i got pregnant when i was 17 and we were a childhood sweetheart but he left me coz he migrate in states.i was young then and its easy for me to forget and forgive him.and he had livein partner in states and they had a baby.after 6yrs 2002 we saw each other again and he said that he left the girl.no doubt im still inluv with for da sake of my son but we got married but he went back to states to fix our petition.but i found out this MAY that after our marriage he still living with his partner in states and have another baby.and last yr he wants to divorce me bcoz da girl wants to.he choose that girl but that time i ddnt know da situation but he found out girl cheating.he came back to again and said sori i though i did sumting wrong.but few months ago he wants to break up with me again and her mom told me everthing behind i was shocked coz i trust him so much.he wants to come back to me again but i made a decision to stop between us.i admit im still inluv with him.we have two kids.HELP
2006-12-11 02:08:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
LIKE I HAVE BEEN STATING...YOU HAVE POSTED THIS MANY TIMES FOR MANY WEEKS, 16X WITH DIFFERENT HEADINGS!. IT IS TIME TO SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP FOR YOUR CHILDREN'S SAKE. ONE WHO SPECIALIZES IN WOMAN'S ISSUES AND FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS. YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN DO NOT DESERVE A "MAN" WHO IS SELFISH AND AMORALISTIC. I AM SO VERY SORRY YOU ARE IN SO MUCH PAIN. PLEASE TRY TO HAVE A GOOD HOLIDAY FOR YOUR CHILDREN'S SAKE. PEACE TO YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN!
2006-12-12 03:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by brxny2000 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
So he's leading a double life. Why would you want him if he is cheating on you and lying to you? Is this because you have two children by him? He does not sound trust worthy. Try to end this relationship with him and find someone who is worthy of your love. You are too young to keep allowing him to play "love" games with you. I bet he comes to you only for the sex. Let him go honey and move on. He is not worth your time.
2006-12-11 10:15:43 · answer #2 · answered by beautyofthesea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this the kind of life you want? being 2nd best?
move on and find a real man, this guy is using you.
I call it door mat syndrome. letting him walk all over you.
get some self esteem.
2006-12-11 10:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is using you in the worst way dump him
2006-12-11 10:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋