Long story short . . . I am successful (lawyer), 32 years old, and not bad looking. I also have not had a serious relationship in years. Because most people assume I'm a "catch," people often think I must be gay because of my lack of relationships (I'm not). The real reason is this: I can "last" more than a minute or two in the sack. I am HORRIBLE in bed. I fear that any girl I eventually go out with is, in the end, bound to be disappointed in my abilities, so I have stopped even trying to date. Is this stupid of me? What should I do? PLease HELP!
2006-12-11 02:24:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hahahahaha!!! You impotent fairy!! Maybe you can sue somebody for your small penie.
2006-12-11 05:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lot of men become fixated with the "end result" far more than they do actually enjoying making love. Some believe that this is due to frantic masturbation as a teenager whereby you almost had to rush in order not to get caught.
I'm aware that your girl knows about your worry and so ask her to help by prolonging foreplay and stimulation but slowing or ceasing when you feel the moment rise inside of you. De-sensitising yourself in this way can assist premature ejaculation as you become more adept at recognising the signs and resisting the temptation to go too far.
(If you get close to orgasm then you can always revert to using your tongue and fingers on her until you are ready to resume?)
Good luck!
2006-12-11 02:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a chance with the girls. Dont think about sex or that type of stuff. Go out and meet girls, dont think about getting rejected! Cuz what u think about will happen cuz u are letting it happen. Think postitive and it will be the best!
2006-12-11 02:29:46 · answer #3 · answered by smile114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually yes this is silly on your part. take it slower its not a race and think of something that'll distract your mind a bit. sometimes taking care of it and then going again will prolong it. read some books about the subject.
2006-12-11 02:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by KayAlley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right not to have sex with women. You need to find a woman friend who will teach you how to have sex without making women cringe. Good luck.
2006-12-11 02:28:01 · answer #5 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get on Prozac! For real, that **** will make you last a long time!
2006-12-11 02:28:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go talk to your physician..he can help you with that
2006-12-11 02:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋