Though you recognize other pretty women and you tell your wife/gf to YOU she's the sexiest woman,do you mean that? Do you look at her in a different light? Or is it just bull? And does it make a difference if she is a beautiful woman or does love make it that way? If your partner is or were to be beautiful/sexy would sleeping ONLY with her be all you need (this dosent mean you dont fantasize).
2006-12-11 02:46:46 · 23 answers · asked by TrofyWife 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Lets clarify
I know every1 looks/fantasizes,thats not the question.
2006-12-11 02:52:43 · update #1
Personality has a lot to do with what one considers beautiful. It doesn't matter how aesthetically pleasing (pretty) someone is if they have a dull or annoying personality.
I firmly believe that my wife is the most beautiful woman I've ever met. I love who she is and what she looks like. I'm not ignorant though and know that the way people appear changes with time. But no matter how she appears on the outside, I will always see the beauty of her personality whenever I look at her. She will always be beautiful in my eyes.
There is NO excuse for cheating on the person you claim to love. NONE! Doing so is morally wrong and disrespectful to the person you love. If you care so little about a person to go out and cheat on them, then you do not understand what the ideals of "love" and "respect" are.
2006-12-11 02:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you heard the story of a beautiful queen who had a mirror on the wall and used to ask it whether she was the most beautiful one in the world and the mirror would tell her that she is the most beautiful one? This kind of insecurity is the weakness of some women.
Every year there is a new Miss Universe and Miss World. We all know that and do you think that any woman will always remain the most beautiful for years to come?
What a man is telling is that you are THE woman in his life. It is not bull. He is romantic and poetic when he uses superlatives because words are insufficient to express what a man feels in his heart. Love is the most important factor in maintaining a strong relationship.
Sleeping is NOT the only need. There are emotional needs too. We want to be treated like a prince and we look at you as if you are a princess. Nice loving words of warmth and encouragement are cherished for a very long time. Companionship for 23 hours is as important as one hour of sex. Respect and trust are important too.
2006-12-11 14:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by StraightDrive 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do think my wife is the sexist woman alive. We both are 45 and I think she's a knock out. If I did not know her, I would try my best to get her phone number.
My Godess has put on a few pounds but they all landed in the right places. She still looks like she has very soft smooth skin (and she does), a figure women 20 years younger would be envious of and a face only an angel could have.
She is the only woman I need to satisfy me sexually. My libido has not decreased like many say a man of my age should have. I want her as much as she can give and would wake her up with me in her special place if I could.
Nope, when I tell my wife she's beautyful I mean it with all my heart!
2006-12-11 14:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No love is blind. I thought my wife was the most beautiful woman in the world, sexy and alluring. She had an affair and left me. Now when I see her she isn't ravishing, sexy or attractive at all. With the love gone the blinders came off. I wish I could see her that way still, but I think it is for the best that I don't. I would have been happy to sleep with only her for the rest of my life.
2006-12-11 11:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by Johnboy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy, do we have some insecurity issues? I can see other prettier and/or sexier women but I still tell my wife that she is THE prettiest and sexiest to me and I mean it. The same way she can look at another guy and think the same.
Real love goes WAY beyond the physical part. There will always be someone prettier and sexier, if you think like this the rest of your life you will never be happy and you will always be insecure. When you make love to someone and you really love him/her it does not matter what they look like because you are not just having sex, you are giving each other all your love.
2006-12-11 11:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by nowhere 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a man, we will look and that is ok as long as there is no lust. God created some awesome "looking" women. It is not always about the looks of a women when a relationship is started. Anyway, I would say that some men just notice the women and others truly do think about how good she wold be at ****. I know my eyes are caught by the beauty of women but there is no lust. My lust for a women is strictly for my wife. And yes, I have a gorgeous women for a wife.
2006-12-11 11:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by Notta 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it varies from man to man, but I think true love means you appreciate the person you're with far more than the aesthetic qualities they have. I also think most (though, not all) women want to be validated by their partner that they are physically appealing to them. Why? I think that most men have an inherent "hunter's" instinct that causes their attention to wander, which is als why I think both people in a relationship have to keep the other interested.
I do find my wife to be the sexiest woman to me, although quite attractive, she has other qualities that appeal to me much more than a skirt across the way. There is some emotional attachment that makes your partner appealing, but it also has a lot to do with her WANTING me to be attracted to her. That's almost paramount...
2006-12-11 10:51:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are all kinds of beautiful women. My wife is the most beautiful woman when it comes to her...Get it. No one should compare themeselves to another. What I'm trying to say is that no one is more beautiful than my wife because my wife is beautiful in her own right. And so is every woman. So we do mean it when we say it. We men appreciate beautiful women, because they are all different in their own respect. Men don't compare a woman's beauty to the extent that women do. That's why women always compare themsleves to other women. Stop.
2006-12-11 10:53:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally if I notice other women, I don't stare and gawk at them. To me my wife is the sexiest woman I know. Because I find my wife sexy in other ways than what I see on the outside.
2006-12-12 21:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When a man is in love with his wife, he might see other beatuiful women, after all women are not invisible. He will see the other women as just an attractive women. He is already in love with his wife so he will not fall, too easily in love with another women. Its kind of he sees other women like his sister. A man that is in love with his wife will no give his wife BULL and he will respect his marriage by not telling his wife of his thoughts about other women. The answer is beauty only allows itself to be seen but love you see it within.
2006-12-11 11:03:02 · answer #10 · answered by bankone1111 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋