hi,,,how should you handle a relationship when u know that ur not the only gf of ur bf?and worse when his other gf is nearer , i mean when ur miles a way from him,how can u deal with it?
2006-12-11 02:39:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm, actually long-distance relationships don't exactly suck. Just make sure you call him every now and then, and visit him whenever you have the opportunity to.
Relax, I'm a victim of long-distance relationships too..
2006-12-11 02:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by Jayden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well depending on how deep your relationship is...you need to confront him and let him know that you are very much so aware that your not the only one...then tell him how you feel...and depending also on what kind of female you are...see whether u wanna stay with him or move on...and if u decide that u do want to give him another chance to be faithful..then tell him how its gotta be. But honestly...if it was me and i knew I wasn't the only one...thats not a good situation and I would prob. just let him know that I know and then not give him a choice or chance to make it right...b/c thats just not right at all!
Good Luck!
2006-12-11 10:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the dog. why do you want to be with him anyway? i mean, i know it's easier said than done, trust me i've been there many times. but you just gotta sever the tie fast! quick like a bandaid. it'll hurt at first, but you'll soon realize you made the right decision. he's a **** head that doesn't deserve either one of you girls, but if she's stupid and still wants to hang around, then they're a match made in heaven
2006-12-11 10:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by theburlaces 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know i couldn't, and i don't think you will be able to either, that fact that you're questioning it says so. Why would you want to be with a guy who does not want to be faithfull to you? Don't you think you deserve better? I do!! Did he tell you that he had another gf? or did you somehow find out?
2006-12-11 10:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by xhoneybeex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to end the relationship. If you are not the only one then worrying about him with someone else is going to drive you crazy. If its meant to be let him go because he will be back, but during this time explore date new people so when your 30 you won't regret it.
2006-12-11 10:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by Queenayn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats simple, get rid of him, and find someone new, if you're not the only one you cant be THE ONE so what is the point? If i were gettin played like that by some girl i'd sure get rid of her, i just believe that is one person or someone else, not both
2006-12-11 10:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by do_sctc145 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like a bad habit. Why would you want to share yourself with another one? Don't deal with it, find a boyfriend who will be loyal to ONLY to you.
2006-12-11 10:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by nowhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to deal.
Girl, Kick him to the curb.
Let him go, and find some fun and another man.
2006-12-11 10:42:59 · answer #8 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun there are more fish in the sea dump him and find someone who want to spend all their time with you, not someone else I'm sure you are better then that.
2006-12-11 10:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by cinpooh44 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, relax.
just take more time to get closer to him, write to him more often, meet more, sms more( do not mess up)
Invite him over
ask his likes, dislikes
if need be change a little for him
THIS shall work magic for you
2006-12-11 10:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by s a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋