so I spent the weekend with my guy..and I wanted to test him to find out whether or not he is bi-sexual..so I put my fingers in his a*s..they way he does me..he didnt say anything except..you are lucky I like...the next morning he said to me dont do that sh*t again I alreay told you I dont go that way..Now would a normal guy let his girl do this...in someway I feel like I violated him..was I wrong
2006-12-11 02:46:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks for great answers
2006-12-11 03:44:47 · update #1
Some straight men enjoy this, they even *** harder.
2006-12-11 02:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Libralov3, just because a guy likes anal does NOT mean he's gay - so that didn't 'prove' anything! If a guy likes anal sex, or any other kind of sex WITH ANOTHER GUY he's gay. If he likes anal sex, or any other kind of sex WITH A GIRL, he's straight.
Men have something called a "prostate" it's a gland at the base of the penis that our urethra (the hole at the end of the penis) runs through. It creates the fluid that allows the sperm to flow out of our testicles and into you.
When that gland is stimulated, men get really excited.
And, the only way to reach that gland from the outside is through the butt.
So, when anybody, male female or whatever, stimulates that gland, the man will get a hardon and get really horny on the spot.
This can even happen when a man goes to the doctor and gets a prostate exam!
Now, your man got upset when you put your fingers up his butt because, like you, he thinks a man liking anal penetration is automatically gay. It's not - but he doesn't know that, and neither do you, apparently.
So, you put your finger up his butt - and you're a woman and you're probably very attractive (I'm sure he thinks that you are, after all, you're his woman!) so he probably really got turned on by you stimulating him like that.
But then, he got scared the next day, because he thought it was gay - and he was afraid YOU would think he's gay and would leave him - that's why he blew up at you!
Tell him you don't think he's gay or bi - and that you liked stimulating his butt the same way he stimulates yours - you guys will open up a world of pleasure that you never knew existed (and there isn't one 'gay' thing about it!)
Now, if you really want to see if your man has homosexual tendencies, you can "test" him by "accidentally" renting a gay porn video from the store and then putting it in the DVD player and turning it on. Act all shocked, like you brought the wrong DVD - if he still wants to watch it, he might be gay or bi.
Or, you can ask a gay guy you know and trust to make a pass at him while you're ot around (this could be a little dangerous if your man is prone to violence or has a bad temper!) - if he's willing to get with that guy in a sexual way, he is definitely bi or gay.
But just because he gets off when you play with his butt does NOT make him gay! It makes him a healty male with a functioning prostate!
2006-12-11 03:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's nothing.You have to adjust your mouth,the speed of air blown out and the position of your hand. The air,in a particular speed is cut by the fingers in your mouth and thus produces the whistling sound.If the air is cut with a sword a 'whoof' sound is produced.The whistling sound is produced in a similar way.
2016-05-23 05:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its normal...try doing it while giving him fellatio...they always say they dont go that way because "there a man" and think its wrong..but once you get your finger up in there and going at it with the oral...He likes it...I know it feels good and know they enjoy it also...and there is nothing wrong with it...he is not gay...its where there g-spot is on a guy....
2006-12-11 02:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well personal experience all guys dont act that way...while some just flat out said no...but maybe he is uncomfortable about it. Maybe while its happening its ok, but the next morning he tells you he doesnt like it so maybe your wont go telling people about it or assuming anything else...ya kno? keepin his manly side, but i dont think you violated him, if he really didnt like it..it would have stopped as soon as it happened.
2006-12-11 02:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by Nisey B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some straight guys like a finger or 2 in the bum. It feels good to some people. I don't like it done to me though...very uncomfortable. I think that your bf really really liked it but is scared to admit because he may think that makes him gay which it doesn't.
2006-12-11 02:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by Kokolicious06 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he probably wanted to tell u to stop then but he felt as though he didnt want to make a big deal so u all could finish having sex. so he said something the next morning. say u sorry and dont do it again...
2006-12-11 02:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by aflyladybug4u 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just because he liked it dosent meand he is bi. It feels good to men regardless if they are bi. Tell him you know he does not go that way and that you liked it so he will feel free to do it again.
2006-12-11 02:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by angie a 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he let you then it's not violating him,, i ahve toyed with wifes *** and she has with mine,, some men think it's ok as long as it is just a tounge of finger tip,,, and some won't ever admit it
2006-12-11 02:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by Rooster 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys will do almost anything just to get some as$
2006-12-11 02:54:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He doesn't like it so don't do it. You'd never hear me complain about a guy not wanting my adoreable lil' fingers in his stanky rectum.
2006-12-11 02:49:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋