And everybody hates you?
2006-12-11 02:06:04 · 27 answers · asked by Mariah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I've never had it happen to me. I've never hated everything and everybody and nobody hates me.
Sounds like you need therapy!
2006-12-11 02:08:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 7⤋
u dont hate everything, everybody, and not everybody hates u! For everything there is something out there u do and will enjoy, everybody sweetie umm there are people things that u love and love u back it takes time to search for those kind of things! Dont worry about everyone else think about what do u want and enjoy and do it. Theres a reason for u to be here and u need to take soul searching I asked the same question years ago and I found it but I lost it again and now im searching again moving away to find out where I belong! Do the same, and good luck sweetie
2006-12-11 02:10:20 · answer #2 · answered by smile114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, honey, it can't be that bad can it? Well, you might try looking at your life objectively to see why it is you really feel this way. Do you hate everything and everybody because you think everybody hates you? If that's it, then you need to start loving yourself because that shows to everyone. If you love yourself others will too. Then if you hate everything and everybody around you and you can, then you should probably make major changes in your playground and playmates. Do your parents hate you? Do your brothers and sisters hate you?
Really, you do need to remember that the easiest thing to do is change your life because all you have to do is change your mind and then you'll see that the things you struggle against are really nothing.
2006-12-11 02:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by A B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe everybody hates you because of your attitude. But everybody is a lot of people. Are you sure there isn't even one person who kind of likes you?
Then change your attitude. Go to the mall or somewhere where there are a lot of people, and begin by smiling. Everyone will smile back. Then say hello and smile. Everyone will say hello and smile back.
You will get back whatever you give out. So if you are giving out hatred, then you may be receiving hatred in return.
Try it. What do you have to lose. After all, you think everybody already hates you.
2006-12-11 02:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by Momma Jo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the kids song suggested to go eat worms...but I have a different suggestion:
Start looking for the positive instead of the negative in things.
Sure, the negative is always there. But so is the positive. It is all a matter of where you CHOOSE to look.
People need a reason to hate..or even dislike. Find out what those reasons are and see if you can change them for the better.
It is tough to hate everyone if they all love you...the inverse is also true: It is hard for anyone to hate you, if you love them.
Due to circumstances beyond your control, YOU are the master of your fate, and the victim of your decisions.
2006-12-11 02:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by Lord L 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I like to journal. It helps get out all of the things I'd say if I wasn't afraid of hurting someone's feelings! When you go back and read it all over, it's not usually as bad as it seemed. Sometimes you can even laugh at it! There are a TON of online journals you can use! Yahoo has Yahoo 360- you already have a Yahoo log in name so setting up an account would be easy!
2006-12-11 02:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by Breezy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get an attitude adjustment.
What is wrong in your life that you are so hateful? Are you being abused, emotionally or physically now? Or in the past? Did people treat you like crap in the past, so that is what you expect now and you treat them like crap first? Have you surrounded yourself with negative, energy-draining people?
Have you seen a medical doctor or a therapist? Perhaps you have a chemical imbalance that needs treatment. Perhaps your past has created issues needing resolution or your personality/habits needs some adjustment. Perhaps you need to move, reinvent yourself, and start over.
Please see your doctor. Please realize that only YOU have the power to make yourself and your life work for you. If you are not happy, find a way to change your circumstances. You can do it!
2006-12-11 02:10:30 · answer #7 · answered by Karen L 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i get really depressed like that a lot. Eventually something positive will happen to bring you out of this slump for you to realise that not everyone are jerks and there are people who are actually caring and nice and will help you without you being indebted to them. by indebted I mean by you paying back more than you took, not just financially but even emotionally. I cry alot when I feel this way and scream a lot and push people away.
2006-12-11 02:12:03 · answer #8 · answered by KayAlley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont think like that...Dont think everybody hates you.There are many people around who love us.And many more whom we love...
Just close your eyes and think for a moment........
2006-12-11 03:13:14 · answer #9 · answered by shreya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm... change... just look the beautiful things around us... but not superficial things look at the animals or listen some musik it help a lot... But dont let the music control you ...
2006-12-11 02:12:17 · answer #10 · answered by klau 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure not everyone hates you. you have to love yourself before anyone else can love you. you have to think good things about yourself. you need to examine why your so down on yourself and others?
2006-12-11 02:08:54 · answer #11 · answered by avalon123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋