2006-12-11 02:33:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i always have to call him... he usually never says i love you anymore unless i buy him supper or something...he doesnt kiss me unless he wants too...etc.
2006-12-11 02:42:43 · update #1
Usually if a guys taking you for granted, he's not really listening to you either.
Sit down with him and just tell him that you feel "unappreciated". Don't tell him "I think you take me for granted".... Those are more fighting words because you're placing blame on him. If you simply tell him "I feel unappreciated in this relationship".. he can't really argue with you about how you feel. He'll probably ask "why"... and you should stick to how you feel, not to what he's doing wrong.
Example... if lets say, you're doing all the housework...
Blaming way: I feel unappreciated because you don't do anything around here.
Safe way: I feel unappreciated because I do alot of work around the house, and it seems to go unnoticed.
Good luck.
Try not to start a fight though... that won't help things any!
mj
2006-12-11 02:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is what you do, just what i did, You take him back to the begining. You tell him you want to talk about old times and how you guys meet and the feelings you had, then you start throwing things in on how he mankes you feel right now, like when uyou first went out he took you out to eat, now he waits for you to take hiim out to eat. If you guys live together then when he comes home from work don't be home when he gets there, if you don't then when he calls either don't answer the phone or have someone tell him your not home make him call you! Make him chase you! Never be around when he wants you, then he will feel what it is like without you around then maybe he will know whats its like without you
2006-12-11 02:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by shelly p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Boyfriend, I think you're taking me for granted" and that should do it. There is no reason to continue being a person who does not handle this kind of thing with assertiveness, which is different than aggressiveness. You say what is on your mind and then let the other person deal with it. Don't make excuses, don't minimize it, be strong. If he doesn't hear you, change a dim bulb for a bright one.
2006-12-11 02:37:03 · answer #3 · answered by A B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in no way sense down..you're an excellent female! %. your self lower back up and keep your head up. Love or no longer you need to in no way sense as when you're being taken with no interest.. the guy in problem-free words controls you in case you let him, you're in cost of your emotions or maybe with the actual incontrovertible reality that love is complicated do not enable all people to regulate your heart yet God! you're saying you've performed demanding to get nicely do not play demanding to get initiate to locate events with a at the same time as so that you do not spend time residing on the actual incontrovertible reality that he's treating you this manner. I somewhat were the position you're those days and that i felt that way because i let myself. an excellent female to a guy is continually the prize, a sensible individual once advised me a guy may have any female contained in the international yet to stumble on an excellent female is a privilege so do not enable your self to initiate feeling as if that's your fault. good luck to you..you're an excellent female!!!
2016-11-25 20:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him your true feelings.
If he continues to do the same things afterwards, you have to move on.
If you stay in the relationship and he does not change, he will never respect you.
Stand up for yourself.
2006-12-11 02:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you think hes taking you for granted its that simple if you are right but if you are just being a spoiled brat get over your self
2006-12-11 02:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him a mix tape or CD and only put the song unappreciated by cherish on there over and over and over. He should get the point :)
2006-12-11 02:37:23 · answer #7 · answered by hot like me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him. If you don't have the nerve to do that, no wonder he's taking you for granted.
2006-12-11 02:35:33 · answer #8 · answered by BB 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell him you think he's taking you for granted, then tell him why you think that?
2006-12-11 02:35:16 · answer #9 · answered by wsguy1983 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Straight forward, but not attacking.
2006-12-11 02:39:30 · answer #10 · answered by Lil Jello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋