There is this guy I am totally in love with. He works at my college, I told him I liked him and he said he had to remain professional at all times.. before I was a student at my college he would call and ask me how I was doing and stuff. when I would come to visit the campus he was really friendly and would sit next to me all the time. I am totally in love with him and i was wondering if there is a chance he might love me too???
Also.. Guys.. if you see a girl you really like will you go up and tell the girl or just pretend you dont see her??
I need some major help from you all.. please help.
2006-12-11 02:34:27 · 8 answers · asked by Bored&Broken 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea he might feel the same way. Jus trust ur instinct and come out with how u feel. Wat the worst that could happen. I would tell a girl I like her only if I think she likes me bac.
2006-12-11 02:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by leezymleezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the problem - he might like you, but now you are a student at the college he works at, so he probably feels that he can't date you because you're a student and he's staff and that's a conflict of interest (in other words, the school might fire him for dating you)
2006-12-11 10:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well id say you need to ask him if he has time after work to talk, sit down with him and tell him EXACTLY how you feel, because technicly you only have one chance to make a first impression (in the love sense) tell him exactly how you feel and dont hold back..(hell to this day when im really talking to my Gf expressing my feelings to her, i cry) so its just how much heart you put into it
and no way you only have one chance to live., so why pretend, or try to hid your feelings toward someone else...im an aproacher..i let people know how i feel...
hope this helps, even a little =)
2006-12-11 10:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by xotakuxotaconx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most colleges frown on employee student relationships. It could cost him his job.
Personally speaking. If she is showing signs of liking me. Sure I'll talk to her, but if she shows no signs.. then most likely I'll avoid her. Girls would be better off if they approched the guy. Guys could take forever or never. Its a rejection thing we don't like.
2006-12-11 10:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by Studio A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u must ask him abot this. It will result in two way if he loves u he will accept or if he dosent u will feel free coz any conflicting thing kept in mind makes mind more unstable. If he accepts u in first time dont belive him. Just test his attitude about u and then go forward.
BEST LUCK
2006-12-11 10:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by dipak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he a teacher? If so, he may not be able to have a relationship with you until you are finished with school.
Also, many men will not go up to a girl they like if they feel that she is "out of their league" or unobtainable. Good luck with your quest.
2006-12-11 10:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by Joe 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you have to go to a psychiatric you got a bad virus of (Love) unknown be careful this is not a easy way baby
2006-12-11 10:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by heartattack262000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure he's just trying to be nice. But if you want to know for sure, just try and seduce him in his office or invite him over or something.
2006-12-11 10:37:07 · answer #8 · answered by wsguy1983 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋