Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

My 'cousin' (and trust me, thats only by blood) has been staying with me for the past 3 weeks for rent free. She left her home and no one would take her in but me, the rest of the family was going to let her go to a shelter. But anyways, I had to make her leave because she was very disrespectful to me and my house. She would be in MY house talking about me on the phone to other people WHILE I was at home! She also would stay out late and wake us to get in the house, and couldnt even clean up after herself half the time. I know its the holidays, but the relationship we have has always been lopsided and I am just fed up with her. (she's the same cousin from my 2 "cousin or enemy" questions I posted) I swear I am the most kind-hearted person, especially when it comes to her. I have let her get away with leaving her kids with me, lending her money and clothes, paying her way at clubs, driving her around town, and her cussing me out for years, and I am at the end of my rope with her

2006-12-11 02:47:08 · 6 answers · asked by superbad~honeydip 4 in Family

2006-12-11 02:46:48 · 21 answers · asked by J 1 in Weddings

Though you recognize other pretty women and you tell your wife/gf to YOU she's the sexiest woman,do you mean that? Do you look at her in a different light? Or is it just bull? And does it make a difference if she is a beautiful woman or does love make it that way? If your partner is or were to be beautiful/sexy would sleeping ONLY with her be all you need (this dosent mean you dont fantasize).

2006-12-11 02:46:46 · 23 answers · asked by TrofyWife 4 in Marriage & Divorce

When giving a christmas card to a crush what should you write in it. Just seasons greetings, or my love for you burns like a thousand suns.

2006-12-11 02:46:40 · 25 answers · asked by Dreamer 4 in Singles & Dating

so I spent the weekend with my guy..and I wanted to test him to find out whether or not he is bi-sexual..so I put my fingers in his a*s..they way he does me..he didnt say anything except..you are lucky I like...the next morning he said to me dont do that sh*t again I alreay told you I dont go that way..Now would a normal guy let his girl do this...in someway I feel like I violated him..was I wrong

2006-12-11 02:46:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-11 02:46:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

together? Neither one of us has dated anyone else since the breakup. We were in separate beds, but ended up in the same bed and hugged for the longest time...and there were tears. It felt so right to be back together on my side...and I sense the same from my ex....but we didn't talk about it. Is there such thing a non verbal communication?

2006-12-11 02:46:07 · 19 answers · asked by :-) 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do people give me such a hard time about being a red head? I get called all kinds of things, usually by women while I'm out a clubs. You know the type, dyed platimun blonds standing around in groups all looking like barbie dolls and whispering and laughing at me as I walk past, god I hate them!! What is wrong with having ginger hair?

2006-12-11 02:45:43 · 31 answers · asked by Easy Rider 2 in Singles & Dating

..i know each guy is diffrent..and i know i shoudl "talk" with my bf about what he mean by what during sex....ok we did talk.. alooot ..but i have soo many questions and i don't wana sound dumb...plus i know guys are not big fans of explainig every single move they do while havog sex cause i'm guessing he;ll be more laret about it next time we're having sex...anyway so can you please tell me liek some of the hints you tell you girl so she;ll do a certain act while in bed..liek i wanna see if taht what he means by them,.. i mean i know he'll feel werid to say them out..but i realllly wanna understand.. plz help

2006-12-11 02:45:42 · 4 answers · asked by for the heck of it 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and I am really ready to get married. Or at least engaged. He says let it go with the flow becasue we haven't been together long enough. I say 3 years is long enough to know if you want to marry someone. He says 5-10 years. But I am 27 and he's 29. Come on now 10 years from now!!!! But anyway, what say you??? I really need an answer to this.

2006-12-11 02:45:17 · 12 answers · asked by Ice Queen 79 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a girl in my year, that i love but i nevertalked to her, how can i deag a conversation with her?

2006-12-11 02:45:15 · 2 answers · asked by Dr.X 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm disabled, married with 2 beautiful stepsons, 9yrs, and 8yrs old.I have asked for assistance through the normal avenues and have been turned down. My husband makes $12.00 an hour which seem like alot but it's not. I through disability make $580.00 per month. It is all we can do to pay our bills. we are told we make too much money for assistance, but they do not take into account doctor bills, and the rest. both of my boys are ADHD and our insurance is out of this world. we spend over $150.00 a month just for the boys medication, $200.00 for my medication and my husbands employer messed up our insurance by not taking the right amount out for insurance and they are now taking out double. my husband is bringing home $200.00 a week and i don't know what to do. please any advice is better than none. thanks for listening.

2006-12-11 02:44:37 · 14 answers · asked by mee2angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and if you found someone with these qualities would you then forgive greater faults because of it?

Or do you look for someone who is not so great and not so bad at the same time?

2006-12-11 02:44:23 · 17 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

My wife is quite pretty much all the time because she knows her role and what will happen if she strays from that role but every now and then she just open's her dirty female mouth and starts talking to me for no reason. I have warned her about this... I have hit her for this...sent her to counseling. I was raised a certain way, the way things should be. I am a cop by profession. As far as Im concerned no woman should be allowed to talk without being spoken too. Its just polite. If you dont let them know who their new daddy is, they think they can open their damn mouths and say what they want. Not in my house. Any suggestions guys.

2006-12-11 02:42:43 · 30 answers · asked by Sticky Icky the Wizard 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend cheated on me recently with my best friend and i go to a secondary school and i only have 2 teachers and they know and they support me but my "friend" is trying to make it my fault. because everyone is finding out about it and it's ruining her reputation. she's putting me down and making me feel like i deserved it. all i wanted was for them to feel my pain to suffer like i did and she's the one hurting me by bringing it up and using it again and again i want it all to go away.

2006-12-11 02:42:33 · 13 answers · asked by hopelessly confused 1 in Singles & Dating

creative suggestions needed

2006-12-11 02:42:18 · 10 answers · asked by Shankar Ganesh 2 in Friends

2006-12-11 02:41:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 02:41:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is an upgrade you would make?

(personally i hope you trash the whole darned cliche'd ritual in favour of something unrecogniseable, brilliant and alive !)

2006-12-11 02:41:48 · 2 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

Seriousness, my bf left me because he has the hots for the girl in Harry Potter. No, not Emma Watson, the asian chick. I didn't know whether to laugh or to be hurt. So when he said he wanted to pursue the girl who plays Cho Chang I told him I'd support him. He got kinda mad at me and stormed outta my house.

wtf? I'm sooo confused. Like, should I be hurt that he's going after a girl who wouldn't give him the time of day? And why did he get mad at me anyways? And how am I supposed to feel that I'm now "competing" against an HP chick? haha

all jokes aside...this really happened xD

2006-12-11 02:39:52 · 9 answers · asked by Jenny Frick-shun 1 in Singles & Dating

a mistress after 10 or more years of being in a sucessful marriage? It would decrease the divorce rate and keep wives from getting fat and out of shape.

2006-12-11 02:39:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hi,,,how should you handle a relationship when u know that ur not the only gf of ur bf?and worse when his other gf is nearer , i mean when ur miles a way from him,how can u deal with it?

2006-12-11 02:39:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have an awful time with my husband. He keeps telling, and showing me that wives are supposed to obey their husbands, or submit. I know what the Bible says to do. I believe, that men from the beginning of the courtship, show respect for that woman's feelings, and wants, and needs. She then in turn sees that in him, and greatly respects, and is proud of that man. Then when she sees that in him, she gives her all to that marriage. My husband wants to turn it all around, and thinks she obeys him first, then all is well. I am getting frustrated, unhappy, and tired. We have been just about seperated since we married. Two years! I have been told, my husband does not have Jesus in his heart, from a pastor. My husband says he is a christian. He is 50, and said his mother always did what his father said. Do I have to live that way in our marriage? I feel like he is childish. All we do mostly, is argue! Any help or suggestions?

2006-12-11 02:39:24 · 10 answers · asked by cupcake32 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Anyone here can give me suggestions on which breath mints or gums are best? I'm going to have a kiss and I dont want to scar off the person I'll be kissing. I dont want my breath to be the worst. I brush and floss but I feel that it wont be enough, besides, I'll probably wont have time to brush or floss when I go for the kiss. Being that it'll be unexpected and when the mood is right. please help. thanks a bunch everyone.

2006-12-11 02:38:22 · 10 answers · asked by amy_s03 1 in Singles & Dating

I FELL IN LOVE WITH MY CLOSE FRIEND SHE SAID YES FOR MY SAKE BUT THINGS COULDN'T FALL IN RIGHT PLACE AND RELATION FALL APART. SHE FOUND LOVE OF HER LIFE AND NOW I M NOT EVEN HER FRIEND. SHALL I APOLOGIES AND ASK HER TO BE FRIENDS AGAIN? CAN WE MAKE UP AGAIN?

2006-12-11 02:38:15 · 9 answers · asked by madyrulz 1 in Friends

i wrote : if I had a blank piece of paper I would send it to you cause you are the only one who can read my silence !
his answer : and because I can read your silence loneliness will never be an issue !

what do you think about this ?

2006-12-11 02:38:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just wanted to tell ya'll that me and K are still friends and that we worked it all out...
Me and the guy are still talking but that is okay...
Me and K and C understand each other now thanks for all of ya'lls help!!!
J-Lynn >_0

2006-12-11 02:38:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hyderabad,india

2006-12-11 02:37:51 · 8 answers · asked by RAVI v 1 in Friends

I planned to say something to my crush the next time I see him at my lesson on Wednesday, but I saw him and ran off. I don't know whether he saw. Do you think a christmas card would make this better?

2006-12-11 02:37:15 · 18 answers · asked by Dreamer 4 in Singles & Dating

she is a very sweet person amnd if u ask her what she wants she will just say "u dont need 2 get me nething" and she wont tell u! it drives me crazy but ne way how can i find out what she wants w/o being captain obvious?

2006-12-11 02:35:49 · 4 answers · asked by Muhh-liss-Uhh 2 in Other - Family & Relationships