she went to her home on the pretext of assisting her parents fix her brother's marriage..( truly so) but after that instead of communicating clearly as to what is holding her back there..she is dilly dallying the issue & 'm not having a clue as to whay is she not coming ..from india & i'm alone in nigeria..
2006-12-11 02:34:41 · 7 answers · asked by pankaj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some times...what we DON"T say speaks in volumes!!!
I am not familiar with the customs of your countries...how ever there are SOME things I think that are UNIVERSAL...
We have a saying here in America that may be appropriate...
"Actions speak louder than words!" Obviously...she is NOT coming back..and I am sure you have had some clues..you just may not be willing to look at them! Let her be...and move on with your life....If she returns...so be it...she will face you then...if not...so be it...you will face it now... find some one who can appreciate you and your life together...this girl...obviously wasn't ready!!! for whatever the reasons...you can only worry about your own life..not hers!!! We each have a path to choose...and we CHOOSE when and where and WHO to share it with...she may have made the wrong choice!!! Don't stress over things that you can not control!!!
2006-12-11 02:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by photogram1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
possibly in her time away from you and discussing with brother and sister in law to help save the marriage she discovered something about herself that she isn't happy either. Give her a call and talk to her and let her know what you think you may have done wrong to have made her feel unwilling to come home.
2006-12-11 02:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by KayAlley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's over.
2006-12-11 02:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait & see.If she does not come back then move on.Good Luck
2006-12-11 02:40:36 · answer #4 · answered by Ollie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
marry a real wife
2006-12-11 02:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by rOb w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find another
2006-12-11 02:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by simon m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
face it m8, she is a lesbian..............
2006-12-15 02:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by pat.rob00 Chef U.K. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋