If u was with your mate, and things happened and broke up..now u r back together and love eachother now.. can u forget about the past?
2006-12-11 01:36:42 · 17 answers · asked by nene 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you will never forget about the past, but you can move on and learn from it.
2006-12-11 01:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you can never "forget" the past, but if (very big word) you are totally "willing to"FORGIVE" the past and NOT bring it up ever again unless there is a repeat of the ????? past actions then you will NEVER get over it!!!! It is only when you are willing to "FORGIVE" the past and move forward inspite of the the past that the relationship will survive!!! Good luck Good love!
2006-12-11 09:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by xxx69forall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my bfriend had mad problems in the past. we broke up and now were back together and every time we fight I do bring up the past. I feel really bad because he wants to forget and i have a really hard time forgetting.
2006-12-11 09:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by little_gizmo2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and why should I ? The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. I guess maybe when enough time has passed that there is a new past to look at then it might be possible.
2006-12-11 09:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never really forget, since what ever happened made you who you are today... The best thing is to learn from it and move forward.
2006-12-11 09:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by Mechelle C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to forget the past. Start new one, it's better
2006-12-11 09:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by Diar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The past will normally come back to haunt you.
Look at the reasons that you broke up with him before. Are those same problems still issues for you? If so, then chances are they will continue to plague you.
2006-12-11 09:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about future,u will forget past.
2006-12-11 09:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't believe we should forget about the past, rather learn from it yet not dwell on it, if that makes any sense?
2006-12-11 09:39:33 · answer #9 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because of coures it is always going to be there but you guys should talk about why you broke up in the first place it could give clousure
2006-12-11 09:39:24 · answer #10 · answered by sexy_happy_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋