i work with a white guy and when he first met me he was very stand offish once he got to know me we became very close. i'm actually very shy and was a little uncormfortable with the way he was around me.
2006-12-11 02:02:43 · 9 answers · asked by ponypuffgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for the record its not a race thing he actually told me that it was because he had never spoken to a black girl and thought i would be mean. i'm not usually one to play the race card ever!! i was just wondering thats all.
2006-12-11 02:10:03 · update #1
First, you should know that not all white guys or people think this. That having been said, I can tell you that I'm a black girl and alot of time other black girls are mean to me. It's not a secret that many black women do pack ALOT of attitude. I understand the reasons why in many cases, but I can also understand why people who are quick to let specific situations predict all behavior would be wary, especially if they knew a black woman before who wasn't pleasant. I'm glad that in your case you proved the stereotype wrong and came out of it with a friend.
2006-12-11 02:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by Kim G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they think counter clockwise in other words if a black man is this mean their women aren' as soft. and u gotta admit anyways that even most black women are very mean, why a will tell u why for most of us black people we were brought up in de hoods where in this hoods white people were hated why they got better jobs and lifestyles than the black man and if a brotha or sista wanted a job no white man would hire most of em for they were scared. now our brothas and sistas are educated since the phrase" sistas been doing they thang ba they own." so to answer ya q maybe they afraid dat you have been soo educated you scare them. tell u de truth once a black man/woman puits they mind to somen' they accomplish. have fun am done.
denial is not a river in egypt.
2006-12-11 10:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by kajitu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you first met him how did you hold yourself?
Did you send out a defensive vibe or display an attitude? Being shy has nothing to do with it. Are you friendly?
Maybe his reflection on to you was the same as you on to him? Since you two are " very close " you should be asking him this question.
2006-12-11 10:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by Studio A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Not all white guys are threatned or whatever by black girls
2. Perhaps he was feeling you and was shy about it
3. Perhaps he thought he wsa outta your league
4. Perhaps he was just consentrating on work (not the socialble type--until he gets to know you)
5. Perhaps your over analyzing
2006-12-11 10:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by Chasity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know, I've known plenty of black girls... Only one scared me, but that was because she did martial arts... :D
But by and large, I love black girls... And the sex is GREAT!!! :D Just like it is with white girls and Asian girls and Oriental girls... ;)
2006-12-11 10:06:58 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it probably had nothing to do with color, it probably had to do with the fact that some men are quite shy about approaching any woman
2006-12-11 10:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think they feel that way. It's probably that they might be aliitle uncomfortable with you if you are especially pretty.
2006-12-11 10:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get over the color of your skin thing
2006-12-11 10:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is all about the RACE thing......................
2006-12-11 10:07:02 · answer #9 · answered by unnoneuser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋