my boyfriend cheated on me recently with my best friend and i go to a secondary school and i only have 2 teachers and they know and they support me but my "friend" is trying to make it my fault. because everyone is finding out about it and it's ruining her reputation. she's putting me down and making me feel like i deserved it. all i wanted was for them to feel my pain to suffer like i did and she's the one hurting me by bringing it up and using it again and again i want it all to go away.
2006-12-11 02:42:33 · 13 answers · asked by hopelessly confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just forget about it, she wasn't a good friend to begin with and he wasnt a good boyfriend either. Be happy that you are out of this relationship if he cheated now with your friends he was going to do it eventually or maybe already has.
Get over it you know its not your fault ignore it and move on there more important things to worry about then this.
Good Luck
2006-12-11 02:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by Sugar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, that friend really wasn't your friend to begin with. I bet if you really think about your friendship, you'll probably see many more times when she was inconsiderate of your feelings. Your best bet would be to let both the cheater and your so called friend go. They belong together. There are other people out there who will treat you better than they did. Your so called friend ruined her own reputation by being a ho. So don't let her put this off on you. It had nothing to do with you. They were both selfish and thinking about nobody but themselves. You deserve better.
2006-12-11 10:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by DeeDee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what you do. If you still like this boy then make him jealous , find another guy that doesen't go to your school make them all wonder what he is like and don't give information about him that will let everybody know that you have moved on and that they are not worth your time, Then this girl was never your friend so break off all communcation with herfind new ones ones you can trust make her feel like the B&*^h
2006-12-11 10:52:13 · answer #3 · answered by shelly p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is hook up with your boyfriends best friend. that way you will also create a bad reputation for yourself, then you will understand you best friend better and understand exactly how she is feeling. then the two of you will be a team and you can compete for the title of "biggest hussy in school". come up with a cute name for your team like 'the shinanigans' and you can share precious moments together like when you are both knocked up and selling your *** for a quick buck.
just kidding! she is no friend and your man is no good. let them be. you are better than that. your best friend will be the one sellin her *** to support her kids. although if you dont wisen up a bit, it will probably be your man that will be payin her for some action. steer clear of the losers and man stealers
2006-12-11 10:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by *juicyjellybean* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop them both. Who needs enemies with friends like that. You don't need to call a gal like that a friend and the guy was never really yours if he is going with another.
Move on and let the two of them have one another.
2006-12-11 10:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell that sorry thing to hit the door and dont let it hit his but when he leaves. Dont let him tell you that its youre fault, where you there when he cheated? No and did you force him to do this. I feel in my heart that you derserve better than this. I think that if he cheated on you now he will do it again. You derserve better.
2006-12-11 10:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by karen v 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, she wasn't your friend if she did that to you and secondly, if you don't want to have things spread, then you shouldn't have talked about it in the first place..but it wasn't your fault about the cheating but if someone brings it up, change the subject
and if you haven't dumped him yet, you should, he's a loser
2006-12-11 10:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i once found out my ex was cheating with a friend of mine, but they didnt know i knew, so i snuck in to his house with his best friend and taped us doing it on his bed, then i left a note on the tape saying "i'm sorry I want you back" just so he'd watch it. hehe, ok thats a bit extreme i know but it was funny as hell!
2006-12-11 10:46:17 · answer #8 · answered by theburlaces 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
personally, me i am a zero tollerance for cheating, id kick his *** to the curb, thats one of the worst things you can do in a relationship... Try talking to him, and especially since its your bestfriend,
its takes two main things to maintain a healthy relationship,
COMMUNICATION AND TRUST, and you cant have one without the other, yano?
hope this helps and good luck !
2006-12-11 10:46:51 · answer #9 · answered by xotakuxotaconx 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just kick the *** of the cheater and try to explain everyone that is not ur fault
2006-12-11 10:45:32 · answer #10 · answered by *niki loves all god* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋