I approach her? And what should I say or tell her? What is the best thing I should do? Thanks for your help people I really do appreciate ur advices.

2006-12-11 02:30:22 · 16 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 02:30:15 · 20 answers · asked by sarah c 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 02:28:35 · 12 answers · asked by as_if_really 1 in Singles & Dating

when some1 says
I admire you
or
I appreciate you
whats the difference?

2006-12-11 02:28:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband demanded 8 weeks of summer visitation during our divorce. He now claims that he does not have the time for them, and he sends my 11 year old and 15 year old to his parents for weeks at a time. My children claim that their grandparents do not treat them well when their father is not around. We also knew about the bad treatment before the divorce, and my ex and I promised the children that they would not have to see their grandparent alone. But since the divorce, that has all changed. Also, my ex is a lawyer and threatens to fight everything in court, and I do not have the financial means to fight back.

2006-12-11 02:28:07 · 11 answers · asked by Nelly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you really expect some one to be attracted towards you and make him busy with wet dreams.

2006-12-11 02:28:01 · 7 answers · asked by smash wit love 1 in Singles & Dating

Since sex is spiritually binding it means that once two people have sex they are spiritually bound forever.

2006-12-11 02:27:36 · 18 answers · asked by Shit Ban 1 in Singles & Dating

so there is a guy who is really nice and i jjust figured out he likes me.....a LOT. he is really sweet but i just dont like him that way. i tell him that but he just keeps sayin how pretty i am and stuff. u got advice???????????????

2006-12-11 02:27:24 · 9 answers · asked by all4chanel203 2 in Singles & Dating

Will this be a 1 time thing or do you see a future with them?

2006-12-11 02:26:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The more detailed you are the better the chance of getting a best answer!!! (hair, eyes, personality...

2006-12-11 02:26:19 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All the girls on this site call me a skank for getting the men all worked up. Isn't that my job as a woman? And are they jealous?

2006-12-11 02:25:04 · 32 answers · asked by Pardonne Moi? 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm 14 years old and i don't know if french kissing is a bad idea. can you tell me pls???

2006-12-11 02:25:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to show my ex how much i love her. I want to settle down and spend the rest of my life with her. I need to know how to prove this to her as we are currently not with each other and she is very confused as i have been very irratic with her. I have had a breakdown recently due to a difficult six months thanks to a guy i was sharing a flat with, who has stolen money, food and clothes from me. I have put up with this but it has caused a lot of stress and pressure on my relationship. I have been on a break with my ex when last baliffs came round and changed the locks. I then found out my flatmate had never paid the rent and had disappeared. A week later he hung himself. Since then i have become quite sick but i'm scared that it is going to take time to get better. I don't want to lose the woman i love because of stress that wasn't really to do with the relationship and that i am currently ill. What can i do so not to scare her away and convince her that we can be good for each other

2006-12-11 02:24:17 · 13 answers · asked by PottZ79 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 02:24:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Long story short . . . I am successful (lawyer), 32 years old, and not bad looking. I also have not had a serious relationship in years. Because most people assume I'm a "catch," people often think I must be gay because of my lack of relationships (I'm not). The real reason is this: I can "last" more than a minute or two in the sack. I am HORRIBLE in bed. I fear that any girl I eventually go out with is, in the end, bound to be disappointed in my abilities, so I have stopped even trying to date. Is this stupid of me? What should I do? PLease HELP!

2006-12-11 02:24:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 02:23:23 · 11 answers · asked by tcameron_2004 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend broke up w/ me 2 months ago.He never really gave me a reason.We celebrated his birthday & he said he loved(like normal)& ten 2 days later it was over.Wednesday night his mother died. I met him through her.Her and I were close friends.I met her @ work.I would have lunch w/ her 1-2 a wk for yrs. I met him about a year ago, she introduced us.I fell for him almost immediately.He is so caring & kind.He never gave me a reason for the break-up.I assumed it was b/c of his grief over his mother's cancer.Tonight, I hurt for the lose of my friend, but my heart breaks for him.I took him & his family a dinner last night.For the past 2 months though we've been apart physically but i have been going thru this w/ him. I loved her & I love him so much.I want to be there for him now in his time of need, but he shows no emotion really & I don't know what to do.The funeral was a lovely tribute to her. He kept glancing over at me. I hope that was a sign that he was glad i was there. Any Advice

2006-12-11 02:22:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in a tough situation and meed some good advice.

2006-12-11 02:22:38 · 9 answers · asked by resajohn79 3 in Marriage & Divorce

lately my girlfriend has been tryin to get back with me after she got caught cheatin and actin strange with her friends. Now she said she handled her situation with the guy and it was a mistake but shes havin problem lettin her friends go! Now before one or some of you say im controlling let me say this, Yes I want her to do away from her friends, the 2 main ones shes been hangin with lately. Why? We have been together for 4 years and of those 4 her friends have been in the picture for the last year and a half and thats when we have had most of her problems. So I am sayin they are a distraction. Also I have been savin up for an engagement rings for her but if her friends influence her and i guess its safe to say her self-control is lackin pretty bad and if her friends are a distraction and goin to hinder our relationship and marriage i think they should go. Let me know hwhat you think and if she should let the friends go, how should they be addressed?

2006-12-11 02:22:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She and I have really good rapport, and we had been friends for years before we both seemed to get more flirty. We talked about it, and since I had liked her for years, I told her she was the kind of girl I could see myself with. She then laughed everything off, and I did also because I was not looking for a relationship. Now, though, she talks and acts as if I am her boyfriend. Our friendship became closer, and she touches me a lot. She also told a group of little girls that we were together as a joke and sees other girls in my life as "competition." Have things changed? Should I confront her or let things grow??

2006-12-11 02:22:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating