so there is a guy who is really nice and i jjust figured out he likes me.....a LOT. he is really sweet but i just dont like him that way. i tell him that but he just keeps sayin how pretty i am and stuff. u got advice???????????????
2006-12-11 02:27:24 · 9 answers · asked by all4chanel203 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not gonna sugar coat this.
If the guy is stuck in the "friend zone" you have to tell him. He's spinning his wheels and you owe it to him to let him know so he doesn't waste any more time.
I know this is difficult because SOME women, not you I'm sure, like to keep these guys around for their ego. Having him compliment you, spend money on you, etc. is nice and makes you feel good and all but if you know he wants more and you can't go there then you're taking advantage of the poor guy.
And we all know you can't continue as friends. You'll lose him which is tragic but it's a lose-lose situation. The sooner the better, just get it over with.
2006-12-11 02:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by none 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the right things is that your being honest just keep on telling him your feelings toward him and that you like him only as friends and if he does really care about you he will respect that and if he cant get through his head then just don't be his friend
2006-12-11 10:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by Kstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him as a friend the best thing you could do as a friend is be honest with him. if they really like you they'd rather have you as a friend than not at all. let them know it's troubling you and let them grow out of it on they're on. i've been that guy that's only a friend and it's difficult. take it easy on him.
2006-12-11 10:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by Danny K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the compliments make you uncomfortable then tell him. As long as he understands you don't feel the same way just try and keep your friendship with him.
2006-12-11 10:31:09 · answer #4 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him in your eyes the two of you are just friends. i know its a concern that you'll risk ending a good friendship but you have to be honest rather than play along with his feelings. let him know how you feel.
2006-12-11 10:32:33 · answer #5 · answered by Miz Enriques 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friendly with him. Don't respond too much to his comments. Things will go along just fine.
2006-12-11 10:29:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth- straight away-to the point
2006-12-11 10:30:41 · answer #7 · answered by JITIN T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, STOP TALKING TO HIM, STOP ANSWERING HIS CALLS, he will go for the next pretty girl he sees very soon. NOT HARD
2006-12-11 10:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him directly that you don't like him. don't waste his time to you. he's so nice so he deserved to be liked.
2006-12-11 10:30:48 · answer #9 · answered by Strawberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋